Both the times Virat crossed the line with Sai (PD lunch & DevKit wedding), Virat has not been shown reflecting on his reactions. In PD lunch episode, Virat is seen justifying his actions even after Ashwini tells him that he behaved like Ninad. It is only when Ashwini points out Sai is so pure-hearted that she did not question Virakhi's morals during the Ladakh trip that finally his conscience is awakened. During DevKit wedding, it is only after discovering that Sai was right about Pulkit that he starts repenting. Doesn't it seem like Virat feels guilty because his abusive reaction was not deserved rather than a realisation that his behaviour was wrong no matter what?
From what I've heard in the forum, GHKKPM's Virat is very different from KD's Rono. Virat is shown to be a gentleman - sensitive, sweet and emotional. It is understandable that Virat's aggressive behaviour during emotional upheaval is stemming from subconsciously imbibed patriarchy and toxicity. He acts that way when he is blind with rage and doesn't know what he is doing.
But it is still not relatable that someone as sensitive as Virat would not be questioning his reactions as well. Especially when is compared to Ninad either by Ashwini or by Ninad himself. I have felt a lot of times that the writers are not invested enough in Virat. This aspect seems to be a case of copy paste - where they have blindly copied Rono's mindset onto Virat's.
Or am I missing the point?
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