Sai's views on her marriage to Virat - Page 6

Originally posted by: jane_austen

I always thought that Virat's basis for his 'connection' with Sai was her fierce loyalty and undying love for her father. He is impressed with her immense capacity for love - probably it came from his own sub-conscious need/yearning for unconditional love - growing up in his toxic family. We hear him say multiple times to Kamal Joshi that "Sir, woh aapse bahut pyaar karti hai". It piques his interest first and he begins observing her - and the other qualities that he sees in her eg. bravery, intelligence etc cements that connection.

Also I have a confusion over what that 'connection' is. Till now I has always thought that Virat felt a platonic soul connection to Sai . It happens to us in real life where we are pulled towards a person (man/woman) within a small time of knowing them. It happens very rarely, but its not really romantic. But after reading what you have written, I'm reminded of how all of a sudden, soon after his marriage, during the reception, he gazes at her mesmerized by her beauty. So was his feelings not really platonic in GC - did he just never allowed himself to think of her that way because she was too young?

P.S : Missing your daily updates 😭. I'm actually more addicted to your analysis than the show itself.

My understanding

@bold his values never allowed him to look at Sai who was too young, romantically in GC. Also, he had feelings for Pakhi back then and so wouldn't think of any other girl that way.

Once he got married to her and she was being called as his wife, though he had said he can never be his husband, he had subconsciously accepted their marriage. The marriage also broke the wall that he shouldn't be looking at Sai in a romantic way. Or should I say, it gave him rights, he felt it was okay to see her that way and it wouldn't be wrong.

Sense of right and wrong drives many of his actions, sometimes anger clouds his judgement. However, he believes in doing what is right and what is acceptable.

When Sai was brought for the rasam in her green saree, that was the first time, he noticed her as a woman, she was his wife then.

Originally posted by: jane_austen

I believe she was in a vulnerable place. Her support system had been suddenly snatched away. So it was natural that she must have felt over-whelmed and alone. So she might have had self-doubts - about her ability to deal with her sudden vulnerable position.

I beg to differ.

Whether she would have eventually found her way out of it if Virat had not married her? I strongly believe so, but it would have taken time (just my assessment).

Thank god, you said this 😂😂 ❤❤

As other IF members have pointed out before - Virat's presence in her life made the grieving process quicker and gave her some sense of security.

Definitely, I agree.

Have replied in green. My shocking reaction was for the first comment 😂😂 but then I was relieved at your next statement 😊

Originally posted by: laksh

Thanks for the comments Raji. ❤❤

Can you call by that?

my full name is rajeswari but mostly i am called raji. thanks for tagging me.

i don’t think there has ever been such characters on itv with so many layers and flaws to them but still makes them beautiful for the viewers to watch.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

I m believer virat would had never married sai if she had not gone through a very weak moment of suicide.

I too believe the same.

Yes virat was attracted to sai but that attraction was never of marriage kind off as attraction bhi bahut tarah ke hote hain. Virat got emotionally connected with sai & emotional connection is much stronger than any physical connection.

I agree, my views too.

Initially he refused to marry sai but after suicide he realises sai can't be left on her own she needs a family which she lost , virat don't want to loose his connection with her, if virat would had left GC somehow he may think a way to stay connected with her.

I agree, my views too again.

Regarding sai thou d lady blamed virat in moment of sadness but some where she want virat to be in GC& in her life Coz she feel secure with virat coz of d time they spent together & hold a thinking that virat has answer for her miseries.

Again, I agree, I believe the same.

Regarding sai wanting to marry virat , no she don't wanted to marry virat , it was not in her mind .

Right, I agree

She was sensing GC people trying to get rid of her when she learned virat agreed 4 marriage she storm off to him saying to back off Coz initially she thought due to marriage talks virat left & now when he is back villager again

Right, she did want him to back off

@bold this thought never crossed my.mind, interesting

forcing him but when virat said he himself is ready 4 it no force then she questions why coz she dont wanted to be burden on him like GC people made her feel by their constant attempt of getting rid of her thou virat's t & c broke her heart coz somewhere she don't want to share virat with anyone as she is possessive for him & she did not wanted to be in loveless relationship coz like any other girl she 2 dreamt a normal marriage.

Right, I agree

@bold I believe that it is because of this more than the commitment he said he has given to someone else, that inspite of whatever they are sharing right now, inspite of all the support he is extending to her at CN, she is not willing to forget the word deal. It is not about forgetting the word. She is forcing herself to remember that it is a marriage of deal.

She had already got hurt and felt rejected in GC, she doesn't want to develop any feelings now and get heartbroken again.

Sai lost her vision towards her dream to become a doctor but coz virat she got het vision back towards her dreams.

Hmm, true but she didn't want to burden him and also didn't realise how determined he was to help her in achieving her's and her Dad's dreams until the day he told her about it when she was worried about her results.

She was surprised and asked

"Aap sach mein chahthey hain ki mera medical college mein admission ho jaaye"

Initially When virat was pushing pakhi down sai's throat ( it was damn irritating ) when he was trying to make pakhi her mentor , for sai it looks like virat wanting to get rid of her so he is shifting her to other person like GC people which made her irritated 4 sure.

Oh wow, you felt it too.

I didn't think from the point of view of how GC people did like you thought, which is interesting to come to know of. 👏👏👏

She was disappointed thinking he wasn't guiding her but was giving it to someone else. And I also thought that it shs found it offensive when everytime he used to ask Pakhi to help Sai get dressed up.

I have always felt that she would have been more obedient and would not havs rebelled, not as muchnas this if he planned to mentor her or guided her. It would have been easy to understand why he was correcting her because both know that he has taken her responsibility and keeping a check on her actions and correcting her is also a part of his responsibility.

She would have adhered to many things and accepted him as her guide if he had not asked Pakhi to do it. It went on a wront note and she was hurt as you said and offended too.

Virat had always admired kamal sir & Sai's bond , which he lacks in his life .

@bold you think so? What about his love for his mom or Samrat or Devi Tai?

May be you are right, there was/is no freedom in this house and he couldn't share with his mom what Sai had with her Dad even though his mom loves him a lot.

Thanks for sharing your viewpoints ❤❤. Learnt a few new things from you. Have replied in green.

Originally posted by: raji02

my full name is rajeswari but mostly i am called raji. thanks for tagging me.

i don’t think there has ever been such characters on itv with so many layers and flaws to them but still makes them beautiful for the viewers to watch.

Then Raji it is 😊

Pleasure dear, I knew you would like to contribute too and I also like to know your views on it 😆

Yeah, I know, as much as how upset I get with her, I like the character of Sai.

I find Virat also very interesting and they have butchered Pakhi's character.

Originally posted by: laksh

Have replied in green. My shocking reaction was for the first comment 😂😂 but then I was relieved at your next statement 😊

Did I say something wrong? 😲

I didn't mean to say that she is weak or a person who doubts herself - generally she is a confident person. But having your only support system suddenly pulled from under your feet is capable of putting self-doubts in the strongest of people (until they regain their strength). And she is but a young girl, just out of school. In one of the scenes, where she is enacting an imaginary conversation with her dad's photo (wearing Virat's police cap), she says that after her father died she had given up any hope of becoming a doctor- she thought she will do some chota-mota course in GC or probably not even that. However, all this does not mean that she wanted to get married because it was the last thing on her mind. She was feeling lost and vulnerable and all she needed was support.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Hi shalini😊

Hey Deepika 🤗. I remembered your name from your earlier user name.

Originally posted by: laksh

Then Raji it is 😊

Pleasure dear, I knew you would like to contribute too and I also like to know your views on it 😆

Yeah, I know, as much as how upset I get with her, I like the character of Sai.

I find Virat also very interesting and they have butchered Pakhi's character.

its actually the reverse with me . i am more biased towards sai than virat.☺️☺️☺️

Originally posted by: laksh

Thanks for sharing your viewpoints ❤❤. Learnt a few new things from you. Have replied in green.

Virat had always admired kamal sir & Sai's bond , which he lacks in his life .

@bold you think so? What about his love for his mom or Samrat or Devi Tai?

Aapko lagta hai virat shares a fatherly bond with ninad chavan , d way kamal shared with sai ?

Originally posted by: jane_austen

Did I say something wrong?

No, for a minute, I couldn't understand. Sorry, if I had offended you 😣

I didn't mean to say that she is weak or a person who doubts herself - generally she is a confident person. But having your only support system suddenly pulled from under your feet is capable of putting self-doubts in the strongest of people (until they regain their strength).

definitely, but I doubt if she thought about any of these. Her only concern was to not get married and she always had a vague idea that there is someone named Pakhi in Virat's life, so she questioned him.

If it was not Virat, do you think she would have agreed to marry? Even if the person was wlling to sponsor her education? She would have done something for herself.

And she is but a young girl, just out of school. In one of the scenes, where she is enacting an imaginary conversation with her dad's photo (wearing Virat's police cap), she says that after her father died she had given up any hope of becoming a doctor- she thought she will do some chota-mota course in GC or probably not even that. However, all this does not mean that she wanted to get married because it was the last thing on her mind. She was feeling lost and vulnerable and all she needed was support.

I agree, she wanted him to be present for her emotionally. He had been in touch with her when she was feeling lonely in the safe house, video called her, then visited her and gave her food too. It was those kind of things she might have expected from him after her Dad passed away. She didn't expect him to leave GC in the state that she was in.

As you said she didn't want to get married.

Thanks for the clarification, I did understand your previous post too. Have replied in green