At which point would you have left? - Page 3

Originally posted by: I-Am-SherLOCKED

Virat has been very inconsistent and blow hot-blow cold to begin with but right after Aaba's death, he did a lot for Sai, so it is understandable why she forgave tiny transgressions like blaming her for Pakhi leaving the house, etc. The first big red flag was during the alta drama. When Virat said, "Usko zabardasti kyun nahin lagaya" that was seriously so pathetic and messed up. But Sai herself didn't hear him say that so I am letting it go. From Sai's perspective, she should have left after he held her hand and threatened to lock her up and give her no food. There can never be redemption for that. Moreover, his apology was so flat. He felt bad that he didn't live up to his own "women-respecting" image rather than the hurt and trauma he caused Sai. She should have left then.

Now, she has her scholarship and Aaba's money. She has no reason to stick on with Virat after everything he has done and everything his family puts her through every day.

@Bold: Agreed.

@Bold & Italics:

My biggest issue with Virat is that everything he feels is about his own perspective. He never once considers how Sai actually feels. Its always "What did I do wrong (asked in a way where he can't even recognize what he did wrong)" or "how could she act that way with me" or as you said, "oh this isn't how I usually behave, I must correct myself bc #selfpride" or with this PP promise ordeal, "I don't feel that way about PP, so why do I need to answer to anything". It's always about him. He never once thinks about how his actions, behavior, dialogue, sounds and appears to Sai and how it makes Sai feel. It's actually really self-centered and even a borderline narcissistic way of thinking.

If she were more experienced in relationships, Sai would've picked that up a lot quicker. My ex was kind of like this. Nice guy off the bat but every issue was about what I did to him - how it made him feel - how it caused him to react in an x y z way. It's actually very emotionally manipulative to turn things around on the other person as if one has no fault in the situation either. I left him even though we were a month away from getting married. But I had a huge support system to back me up when I made the decision. Sai unfortunately doesn't.

After DevKit's marriage whatever happened that night and the next morning,mei wahan se challi jati. Now i am ready to give benefit of doubt to that incident(especially after watching the latest episodes),atleast Virat was not aware of the truth. His family had kept him in dark.

But after today's incident there is no point to return to that house and i would be the first one to sign the divorce paper. I would prefer to go to any mental asylum rather than going back to CN. i hv never seen a place where SILs,MILs,even FILs all gang up to abuse one person to this much. 😡and ur husband will be standing there as a deaf,dumb,blind person.😡

I was never a Virat,the character's fan and i am proud of it. But as a die hard Sai fan,i want to see her growth.which will not happen in this show i am sure.Coz of high trps,makers hv got a free licence to show any kind of abuse,domestic violence in the show. They hv actually normalized the violence against women(verbal abuse is also one kind of violence,mental torture) among viewers. It's tough for me as a viewer to root for SAIRAT ,coz in the name of SaiRat what we get is 95% of abuse/violence and 5% of romance.😡

Why is it necessary to copy paste the original?We are in 2021. Why can't makers come up with their creativity and show some progressive soch.Why is it difficult for them to show Sai an independent woman ,refuse to take all this bullshit and maker her own career without anyone's help.

I dont think I'll marry a guy who cant even treat me as his wife. If just one promise made to certain someone is so important for him and he respects that promise, then what about the promises he's going to make during the wedding?

Promise is a promise. I'll first question that.

Anyways, I can never imagine myself in such situation especially the loss of her father at such a young age. I can feel empathetic towards her but never put myself in her shoes.

Okay so have I been in place of Sai I would have left way before god damn it's so hard in life to study facing mental torture at home ..may be the time where Virat throw Sai out of the house at midnight 🙄

Originally posted by: ShinyShine

Honestly I stopped liking Virat long back. I started watching the show for Neil bcoz I knew him as a great actor but I can say the character Virat is in the race of worst male leads in history of ITV.

I stopped shipping Sairat long back.

Sai isn't best but only reason to watch the show sometimes. Ninad's talk in hospital and all was grossiest thing to hear that too at prime time 8 Pm.

I stopped wanting Sai Virat together I know they r gonna go back so I have stopped watching. Honestly the show doesn't makes sense even some shows of Ekta is better than this shit.

I have said earlier too that all the humiliation done by Virat was forgotten bcoz he got shot.

Just seeing people wanting Sairat that too after all this makes me uncomfortable and makes me think what is wrong with our taste. Just to see romance we our ok any nonsense being thrown at us. This is happening in 2 more shows in Star Plus.

Idk what is wrong with writers and audience most importantly.

Amay, Food, Pakhi I don't see a single reason for Sai to stay there. We are shown Sai as the strongest women with self respect but on the very next second she looks like fool who continues to make same mistake and going back.

Vanraj >>> Virat

At least Vanraj is transparent in his toxicity. Virat is a duplicitous, spineless weasel who thinks he's a good guy.

I'm team Virakhi because I hate them both and they deserve each other.

Originally posted by: ShipIsSailing

After he threw her out of the house.

I would have when he held her hand forcefully when she wanted to visit Pulkit's house.

I would have left as soon as I get on my feet.... I mean...be able to arrange money for the study and hostel ...

First place I would not marry a man who loves someone else and NOT ready to move on ...... even with 100s people force me.... only for monetary help or security .... I would stay in outhouse or rent nearby... if needed his help...

I understand sai's state of mind at that time... she had just lost only parent / family member / support.

If it were left to me, I toh wouldn't even have msrried someone like this. It's just awful actually

Originally posted by: GandiAai

Vanraj >>> Virat

At least Vanraj is transparent in his toxicity. Virat is a duplicitous, spineless weasel who thinks he's a good guy.

I'm team Virakhi because I hate them both and they deserve each other.

🔥🔥

Yes exactly. Virat hides his real personality, would claim to have moral high ground and would act worst than a typical Male Chauvinist Pig

After marriage, Sai was forced to change her first name because of some tradition CN follow. She refused because her father had given her the name Sai, and she didn’t want to change it. She also stated that Pakhi hadn’t changed her name so it’s ok if they don’t follow tradition in her case also. The whole family went mad as usual. They said it is a tradition, that a husband named his wife after marriage and she has to change her name. Virat said her new name is Sai only and it was considered a very sweet and aww moment. Again, maybe because I rarely watch ITV, I didn’t find this moment sweet at all! The entire family refused to listen to her basic wish, showed their double standards when it comes to her and Pakhi and expected her to be super grateful that Virat kept her name the same. It probably isn’t a big deal compared to the other stuff the family has done, but for me there only it was obvious that they are going to treat her like some second class citizen

Originally posted by: radicalleftist

The name change time? Can you elaborate a little bit on this?