Good morning sisterhood
🇮🇳Happy Republic Day!! 🇮🇳
It has been soooh long since we saw Chakram niwasis having a full-fledged go at one another. Kitna miss Kar rahe they hum inko...
What a contrast the two scenes were: on the one hand, Ninad and Ashwini's dysfunctional marriage becomes a spectacle in front of the family and on the other, their son -- ACP Virat Chavan is tacitly threatening a college student, who's given him a jolt to get a grip on what was meant to be a dysfunctional marriage to begin with.
So, in absence of Sai, they have a go at Ashwini for the slightest of things. Needless to say, it was heartbreaking to watch her in that position -- even the younger couple having a chance to demean and insult her... But what would anyone expect if there is no 'husband' by the side of a woman who has been seen as "unworthy" since the beginning. How similar could Ashwini and Sai's stories have been had Virat taken after his father?
Ashwini's angst from a failed marriage and the weight of carrying the facade of it being a 'successful' one has slowly begun to come undone. I have no words to spare for a man who addresses his wife as “You woman” with a condescending tone to begin with. And, then goes on to comment about her education and her physical appearance -- really, what was the compulsion that this great Shahannav Kuli Maratha family with pseudo Maratha values had to 'shelter' this woman in marriage and condemn her for the rest of her life? Does a man like Ninad, who feels a woman should be slapped or beaten to teach her a lesson or make her toe the line, deserve any woman in his life to begin with. He's handing out the same disrespect to his son's wife by repeating his she is not worthy of a 'mature' conversation. Height hai! 😡
It is true that people project their own ways of thinking on others. Bhavani's accusations that Ashwini is eyeing Sai's money, which is her motivation to support her, is such an obnoxious way of degrading a mother. And coming from the woman, who seems to have no motherly instinct for anyone including her own biological daughter. I can't decide if it was Bhavani's comment about Sai's eventual success or Ninad's comment about Ashwini's mediocre looks and education that made me angry... I guess it was both. While one cannot expect anything better from BA Pass Kaku, Ninad, by the virtue of being a man whose son Ashwini has borne is the one in the lower pit. If nothing, at least accord the woman the respect she deserves as your child's mother.
Ashwini's hurt and retaliation is so understandable but it is also true that she cannot put up a fight against the pack of wolves charging at her without the backing of her now powerful son -- powerful by his value systems, not position. Has Virat ever heard his father speak of his disgust and contempt for his mother? Would he have been able to let this slide? I am glad for Sai did not hear much of this exchange too or it would have turned into a war of different kind and Ninad ko cardiac arrest ho hi jaata. Bappa ne jaan bacha li aaj Baap bete, dono ki 😅 Height hai 😂
So far it is obvious that Ashwini has sheltered Virat from a lot of unpleasant truths and as we go further it is getting clearer that his idea of 'dil-ke-acche' Ghar ke bade will come undone one layer at a time.
Unfortunately, all three sons of the house have been raised in such an environment where rising up to autocracy is seen as unforgivable defection to the side of the enemy. Sonali shutting up Mohit speaks volumes of the fact that he wasn't raised by her at all. I am not sure if Ashwini was the official nanny to all children, while being the mother to Virat but can't help wonder how all four of the next generation -- Devyani, Samrat, Virat and Mohit -- do not subscribe to the value systems or the lack of it of the autocrats of the family and have refused to join the militia that runs it.
Mohit speaking up for Ashwini was heartening to see. It's time that his personality is shown because he's technically the actual doosra beta of the house and the only pure blood that the autocracy demands. What a joke it is when they say is Ghar me bahuon ke Saath Bhed bhaav Nahi hota... There is so much 'disparity of respect' between the sons and then between the sons and the daughters.
I liked PP for one moment -- she was indeed feeling bad for Ashwini and one could see her uncomfortable when Ashwini spoke of the 'iccha, armaan and haq' of a wife... I felt she understood Ashwini's feeling for a fleeting moment and even found Ninad's comment distasteful. But although she rushed to end the fight in a very neutral manner and even asked Bhavani to end it, her allegiance to the Makad Sena is going to be her biggest undoing. At the end of the day, she must return to the camp she has chosen for her own venom. No wonder she could only think of getting them all some more of the 'extoxic' tea 😅
It made me wonder, would she have been an ideal bahu with real concern for the family had she actually been married to Virat? I almost wanted to say yes but then I realised, "No". A person who is unfaithful in the very essence of agreeing to a marriage cannot be a different person in a different situation. Her outward behaviour towards Ashwini would have possibly been different but not because she would have genuine love for the mother in law , but because if the fact that it would be the ideal virtue to display --display is the word. It would have been ideal until something or someone would need her to move out of her comfort zone or let go of her right over her 'prized possession' 1.47 hours love wala husband for any issues.
There are many women like PP, who marry, adjust and put their best foot forward when they get the man of their dreams. They fulfill responsibilities with utmost precision on display but it is just that -- a display. Because being truly in love with the man or those close to him would mean showing the mirror when it is needed, even if it comes at the cost of being misunderstood. PP would have probably lived in the bubble if she had indeed married Virat and received double the respect from the approving elders for being the 96KSKMMSPP variety of heir producing machine -- and Virat too, would have lived in the bubble, oblivious to the grey that he's now beginning to see under the rosy landscape of his mansion. And there would have been no breaking of shackles, no renewing spirits and no growth. There is so much unlearning and relearning that Virat needs to do, which will eventually happen when Shiva-Sai establish the rightful 'Hindavi Swaraj' -- refusing to live as slaves, where the kingdom is as much the king's as of the last standing subject.
How many days in the week does Chakram niwas allow Shivani and Mansi to have a total sisters day out and be MIA?
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Was the round up meant to be funny? I took it at face value only 😅
So ACP Chavan saheb, accompanied by two caricaturish Police Inspector and a constable arrive at the college to check "permission" for fresher's event. Not bad, Chavan. But in the end, you let it slip that they didn't even have the police permission? 😐😄 What if you have to meet this Dean someday as your wife's husband? 😂 Uss din toh toofan mail ko sab pata chal Jayega 😅 hopefully by then you'd have progressed in your mission... oh thank Bappa that she was dressed in yellow and you could spot her immediately...😐😑 And what's with all these naamkarans he keeps doing.... Badbad devi, Jhagda champion, rebel queen, zill-e-ilaahi and now toofan mail 😐 Sai has a lot of catching up to do after Gabbar with this PMSing husband of hers.
So he came, he saw head-to-toe, he measured the height 😂😂 and he gave the permission to sing?! 😮 But not to impress anyone.... someone.😅 Arrey Chavan Saheb, lage haath you should have asked him which song he plans to sing for the event. It would have made it easier for you to sing it to Sai first and satiate your ego 😂 of watching her reaction first. Then she would tell Aniket, "Arrey wah, mere husband ne bhi ye gaana gaya hai..."😆
Waise how hard did he try to hide from toofan mail 😂 and they actually played the background music they used for Jagtap earlier 🤣😂🤣😂🤣 aaj toh Sai Ka ek aur premonition sach ho Gaya
"Jagtap 2.0. you just follow me wherever i go"
Arrey but Chavan saheb, you must follow her wherever she goes like a Hutch puppy not the stalker you are assigned to nab under 354D 😂😂 the two PIs also confused ki Saheb Aaye Kyun Hain 😅 waise Dean ne office me invite Karke bacha liya or else he was going to run into Sai and face a barrage of embarrassing questions 😝 and lifelong ammunition for her to pull his leg and make his face become the laal gubbara again.
But maan na padega, Sai Joshi mein dum hai... Dean ke office ke door se she can peep, call out, exchange goodbye with the friend and the Dean. Did Chavan Saheb totally miss how important it was for her to say that bye to the khet?!😂 Waise, today was another proof that he can even recognise Sai's half whisper voice 🤩... Chavan Saheb, aapko Woh life changing phone call par kya ho Gaya tha, ye batao ki all you could say was "Who's this!?"😅
So Aniket's first dialogue exchange happened with Virat Chavan on the screen. Shukar hai, pata chalega is baat pe bhi Chavan saheb hangry ho Gaye 😂😝😅 waise aaj toh breakfast, lunch acche se khaa Kar Aaye thay college. So, he's done a recce of the event and he knows who his competitor is. He didn't seem flustered at all after visiting the 'khet'. Apni farming techniques par kaafi confident lag Rahe thay 😃 now get to sowing the seeds Chavan Saheb or you'll miss the season of bloom, jiski puja ka drama Aapke saamne unfold Hoga.
Waiting for Sai to find out that her jealous Pati unabashedly misused his khaki to 'check out' the singer. Waise, am a tad disappointed.. Chavan Saheb ne voice testing Nahi Kiya -- 1,2,3 check... 😂🤣
Now when he goes home he better not find the Baiko all dressed up and dancing to -- 18 baras ki kanwaari kali thi.. Ghoonghat mein mukhda chhupaake chali thi.. phasi dori, Phasi dori Channe Ke Khet Mein.. Hui Chori Channe Ke Khet Mein 😂🤣😂 farm fire lag jayegi poore Nagpur mein!
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So bring on the Alta drama tomorrow. Hopefully the eyes will get some relief from this burst of yellow once they are done. My eyes are burning with the yellow! 😑
If anyone tells you to be a yellow stardust today, listen, smile and agree but go on to become the pink stardust or better-- kesri, safed aur hara 🇮🇳 spread the joys, hugs 🤗 and love ♥️💖 enjoy your coffee ☕☕ and tea 🍵🍵 and grab a cupcake 🧁 or muffin, if you please. Bas ek Baar, for all those heroes who protect the freedom with which we breathe, say a Jai Hind! 🇮🇳
Love you all
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