Sai’s faults - overanalysed? - Page 5

Loved you post ❤️.

I want to write a reply. I'll do so in some time. I'll tag you when I do.

Ok let me give my view about your comments. Not everyone in India goes thru these abuses! Itv exaggerates everything! I consider myself a neutral viewer. I don't love Sai's or Virat's characterization. But ya I watch it for where they will take the story.

You can find me criticising Sai on this forum but I have always maintained that she should have walked out of the CN after the masala grinding khaand. No one deserves such treatment. You guys are going on and on about Virat's hand hailding scene. But the masala khaand was greater in my perspective and she should have walked out of the house and marriage then! All this non sense would not hv happened. But this itv n the show must go on... So they show all this non sense.

And pls Don't degrade or insult viewers or forum members because they have a different perspective from yours.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

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Thanks for that long reply. It was bothering me so much that she worried for Pakhi.

Loved reading your perspective. I started watching this serial because of Sai and her bindaas attitude and then for Sairat.

I don’t agree Sai loves to fight perspective shared by few. She is what she is. It’s her survival tactic IMO. The CN gang will eat her alive if she didn’t fight back with them. It’s not easy to ignore the assaults day in and day out.

People will have to live in a situation like that to understand. Ignoring doesn’t help. It creates another set of problems.

I liked this “Sometimes her intentions are typical fl types but her way of doing those things are typical sai Joshi types.”

I sincerely hope Vankar doesn’t do oh my mata of Sai’s character and she stays true to her self.

Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC

Thanks for that long reply. It was bothering me so much that she worried for Pakhi.

Loved reading your perspective. I started watching this serial because of Sai and her bindaas attitude and then for Sairat.

I don’t agree Sai loves to fight perspective shared by few. She is what she is. It’s her survival tactic IMO. The CN gang will eat her alive if she didn’t fight back with them. It’s not easy to ignore the assaults day in and day out.

People will have to live in a situation like that to understand. Ignoring doesn’t help. It creates another set of problems.

I liked this “Sometimes her intentions are typical fl types but her way of doing those things are typical sai Joshi types.”

I sincerely hope Vankar doesn’t do oh my mata of Sai’s character and she stays true to her self.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Winning over kaku, pakhi, virat 😂. She tries to win over them that's why she does pakhi beizzathi? She tries to win over kaku that's why she gives it back to kaku when she taunts her? She tries to win over virat when she herself don't want to accept her own feelings. Lol🤣. She is independent now, can take of herself but still that stupid girl stayed there because of her soft corner for virat. She decides to stay there so she deserves to endure all those what she is facing in that house 👏. No fault of that family & susheel bahu pakhi. And absolutely no fault of the person who stopped her from leaving that hell by using his pati haq when he can't even stop his family from attacking his wife. Instead he can brush it off her issues by asking her to adjust because at the end she choosed to stay so she deserves to face all these. Hmm okay☺️.

Selective understanding. What I wrote is simple and very easy to understand but I can simplify it some more. This family is toxic and abusive agreed and at this point irredeemable. Parkhi is in lala land and will go to any length to jsutify her illussions agreed. Kaku is awhole pot of rotten. Virat is in denial or blind to most of his families wrong doings and will not take a firm stand for her. She knows all this and has shown that she can fight her corner when she has to ( giving it back to them in your words) but she also was strong enough to leave, has organised her schooling and accomodation without any help from them...and yed she has a soft corner for Virat but does that justify her staying in that house to recieve her daily dose of abuse?

IF she had no where to go, was a meek person who could not stand up for herself that would be a different case but since she can do all this then she is delibarately putting her self in a position where people like Parkhi and Kaku can get their kicks by degrading her daily.

You do realise that one case does not cancel out the other, two parallell truths can exist side by side ...that is to say. The family Kaku Virat etc can be wrong and Sai can also be wrong. Just because these Chavans a a rotten bunch does not mean that eveything Sai does is unquestionably nobel.

The fact that they are wrong ( so fxxking wrong andnout of order) does not absolve Sai of blame. She needs to own her part in this toxic merry go round they are on.

So again as long as she stays in that house she might not deserve to endure such ( no one derservesbto endure such) but she will continue to endure. If I no that everytime I dribk milk i get a belly ache and I continue to drink milk ofcourse I will continue to get a bellyache. Milk will not care about my belly and take it easy on me....it will do what milk does...give me a bellyache...it will be up to me to stop putting myself through that tortue amd stop drinking milk since I do not really meed to drink milk and I have alternatives like oat milk....simple 🙃

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Don’t say that. She doesn’t see him in a romantic way yet. Otherwise she has already fallen in love with him. No?

I know she does not yet feel for him.that way. She feels something but has not got to that love point and that is why it makes no sense that she has stayed in that toxic house. She could have gone to her hostel and Virat would have had to actually woo her and maybe their love would blossom in a more healthy manner but the writers prefer daily sitting room chai screaming matches...with the same recycled diamogues 🤷🏾‍♀️

Originally posted by: CaNaBa

I know she does not yet feel for him.that way. She feels something but has not got to that love point and that is why it makes no sense that she has stayed in that toxic house. She could have gone to her hostel and Virat would have had to actually woo her and maybe their love would blossom in a more healthy manner but the writers prefer daily sitting room chai screaming matches...with the same recycled diamogues 🤷🏾‍♀️

Oh that way! We all want that, but that aint happening in an ITV serial. I also want her to move out with Virat to police quarters.

Originally posted by: CaNaBa

Selective understanding. What I wrote is simple and very easy to understand but I can simplify it some more. This family is toxic and abusive agreed and at this point irreseemable. Parkhi is in lala land and will go to any length to jsutify her illussions agreed. Kaku is awhole pot of rotten. Virat is in denial or blind to most of his families wrong doings and will not take a firm stand for her. She knows all this and has shown that she can fight her corner when she has to ( giving it back to them in your words) but she also was strong enough to leave, has organised her schooling and accomodation without any help from them...and yed she has a soft corner for Virat but does that justify her staying in that house to recieve her daily dose of abuse?

IF she had no where to go, was a meek person who could not stand up for herself that would be a different case but since she can do all this then she is delibarately putting her self in a position where people like Parkhi and Kaku can get their kicks by degrading her daily.

You do realise that one case does not cancel out the other, two parallell truths can exist side by side ...that is to say. The family Kaku Virat etc can be wrong and Sai can also be wrong. Just because these Chavans a a rotten bunch does not mean that eveything Sai does is unquestionably nobel.

The fact that they are wrong ( so fxxking wrong andnout of order) does not absolve Sai of blame. She needs to own her part in this toxic merry go round they are on.

So again as long as she stays in that house she might not deserve to endure such ( no one derservesbto endure such) but she will continue to endure. If I no that everytime I dribk milk i get a belly ache and I continue to drink milk ofcourse I will continue to get a bellyache. Milk will not care about my belly and take it easy on me....it will do what milk does...give me a bellyache...it will be up to me to stop putting myself through that tortue amd stop drinking milk since I do not really meed to drink milk and I have alternatives like oat milk....simple 🙃

I heard in KD there is a track in the future she divorces Virat and moves out. Not because of his family, they change for the better but because of him

Originally posted by: CaNaBa

Selective understanding. What I wrote is simple and very easy to understand but I can simplify it some more. This family is toxic and abusive agreed and at this point irreseemable. Parkhi is in lala land and will go to any length to jsutify her illussions agreed. Kaku is awhole pot of rotten. Virat is in denial or blind to most of his families wrong doings and will not take a firm stand for her. She knows all this and has shown that she can fight her corner when she has to ( giving it back to them in your words) but she also was strong enough to leave, has organised her schooling and accomodation without any help from them...and yed she has a soft corner for Virat but does that justify her staying in that house to recieve her daily dose of abuse?

IF she had no where to go, was a meek person who could not stand up for herself that would be a different case but since she can do all this then she is delibarately putting her self in a position where people like Parkhi and Kaku can get their kicks by degrading her daily.

You do realise that one case does not cancel out the other, two parallell truths can exist side by side ...that is to say. The family Kaku Virat etc can be wrong and Sai can also be wrong. Just because these Chavans a a rotten bunch does not mean that eveything Sai does is unquestionably nobel.

The fact that they are wrong ( so fxxking wrong andnout of order) does not absolve Sai of blame. She needs to own her part in this toxic merry go round they are on.

So again as long as she stays in that house she might not deserve to endure such ( no one derservesbto endure such) but she will continue to endure. If I no that everytime I dribk milk i get a belly ache and I continue to drink milk ofcourse I will continue to get a bellyache. Milk will not care about my belly and take it easy on me....it will do what milk does...give me a bellyache...it will be up to me to stop putting myself through that tortue amd stop drinking milk since I do not really meed to drink milk and I have alternatives like oat milk....simple 🙃

Originally posted by: idkwhattoput

I heard in KD there is a track in the future she divorces Virat and moves out. Not because of his family, they change for the better but because of him

Never watched KD but I guess if they divorce then they will remarry. Same formular different shows