GHKPM WU and Daily discussion thread no 41. | DT p. 140 - Page 109

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

I don't know why Virat was beating his hands on the wall

He should've hit a glass window or jump through it so he can feel

the pain 😡

Pulkit was so right Sai experience mental harassment

Or he should hit didi's head and admit in the next room 😉

I know all are happy with Pulkit and I'm happy with him too

but Sai has helped him about a 100 times, so he just repay

2 so he still owes her 98 favors 🤣

Originally posted by: vivpri

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Originally posted by: tptwi

His actions weren't justified, but he was acting in a fit of impulsivity and did not even understand what he himself was doing. Nothing he said nor did was intentional. He was quite literally out of his mind. That is what happens when you let your insecurities get bottled up inside of you and don't address them for so long. His fear of losing Sai and not being enough for her overclouded everything. Today, he himself realized his mistake without anyone else needing to tell him a single thing. He himself did not understand how those words could even come out of his mouth, and he took the entire blame for her accident upon himself. He was a man who was entirely broken...entirely shattered. No one deserves to watch the love of their life, the person they care about in this entire world, on the verge of death. Absolutely no one.

I'm not justifying what he did, but his state today was entirely justified. And people are allowed to make mistakes and grow from them. He is going to have to live with this for the rest of his life. Even once Sai forgives him, he won't be able to forgive himself.

You are right 100% Bloody me... i just thought it's all his s*xual frustration 🤦

DT reminder

Guys,

kindly refrain from namecalling i.e. Pulkit as Foolkit.

Regards

GHKPM DT

Originally posted by: tptwi

His actions weren't justified, but he was acting in a fit of impulsivity and did not even understand what he himself was doing. Nothing he said nor did was intentional. He was quite literally out of his mind. That is what happens when you let your insecurities get bottled up inside of you and don't address them for so long. His fear of losing Sai and not being enough for her overclouded everything. Today, he himself realized his mistake without anyone else needing to tell him a single thing. He himself did not understand how those words could even come out of his mouth, and he took the entire blame for her accident upon himself. He was a man who was entirely broken...entirely shattered. No one deserves to watch the love of their life, the person they care about in this entire world, on the verge of death. Absolutely no one.

I'm not justifying what he did, but his state today was entirely justified. And people are allowed to make mistakes and grow from them. He is going to have to live with this for the rest of his life. Even once Sai forgives him, he won't be able to forgive himself.

what virat did to sai no one can do because no other person is her husband. His insecurities are different from others. His love for her is also different from others. So no one can understand his pain, except his wife. Sai understood his insecurities well. I m actually shocked that she was apprehensive about letting AJ into the room. She rightly pointed out that virat was losing mind in his jealousy. So she understands him but could not assure him in a way that a wife should because she has her own hurdles to cross. All the people who blame virat today, and rightly so come from the place of protectiveness, brotherly love and parental love. They do not understand his fears because his fears comes from ‘possession’. He is protective of her but also possessive of her. Possession becomes rightful ownership if they had the trust in their marriage and security of their love. Without it possessiveness looks like trying to control. So no one can understand virats feelings now hence cannot comfort him.

I think pulkit understands his pain because he has been a lover and lost his love. He is angry now but he will be the peacemaker too! And sai, no wonder the only word that melts her is not his sorry but him saying he bacame possessive of her. ( from KD)

I m not saying what virat said is right. I am only trying to understand virats pain here. Because today’s episode portrayed it beautifully. His thrashing the wall when pulkit said he cannot meet sai shows the pain of losing his right over her, when he by all means holds all the the rights on her 🥺. He brought himself to that level and he knows only he is responsible for that 😒

No one told Pakhi Didi anything still not even Mohit why she has to get escape all the time. n Virat can be best friend with his ex lover but sai can't have college friend also what double standard Ninad beta he is. I don't expectations from him to tell KBA anythingeveen now won't be surprise if tmrw he cried on her shoulder when Sai says I don't want to meet him he couldn't even tell KBA to shut up one time even today to keep her mouth shut n get lost from hospital n everyone in that sada hua family feel nothing wrong in Pakhi forcing ajinkya to go to bedroom how funny they are Bhavani is most wocked person in th house n thnx god Ninad is now keeping mourh shut atleast one less nonsense person

Originally posted by: tptwi

His actions weren't justified, but he was acting in a fit of impulsivity and did not even understand what he himself was doing. Nothing he said nor did was intentional. He was quite literally out of his mind. That is what happens when you let your insecurities get bottled up inside of you and don't address them for so long. His fear of losing Sai and not being enough for her overclouded everything. Today, he himself realized his mistake without anyone else needing to tell him a single thing. He himself did not understand how those words could even come out of his mouth, and he took the entire blame for her accident upon himself. He was a man who was entirely broken...entirely shattered. No one deserves to watch the love of their life, the person they care about in this entire world, on the verge of death. Absolutely no one.

I'm not justifying what he did, but his state today was entirely justified. And people are allowed to make mistakes and grow from them. He is going to have to live with this for the rest of his life. Even once Sai forgives him, he won't be able to forgive himself.

That's the story of Virat life, nothing he does is intentional. But he does it over and over and over

since the beginning of this show with no growth. His first impulsiveness was falling for a woman

he didn't even know, and then telling his wife not to expect anything for him cause he give his heart to someone else.

He man handle Sai when she wanted to go to professor house for lunch, then he tell the house no one

will feed Sai, then he locks Sai out of the house. All done out impulsive, childish tantrums. Now he accusing Sai of being characterless and now she's between life and death.

This is a form of abuse and Mohit was right if Sai parents were alive would Virat bully and try

to control Sai the way he does, and then apologize and in the next breath do the same thing again

but each time his impulsive acts are the expense of Sai life

So for now Virat is spoil man child, and him beating the wall and crying, it doesn't move

me like like that Thing lazy acting

The only things going on didi' mind rn

Main Sai ko Virat ke zindagi se nikaal dungi.

Virat mere liye itna nahi roya jitna Sai ke liye Ro raha hai.

Mujhe Mohit ko rokhna hoga, woh saari baatein sach jo keh raha hai.

Agar Shivani rishte se Maasi na hoti, toh main unhe apni amrit chai pilaa kar maar daalti.

Ninad Mama ne mujhe dhoka diya.

Itne din toh chup thi, ab achanak se Samrat ki maa muh kyu khol rahi hai...

DIDI, PLEASE GO GET A LIFE

Originally posted by: sadiltl

what virat did to sai no one can do because no other person is her husband. His insecurities are different from others. His love for her is also different from others. So no one can understand his pain, except his wife. Sai understood his insecurities well. I m actually shocked that she was apprehensive about letting AJ into the room. She rightly pointed out that virat was losing mind in his jealousy. So she understands him but could not assure him in a way that a wife should because she has her own hurdles to cross. All the people who blame virat today, and rightly so come from the place of protectiveness, brotherly love and parental love. They do not understand his fears because his fears comes from ‘possession’. He is protective of her but also possessive of her. Possession becomes rightful ownership if they had the trust in their marriage and security of their love. Without it possessiveness looks like trying to control. So no one can understand virats feelings now hence cannot comfort him.

I think pulkit understands his pain because he has been a lover and lost his love. He is angry now but he will be the peacemaker too! And sai, no wonder the only word that melts her is not his sorry but him saying he bacame possessive of her. ( from KD)

I m not saying what virat said is right. I am only trying to understand virats pain here. Because today’s episode portrayed it beautifully. His thrashing the wall when pulkit said he cannot meet sai shows the pain of losing his right over her, when he by all means holds all the the rights on her 🥺. He brought himself to that level and he knows only he is responsible for that 😒

As much as Virat's insecurities have to be addressed, there needs to be an important confrontation - Virat's closeness with Pakhi. Sai should tear him to shreds on that one. Relationship is a two way street.