Pal Bhar Thahar Jao, Dil Ye Sambhal Jaye - Page 4

Originally posted by: linakusharberry

Wow awesome Analysis janki just loved it ,

Well I felt they are rushing with epis now , like a bumpy ride tha aaj they really need to concentrate on editing , entire flow is getting disturbed.

It really feels so... They are not looking at connecting dots. A lot of it is left to imagination.

Well I really loved sai and Mohits scene very much kind of bro sis vibe mila I really hope to see their bonding scenes more

Now coming to virat he just can't stay away from sai , he just can't take it if she ignore him well acha huva woh chai spill hogayi aur sai neh usseh saaf bhi kiya it's kind of symbolic I felt

Well sunny kind of surprised me today aaj he was on team Sai aur ACP sahab toh mooh latkake baita tha because his sai was upset with him , sunny neh sahi bola sai uski wajah swh upset thi bechari kya galati thi and also the warning he gave him to keep pakhi out of the mess ,

Well I don't think virat has ignored anything what sai said it was clear he understood what she felt about his so called friendship with pakhi and how pakhi felt about him wagera , he is a person who will analyse the situation and act so iam sure he will not let pakhi to succeed in her mission he will definitely maintain distance for sure ,

Going by the number of scenes that have been added to reiterate the fact that he has moved on, I too feel he won't let her manipulate him. He wasn't pleased at all with PP opening her mouth today and he very well knows that Sai only retorts because they gang up and press her trigger points. But let's see what happens tomorrow...

Well aaj sai jho kiya woh theek nahi tha I felt I mean sai ki intentions sahi hai but he way she tried to do is tad bit wrong , atleast she should have told aswini in person like woh so and so jarahi even zyada detail diya toh bhi theek hai but yeah sabki samneh akkeh announce karna it looks like one announcing for a war chalo aavo maidaan mein let's have a fight , she really know how kaku sena will react to it phirbhi she didn't plan it well mujhe nah sach mein lagh rahi hai gusse wala mode mein both navra and baiko don't use their brains such a made for eachother couple they are , virats questions were right like sai ki classes kuch din pehle shuru huva hai aur utni time kaisi kisiko trust kar sakti hai aur lunch peh bulati hai he was really worried about her safety , I can see it as a mix of emotions from his side pyaar bhi hai aur concern bhi hai , his intentions was not to hurt her , ek relationship mein we should not hide anything sab share karna hi sai knows virat wanna know devi tai ki saath kya huva hai if they have kept aside the fight and talked about it and planned together things would have been better ab kakusena got a chance especially someone who I don't wanna mention to play according to situation

I agree... She did not use any intelligence. or then it was by design that she wanted to come and announce to the whole family to prove that they would still react the way they do when she doesn't say where she is going -- so it doesn't matter what they think. In the process, she did hurt Virat more and I think somewhere she feels she's justified in maintaining that cold distance.

Well precap both are hurt I can see that virat ki dil aur dimaag mein ab sirf sai hi hai , but I think virat kind of got it what pakhi was trying to do from his reaction fingers crossed hopefully virat follow social distancing Norms with pakhi usseh 10 feet door rakhe

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

I agree. They always leave space between them for a third person to enter. It is also because they actually lack that closeness which is needed to seal that space. But this fight should actually, at least, be able to bridge that distance to an extent. The ball is really in Virat's court, but Sai has to calm down and listen.

I hope so too. But, if Virat takes the first step the next move has to be from Sai. Otherwise Virat's step will be futile. And, once again they will be back to square one. As the saying goes ' It takes two to tango'.

Originally posted by: ThruMyEyez-Nita

Is there an unsaid deadline tied to this show that the makers are jumping through days within a single episode...what is the rush? Everything felt like it was in ff motion without proper attention paid to the flow of the story.

It feels so.. 😆 It's really jarring to have to "interpret" some thoughts instead of being conveyed through actions or words.

The first half was good...Sai remembering her Aaba and missing him was beautifully done. One thing that this show has gotten right was the relationship Sai shared with her Aaba - beautifully written and very real.

Sai and Mohit's scenes were good and I hope we get to see more of it. Mohit has been a silent spectator and it's sad that a huge part of it is because of his family. His excitement at the mention of Sai wanting to see his play broke my heart a little - sometime all it takes is a little bit of encouragement and interest from the family. I'm not saying that it will fix everything but at least it gives someone hope.

The chai scene was cute - had a smile throughout and even cheered a little when the tea was spilled.. because there is no way any sane person would drink that.

We must be the only forum that is gleeful when the hero drops the chai and we are also the only forum waiting for the grand separation 😆

After this is where I felt it all went downhill... I wish they had spent a little more time with Sunny and Virat - showing Virat bouncing off his feelings or just a little bit of an insight into his thoughts about everything that had transpired. Now why after all that happened Virat thought it would be a good idea to surprise Sai with lunch???😵Oh Virat..when will you learn? His intentions ...good - wanting to take Sai away from his family and maybe talk in a neutral space where Sai isn't preoccupied with being disturbed while studying and without any outside interruptions ....but the way to go about it...questionable.

The only problem with the whole plan was that it might come across as if he wasn't serious about what she said to him, it's such an important conversation for them - make or break of their marriage but having no connecting scenes between one day and the other to show what they did in their private space through silence or verbal/non-verbal communication is definitely a missing piece of the puzzle. It can't be that he hasn't registered all that she said. It has pushed him to actually seek her -- but we didn't get to see him resolving to do it.

Now the whole lunch with professor debacle... Ignoring the rest of the family, I didn't think Virat and Ashwini were wrong into wanting to know details about her visit to her professors house, especially when it was clear that Sai wasn't being completely outspoken about it. And what happened to the Sai who just a couple days before had known that her saying yes to the Ladakh trip was a time bomb waiting to explode. Did she not realize that her going to her professors house on a Sunday was pretty much handing them a chance to come at her again. And Virat and Ashwini's concerns and questions were valid. I feel this time Sai opened herself up to the next big drama that the Chavan's wait for.

It's fine that she wanted to go. And it's even fine that the tamasha happened because it had to happen. But the problem is the way it happened. It is Sai's doing this time mostly-- she should have handled it better for Devyani's sake. Now, even when she actually finds the connection, the guns will be trained on her for different reasons.

Thank you for your analysis Janki I always look forward to reading them more than the actual episode! ❤️

I also think that Sai definitely set herself up with the fight today and for Chavan Saheb’s anger. But his reactions are a bit interesting to me - to me they felt like how a parent would react to a child wanting to go see someone who seems sketchy. The parent would yell, ban them from going, try to make them stay, and then punish them for their act. I know that my mother would’ve reacted like Virat if I went away to some male professor’s house.

Of course, I’ll wait to see what actually happens, but sometimes I think Virat himself needs to decide if he wants to be a parent-figure for Sai, or a husband-lover for Sai.....

Originally posted by: piapriya

Totally loved your analysis and I wholeheartedly agree with what you said. The frustrations from the fight led to this. I wonder why she could not have just said she is going for doubt clearing or sumn like that. She could have said she will inform Virat about her well being when she reached but then emotions took over logic today.

'Mallika-e-maturity" lol such an apt name!

Hi piya! One needs to strategise for something as important as investigating a matter that is of life and death for another person -- devyani. Her actions usually take away focus from the main points that she's working on and shifts it entirely to her behaviour. She wasn't interested one bit in pandering to Virat's ego but he wasn't questioning her from ego at all. He was just actually concerned after she said no other student has been invited. I think anyone would ask that question - a father, mother, brother, sister, friend and of course, spouse.

Originally posted by: methebest

Excellent analysis Janki!! Where do you get the words and the wisdom from?? Loved every word of yours. When you become late the forum goes nuts, so khayal rakha karo please!!🤣

Hum dhundhte rahetain hai aap ko!!

@bold: zindagi ne "immaturity" sikha di hai 😆

@blue: Kal se alarm laga loongi 5 am ka so that I am all set by 6am 🤣 kisi ka vasheela ho toh mere app pe 5am ko hi live karwa do video 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: jane_austen

While Sai's loose-canon mode was certainly frustrating, I think it was at least consistent with her current state of mind. Sai is emotionally exhausted and broken- and seems like she has decided to be emotionally distant from Virat.

She is exhausted, the poor soul. It's almost like the dew-drop is now under the scorching sun, slowly getting burnt out and she will exhaust herself for Devyani 😒 She was indulging in the emotional intimacy with Virat after Ashwini's nudge but the whole Ladakh fiasco and the fact that she saw the whole family treating her like a piece of rag just because she accepted her own husband's invitation to join the trip has totally done it for her. She has accepted that it is not just Virat who loves PP but even the family wants them together... It is really her strength that is keeping her going.

Sai's flaw is her almost compulsive tactlessness. All the tact that she has presumably adopted since past few days - she is not in a frame of mind to bother with such an effort now. She is in "ab pati hi mera nahi hai, to pati ke gharwalon ke liye itna effort kyun lagana?" mode. Did she also want to hurt Virat? May be, may be not. She was certainly stiff with him today. Did he pick I up her tone?

I think she did rub it in on purpose to prove a point as the others have also said and as @bold here: no one considers her the 'wife', beginning with the husband (as per her notion because he has not communicated the truth). So, just putting up a facade of husband-wife is not needed. He knows it too now. I hope so, really.

Why did Sai not lie about the details? It is one thing to be truthful and quite another to be stupidly truthful. And the mother of all stupidity - poking your nose in an extremely sensitive matter without taking any member of the family into confidence.

Exactly. The question arises that "Why do you want to do this for a family you don't consider your own?" He asks her often... But she's doing it because of her good heart and not to earn brownie points like others would. So, she will also not mind putting her own relationship with Virat at stake,aware that she actually has begun to fall in love with him.

Virat's questions and concerns for her safety was totally justified. He had every right to get angry too. But nothing will justify what is going to unfold this week. The original plot could have been modified into a harsh, ugly confrontation. But somehow humiliation is macho and the subsequent breakdown of the man in question, appealing. It is not. I am reminded of Ashwini's pati-patni ka gulakh. Is the humiliating and inhuman act of a man/woman denying food to his/her spouse - a stone that will break the gulakh? I would believe so, at least in real life.

You know fights turn ugly. Even a lot of unpleasant, unjustified things are done and said. Like Sai telling him he's not worth even a nail on Aaba's little toe, like him telling her that her place in the house is Usha Maushi's room, the whole Alta confrontation and the comparison of the current situation to sexual harassment by Jagtap... we still need to watch the scene but yes, Ashwini's comment holds true. The humiliation of a spouse of any kind is a stone added to the gullakh... Whether it breaks or just cracks enough to be repaired again, we'll have to see.

I find it funny that sai no matter what refuses to lie and prefers just to dive head on into a war with people rather than concoct a story to evade questions and confrontations. It's an admiral quality of hers, but one that on practical grounds does her no favours other than complicate situations and relations for her. Sometimes a lie for a good cause and good intentions is better than the truth that causes adverse effects.

Sai rarely uses tactics or thinks to do so, but I think it is about time sai learns from virat how sometimes you need to tactfully evade tricky situations by sometimes acting passive to avoid unnecessary confrontations.

This time sai unnecessarily invited trouble by not telling at least a harmless lie about going to her professor's house for study and say that both she and her professor have too busy schedules in weekday to discuss things related to her assignments. She should have lied that she has a very hard assignment that she has to struggle with and if any family member taunted her that weak students need such help on a weekend then sai should just say that it's a medical degree and even the brightest students can find it hard. But sai of course won't use tactics like this ever.

Originally posted by: Ramyalaxmi

@Janki: As usual unusual.

I felt except Mrs.MIA , everyone was right from their side. Who knows, we are immature, but queen of maturity maybe right from her delusional world.

She's been filled with so much dum to remain delusional that she had the cheek to mention "Trip ke liye tayaar ho jaati hai" bina bataye .. Now if Sai isko bina bataye apne husband ke saath jaane ko tayar hoti hai toh iske aaba ki taang toot ti hai kya? 😵 I was whistling for Kaku when she asked PP to shut up too 😆Today, for 1.47 seconds I liked Kaku 🤣

I felt that Sai already mentally prepared to move out of this CN asylum, so she wants to solve the problem of Devyani soon who unknowingly got stuck in mental asylum.

I think in a way she knows that getting Devyani together with Pulkit is going to turn into a disaster for her personally. It is possible that she actually decided to accept the reality and is reminding herself of the deal marriage, more so after the Ladakh trip humiliation she suffered from the entire family.

Nice analysis.

I know many of forum mates infact most of d think that what sai yesterday was complete truth but sadly it was not complete truth but Sai's pov , jo sai sochti coz sach 2 tarah ke hote ek jo sach mein sach ho by all ways or dusra jisse hum sach mante hai but vo sach nhi humara pov hota.

Sadly mujhe lagta sai has most of d characteristics inspired by bheem & parvati ji but now I feel she has characteristics of a-dharmaraj yudhishthir 2 jinhe lagta tha sach bolne or sach jane ka copyright sirf unhi ka , jo vo sochte vo sach baaki sab jhoot hain.🤔

Regarding virat saying about d wall built of ego, yes he was right that wall is built of ego only, ego that she only speak truth & knows everyone without knowing everycoin has a different side.

Sorry virat can't break these walls but only time will force sai to break & make her realise worth of virat. Bhagwan jab dard deta to usse sehne ki shakti pe deta hain.

Virat kuch bhi keh ke but pakhi staying in d house will never let sai forget virakhi angle , she saw family objecting her going with d family but forgot her husband was d one who wanted to take her along , if he was so in love with pakhi & hide his love for pakhi behind friendship why d hell he will tag her along .

Regarding virat not telling about taking sai along I found it funny that when virat never utter a single word of sai then how did C gang & pakhi thought virat will not take sai along even pakhi's father said it was normal uske liye virat announcement karne ki need nhi thi. Pakhi ka drama illogicality ki limit tha. Virat usse directly keh bhi dega tab bhi vo virat ka peecha bhi chhodne wali. I guess makers ko iss triangle ko khatam kar dena chahiye.

Today's episode sai mostly treats CN as hotel where she don't feel she is answerable nor tolerate any one ask her including virat , it's like her habit & she don't care what virat things so .as she is believers she is right always.

C gang only waits for opportunities to instigate virar against sai , again they got .