Sai’s faults - overanalysed? - Page 8

Originally posted by: idkwhattoput

Thank you for pointing this out! Recently, I stopped reading most of the posts for this reason. It’s not about respecting or disrespecting opinions anymore. I don’t even read them so I’m indifferent.

Trivialising domestic violence and abuse, both siding victim and abuser, pushing “equally flawed” narrative, when one is not ready to accept these calling them “blind stans” are somethings way too triggering. I just cannot read something like that and go on with my day. Maybe I’m too sensitive but there are real people out there who are suffering and it affects me deeply.

I don’t get affected now because it's easy to differentiate between genuine criticism and nitpicking these days.

I watch the show because I'm still connected to it and enjoy discussions where I can interprete the scenes better.

See both have faults but not equally flawed. Their actions are so widely different. Virat behaved like an MCP. So putting them in them same bracket is blasphemous. How can Sai and Virat have similar set of values? If they were Virat wouldn’t have thrown her out or denied food. If he was honest he wouldn’t have let omi go free. See all I’m saying is they can’t be put in equal brackets because their actions are ao different

Rest of it, I don’t agree. They are an incompatible pair. Show is about them, that’s all. They would have never worked out in real life

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I think its mostly to do with since Virat has been called out and rightly so for something that was domestic violence and also some sort of mental abuse here and there , we might want to demonize Sai in order to elevate him or make him the better person. Since the toxicity in Virat was questioned when he indirectly supported the abuse being meted at her, since he actually went on to directly become a domestic abuser, lets start establishing with whatever data we have w.r.t. Sai and her mistakes, that Sai is toxic. Sai is a dictator. Sai is kaKu in the making...

One can find similarities in any two characters/people in general, if they really want to. That way even Virat can be called a NInad, but he is not Ninad.

Yes Sai and Virat are both flawed characters..the problem here is, Virats actions or reactions to her mistakes are heinous...He is also forgiven as quickly as quick he is to make mistakes.. I have seen it mentioned by some in this forum how Virat throwing Sai and Maushi out of the house was an outcome of their mistakes.. Any man would do it.. Where do all these theory go that the house is as much of the woman's as it of the man's after marriage.

Yup, both are flawed characters but you can see some criticise sai just as a payback for virat. But, don't realise that virat gets criticised because of his dialogues and actions in scenes. Not because we hate him , who wants to hate the ml of a show they follow?!

The payback agenda is just petty.

Originally posted by: msin

Both of them have their faults .. none of us are perfect here .. and don’t get perfect partners .. people chose to stay with wrong partners as they have adjusted to them .

That is what Sai n virat are .. both of them have kind of adjusted to each other .

Do you all know why are they attracted to each other .. not because both are super looking .. though they are reasonably attractive.. both have similar set of values of honesty ..

Both of them are high achievers .. people of high IQ .. being a state topper in grade 12 is a huge achievement and UPSC topper is an incredible high .. They both value each other’s career choices .. which nobody else in Chavan family gets this ..

Virat wants Sai to be a superb doctor regardless of being a super wife ..and Sai is extremely proud of her IPS husband.. she never fails to brag about him to others .. they both get it .. it’s not easy for others to match up to their capabilities.. so unless both of them start doing something to repel each other .. they won’t accept other partners for themselves..

Sai will not find her college mates attractive as they will never match to her IPS Hubby ka stature ..

and virat will not find any other girl fiery n attractive as she’s a multi tasked can manage many things with aplomb ..

pakhi is tame n boring .. she’s so easily available.. there is no thrill of chase ..

So inspite of their miscommunication..they are there ..

You are right, whatever the case they still come back to each other. They challenge and keep each other on their toes. It's an exciting relationship if you look at it ignoring some major drama (like the dreaded ousting - they shouldn't have gone with it, makes the shipping difficult now)