Sai's insecurity

I really hope in ghum we see some scenes where Virat is shown understanding the reason for Sai's insecurity and high walls. I hope he realizes how insecure she feels of her place in his life. She thinks that due to his prior commitment she will never be able to make a place for herself in his life or be loved by him. That is incredibly sad and heartbreaking. Because if not for that commitment that he told her about, atleast she would consider the possibility of something that could happen between them with time. But here its like that door has been shut by Virat because of what he said to her before their marriage. So any moments they share she thinks of it as something that he does only out of responsibility/duty/to be nice and holi type scenes maybe just from intoxication. Virat atleast knows that Sai has no one but him in her life even though he is nervous to confess his feelings coz Sai may not feel the same way he does about her but Sai doesn't know. He may have denied to her that there's nothing between him and pp but thats because of many reasons- pp is married to his brother, Sai knows he is righteous and would never cross the line but he didnt deny that the "commitment" doesn't mean anything to him anymore. Sai did ask him about it when she had confronted him about him and pp. I really hope someone talks to virat about how Sai feels or he realizes it himself. Its not just pp's interference but the lack of clarity about whether this marriage is still a deal or is it real.

I hope we get some good emotional scenes where Virat senses what Sai's problem is. Why does she take 2 steps back for every step forward. Because she is trying to guard herself from heartbreak.

Theres just so much palpable angst/longing between Sairat. Its addictive to watch them! Uff.

I exactly want the same. He needs to understand that he himself helped her to build the walls around her either by his bad behavior or his non-commitment to her. He needs to see that she will never accept to give him a chance if he won't talk to her.

Yes I try to bring this up in my OSs. I felt so bad for Sai in yesterday's episode. She has the longing that every girl would have, to be loved/desired by her man. Alas, Only if she knows Virat's feelings!

Ayesha expresses that longing very aptly with her expressions. Her jealousy, her expectations towards his answers and her restlessness when he serves jelebis. 😃

It will be nice to see Virat understanding these expressions one day and realizing that she also expects same things as he does from her. Yeah unless he clears this misunderstnading with his words, Sai will have her guard up.

You beautifully captured Sai's insecurities.

I really hope in ghum we see some scenes where Virat is shown understanding the reason for Sai's insecurity and high walls. I hope he realizes how insecure she feels of her place in his life. She thinks that due to his prior commitment she will never be able to make a place for herself in his life or be loved by him. That is incredibly sad and heartbreaking. Because if not for that commitment that he told her about, atleast she would consider the possibility of something that could happen between them with time. But here its like that door has been shut by Virat because of what he said to her before their marriage. So any moments they share she thinks of it as something that he does only out of responsibility/duty/to be nice and holi type scenes maybe just from intoxication. Virat atleast knows that Sai has no one but him in her life even though he is nervous to confess his feelings coz Sai may not feel the same way he does about her but Sai doesn't know. He may have denied to her that there's nothing between him and pp but thats because of many reasons- pp is married to his brother, Sai knows he is righteous and would never cross the line but he didnt deny that the "commitment" doesn't mean anything to him anymore. Sai did ask him about it when she had confronted him about him and pp. I really hope someone talks to virat about how Sai feels or he realizes it himself. Its not just pp's interference but the lack of clarity about whether this marriage is still a deal or is it real.

I hope we get some good emotional scenes where Virat senses what Sai's problem is. Why does she take 2 steps back for every step forward. Because she is trying to guard herself from heartbreak.

Theres just so much palpable angst/longing between Sairat. Its addictive to watch them! Uff.

You articulated that so well...how I wish that conversation happens in GC without you know who...listening at the door

Originally posted by: Nja91

I really hope in ghum we see some scenes where Virat is shown understanding the reason for Sai's insecurity and high walls. I hope he realizes how insecure she feels of her place in his life. She thinks that due to his prior commitment she will never be able to make a place for herself in his life or be loved by him. That is incredibly sad and heartbreaking. Because if not for that commitment that he told her about, atleast she would consider the possibility of something that could happen between them with time. But here its like that door has been shut by Virat because of what he said to her before their marriage. So any moments they share she thinks of it as something that he does only out of responsibility/duty/to be nice and holi type scenes maybe just from intoxication. Virat atleast knows that Sai has no one but him in her life even though he is nervous to confess his feelings coz Sai may not feel the same way he does about her but Sai doesn't know. He may have denied to her that there's nothing between him and pp but thats because of many reasons- pp is married to his brother, Sai knows he is righteous and would never cross the line but he didnt deny that the "commitment" doesn't mean anything to him anymore. Sai did ask him about it when she had confronted him about him and pp. I really hope someone talks to virat about how Sai feels or he realizes it himself. Its not just pp's interference but the lack of clarity about whether this marriage is still a deal or is it real.

I hope we get some good emotional scenes where Virat senses what Sai's problem is. Why does she take 2 steps back for every step forward. Because she is trying to guard herself from heartbreak.

Theres just so much palpable angst/longing between Sairat. Its addictive to watch them! Uff.

So beautifully worded and explained!

Its natural for a girl to feel this when his ex is not only around, but keeps interfering all the time, to top it all he lets his ex walk all over his wife, doesn't stand up for her and doesn't allow her to stand up for herself. He knows she knows everything about him and Pakhi and then allowing Pakhi to bully Sai while expecting Sai to develop feelings for him is something I don't understand.

What I also, don't understand is him flatly denying that "everything you said about Pakhi and me is a lie" I mean it may not be true today, but it was the truth thats why your "vada" and the "no expectation" demand of day of marriage. Why couldn't he clarify? H feels that "you always made me feel that you don't love me and didn't want to marry me". I was like bro you are the one who wanted that what are you talking about? Use sapne ayenge ki now he has changed his mind. He can't understand Sai's clear words or even Pakhi's for that matter, but Sai should understand what goes on in his jalebi heart!!

I am no longer for SaiRat because I know Sai will be hurt as soon she comes back to his life and lowers her guards. However, I know its not happening, so lets hope what you are hoping comes true!!

Originally posted by: methebest

So beautifully worded and explained!

Its natural for a girl to feel this when his ex is not only around, but keeps interfering all the time, to top it all he lets his ex walk all over his wife, doesn't stand up for her and doesn't allow her to stand up for herself. He knows she knows everything about him and Pakhi and then allowing Pakhi to bully Sai while expecting Sai to develop feelings for him is something I don't understand.

What I also, don't understand is him flatly denying that "everything you said about Pakhi and me is a lie" I mean it may not be true today, but it was the truth thats why your "vada" and the "no expectation" demand of day of marriage. Why couldn't he clarify? H feels that "you always made me feel that you don't love me and didn't want to marry me". I was like bro you are the one who wanted that what are you talking about? Use sapne ayenge ki now he has changed his mind. He can't understand Sai's clear words or even Pakhi's for that matter, but Sai should understand what goes on in his jalebi heart!!

I am no longer for SaiRat because I know Sai will be hurt as soon she comes back to his life and lowers her guards. However, I know its not happening, so lets hope what you are hoping comes true!!

I am still very much for Sairat though. Virat isnt doing this deliberately. He only talked of the commitment coz he didnt want to give her any false expectations abd he never expected to get so attached. Not that i condone such a "deal marriage". Neither should virat ever have suggested it nor should Sai ever have accepted it. But that one decision made by them was a twist of fate leading them to each other coz they are meant to be. And now we can only hope that they learn to be transparent with each other and understand what they mean to each other. But i do believe that the first move must come from virat owing to him having a teeny bit of an upper hand in this dynamic...

Agree with you Niraja. Hope to see Virat understand her insecurity and address the problem.