Pal Bhar Thahar Jao, Dil Ye Sambhal Jaye - Page 3

Originally posted by: msin

Hi Janaki

I was extremely sad during the episode .. both of them are hurting .. and hurting badly

I liked virat today .. he wants to make amends .. I see the desire in him to put his marriage in the right track .. it’s no more just a deal fir him ..sayi has her issues .. abd the issues are too deep .. she needs TLC

but virat is going her aaba way .. it’s a start .. but he has to differentiate.. he cannot keep on manaoing her like a kid .. today tea scene was very cute .., but it should have been followed in the night .. Saturday night with a little more hubby wife scene ..

I was actually quite convinced that he understood that her words have come from very deep anguish regarding her 'loneliness'. It was a sting when she said how she's alone and he didn't know what to say. Sai's bursting out and her words have got very clearly registered in his mind and he is actually doing the small things to set a tone for the conversation. It is not an issue that can just be set aside, he knows it. But the reason why it seems like Virat has taken it too lightly is that there weren't enough connecting scenes between one day and the next until the showdown. They could have shown a few seconds of silence in the bedroom or them still sleeping with their backs turned to each other or Sai turned her back to Virat. It would have established the connect -- but it was evident that Sai was still upset and Virat was trying to woo her from his initial mood when he came down to the common area.

Every couple has their own vibe .. but I feel it’s time virat starts charming .. flirting with sayi .. to bridge the gap between them ..

Of course we will get to swoon and enjoy but it is needed .. because every time sayi cuts him up with a sword .. aap mere Kuch nahi lagte .. and virat gets hurt and more hurt ..

The easiest way out will be the age old way .. but of course in this soap .. it won’t and we will keep on getting Jalebis

But the Jalebis should at least be well connected. There is so much gap left in between and one can imagine it in any which way.

tea has been replaced by chhas today .. but the dialogs between the the reality judges are same

Don’t they the adults get fed up of mouthing the same thing again n again

Can they have other proper plots .. abd why do these Chavan lot dress up so much .. nobody seems to step out if the house

sayi n virat both have active lives abd still want to step out on a Sunday. But what about others is PZo , karishma hapoy to stay inside house the whole day

And in 2020-21 .. do families still keep daughter in laws tied to house and not allowing them to go anywhere

sayi was silly no doubt handling this issue .. her ego was more than devyani ka problem resolving ...

There were many ways she could have gone out . Told her professor has a function in house invite me for lunch with other students

or she could have met PD sir after college .. extended hours .. Sunday ko hubby time ko Kyu disturb kiya

She could have also taken virat along ..

since virat was unaware of Devyani pulkit connection.. she could have taken her hubby along for lunch ..

virat could also have diffused the issue by saying let me drop you over .. I will see where u are going .. will pick you up after 2 hours .. as. Her husband he had the right .. but conjugal rights establish karna pa dega 🤣🤣.. tab tak biwi nahi manegi

Mohit sayi conversation was good .. I hope they continue.. what was Sunny doing .. in. Virat office ..

why can’t virat pick up his wife from college.. why do all conversations need to be inside the house .

And sayi is in college not school

So she can bunk a few classes abd go for a date with hubby ..

@bold: i gave the chhaas a royal ignore🤣 itna bada glass chhaas peekar bhi their venom doesn't get cancelled. And Venomwali vedi Vahini is giving all kinds of zeher-laced drinks to everyone.

I agree, it's like a jail. No one has a life outside that mansion and for some it is in the zillat arena that they find oxygen! But yes, Virat can definitely get her to bunk a couple of classes for his lunch plan without letting the chakrams know and create tamasha... may be they are too studious to think of that 😆

I don't think she could have taken Virat along. Both Sai and Pulkit are aware why they are meeting and why it is essential only for the two of them to meet. I guess if it weren't for this fight, Sai would have had her way without antagonising Virat and Ashwini but today she seemed like she was doing it on purpose.

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

ikr, accha hua ki tea gir gayi. abhi we know that he will stop her from eating and may or may not twist her hand but agar chai piya hota tho 110% dono ke dusre ke murder hi kardete 🤣

We will have to wait for it to unfold... but thank God the tea was spilled. Even in fiction, the zeher is so strong that no one should consume it 😆

Originally posted by: Svt611

Jankiii aap ayye toh bahar aayi! Dil ko sukoon aur dimaag ko thandak mili!!

thank you for this lovely analysis Like always. ❤️❤️❤️

Thanks for making my day! 🤗❤️ who doesn't like TLC and affection ☺️

Yes maybe today she was in a very bad mood .. kind of given up on her marriage and wants to leave it

Originally posted by: msin

Yes maybe today she was in a very bad mood .. kind of given up on her marriage and wants to leave it

That is more like it. She has finally said what she had to say -- There is a difference in telling yourself something internally and verbalising it. There is no more pretence in between them now and this is Virat's best chance to hold her and tell her what he is has been feeling about her and his need to have her around him or his possessiveness. The reason for all their unresolved fights so far is Virat's inability to express and Sai's preconceived ideas. So at least she has bared it to him -- he knows exactly what she thinks and what is holding her back. The ball is in his court. He was shocked to hear it all because he genuinely doesn't think his actions are coming across that way so now, before he says 'you don't consider me your husband', again, he should ensure he makes her feel like he is her husband. And at least he is making an attempt instead of brooding and going mad. But tomorrow might be a different day. At the end of a moment of weakness when you really do something you will feel mortified about the in the next minute, what matters is how you make up for it.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

That is more like it. She has finally said what she had to say -- There is a difference in telling yourself something internally and verbalising it. There is no more pretence in between them now and this is Virat's best chance to hold her and tell her what he is has been feeling about her and his need to have her around him or his possessiveness. The reason for all their unresolved fights so far is Virat's inability to express and Sai's preconceived ideas. So at least she has bared it to him -- he knows exactly what she thinks and what is holding her back. The ball is in his court. He was shocked to hear it all because he genuinely doesn't think his actions are coming across that way so now, before he says 'you don't consider me your husband', again, he should ensure he makes her feel like he is her husband. And at least he is making an attempt instead of brooding and going mad. But tomorrow might be a different day. At the end of a moment of weakness when you really do something you will feel mortified about the in the next minute, what matters is how you make up for it.

@Bold - This wont come easy, considering the way the tempers are flaring and that too now in front of the household. It was not about who is wrong or right i guess. Its about understanding and her one statement was enough to tell him that She is all alone. And she was looking at him when she said that. She needs him, hope he figures that out. Wont be easy but lets see.

Havent seen todays episode but this is basis your analysis and what i saw yesterday.

Have seen the precap and would not want to comment on the food part till episode airs. He looks royally pissed and in the next very scene he looks all broken (when vahini picks up the opportunity). He needs to see the difference, he was asking for a suggestion "how do i make her understand" and she was into self mode only. Well lets see how it plays out.

Thank you for your post, I can vividly imagine the episode. I won't be able to watch the episode today. But it looks like today and tomorrow will be drama at high pitch😆

I haven't seen the pre cap. But does Virat genuinely think if he tells Pakhi he cares for Sai and Sai samajhti nahi, she will give him best friend advice like Sunny🤪? Or is he going to stop at Sai samajhti nahi or whatever. He should try telling her what he really feels, if he's so confident about their dosti.

I am very much like sai find it difficult to beat round the bush. But I usually used to take help of my bro to handle such situations in our conservative fam.

Not lie but not complete truth either ..but yes atleast he used to know. She could have have like many said taken Ashwini into confidence told her most of the truth. Always safe to keep one person in loop fully

Originally posted by: Sairat

CN mei logo ko alag alag tarah ke obsession hai.I have noticed Delusion didi ka Virat se obsession,

Virat ko Maturity and Toofanmail ki Dosti ka obsession and Sai ko Sach aur Insaaf ka obsession.

Good one and so true 😆

Aaj ka bhi khana gaya, precap ki mane to lunch kya dinner bhi nahi Naseeb hoga kisiko

I generally avoid getting psyched by the Precap. It does look pretty unpleasant. Let's see...

Aaj Sai was in Jhansi ki Rani mode, even in her monologue; is ghar ke logon ko Sach se kuch lena dena nahi was a symbol for me that she has given up on his family, her monologue was sad but today it showed her hopelessness regarding to the family.Even when she was talking to Mohit.Earlier after a family drama Sai would take a funny route or funny comment about family, whatever she did it showed respect that she had for the elders of the family.But today in Zillat arena; Sai when she spoke with Pakhi or Sonali or anyone : she did not had that respect for them today it was "I do not owe you" attitude was caught by 2 people : Bhawani kaku and Virat.

Bhawani Kaku pointed to her fav bahu to shutup;

She knew the moment Sai said the first sentence that "Trip Fiasco" has removed any respect that Sai had.

Virat knew and thus apart from his reaction i felt there was a fear; she does not care about it now.I am not sure, i might be wrong.

Major Question: What pushed Sai's Wrong Button?

Sai always thought Makad sena respected PP as she always maintained a facade, but during trip fiasco when that mask slipped and dil ke ache gharwale did not pointed out the wrong, they lost her respect.

Fact Check: Sai is brutally honeat which comes across rude but never before she disrespected anyone from Makad sena this directly because on somelevel she hoped and respected them, but when that respect is lost what is stopping Sai to throw all barriers down and railroad anyone who dares to cross her path..Nothing..

Virat has an inkling of this , thats why his reaction borders on extreme because he knows Sai Joshi ko Sai Joshi le alwa koi nhi rok sakta..

Totally agree with you. It is such a beautiful note that you have added this. Yes, she's revealed her innermost feelings to him about the marriage. Without saying, she has verbalised how he makes her feel, knowing that she can never have the 'husband' he is supposed to be, she knows the reason for it -- something that she mentioned without being so direct on a couple of previous occasions -- but he did not expect it to come out like this. That whole trip fiasco actually undid a lot of things for her and for one, it pushed her to speak up and ask questions.

You are right - the entire conduct of the elders encouraging PP to go holidaying with Virat alone while Sai accompanying her own husband was turned into 'maukaparasthi' and to an extent the defensive way in which Virat went about arguing with everyone -- especially that last part where Virat and PP tell each other they are let down by each other - it had hurt her the most. She did feel like a third person in their relationship. No one called PP's unreasonable meltdown a 'tamasha' and she gets showered with all the sympathy because they basically hate Sai and so she has been propped up as "chaheeti and missing husband".

Virat, of course, knows he hasn't been able to cajole her and he's already in tears 😆😆 he knows he won't be able to stop her and she's going to ultimately take any opportunity presented to leave the house. He's really skating on a melting ice-slab.

Today, Sai looked like Devi Mahakali on war, nothing can stop her apart from herself and Shiva.

A shiva who has let go of his ego, laid down infront of Maa kali to stop the worldwide destruction.

@Pink ..Janki your post was awesome as usual.Added some points that I felt also happened today.

Lovely!!! 👍🏼👏❤️❤️

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Your post was awesome. I agree with everything you have mentioned. We all have fights sometime or the other. But, we can always sit and resolve it. As always Sai was adamant and I guess she didn't want to face Virat and so took the opportunity to meet Pulkit on a Sunday. Whatever the situation she could have spoken to Virat since he had told her that he too wants to know Devi tai's past. Atleast she could have made an attempt. But, no Sai is very adamant and she chose to not inform anyone. Whatever happens later she'll be held responsible and once again both Virat and Sai will be at loggerheads and the third person will try to take advantage.

I agree. They always leave space between them for a third person to enter. It is also because they actually lack that closeness which is needed to seal that space. But this fight should actually, at least, be able to bridge that distance to an extent. The ball is really in Virat's court, but Sai has to calm down and listen.