Oops... I spoke to soon :p

Hello my lovelies🤗

I just saw the SBS segment now which satanized my eyes, and now I had to sanitize them. Abhi bhi jal raha hai, but it will cool down if I refrain from watching SBS again.

And yeah, as the title itself says, I guess I spoke too soon... or not😆. So, it is confirmed that Virat will stop Sai from saying anything to Pakhi further. But in what context, we still don't know. In the SBS interview, Neil said something like his gharwale put false accusation on Sai saying she's doing this out of spite, which is why Virat intervenes. And maybe after he finds out the truth, he'll regret it. Idk why I'm hoping that it will still be slightly tolerable...

But I still want Sai to give a befitting reply to Virat and make him contemplate his sacchai ke saath dene wala policy for once.

Also, the only reason I might get angry with Virat (I already am... I guess😆), is because he knew what exactly happened with Sai and how Pakhi taunted her even in front of him, but still he just wants to diffuse the situation by stopping Sai and helping Pakhi. I'm not gonna blame him for being a two-timer or something, because, after the pyaar-dosti slip up, Virat has never leaned towards Pakhi even in a slightly romantic way. He has genuinely moved on from that stupid vaada (we all know that), and he is trying to be a "friend" to Pakhi, a well-wisher. And he also considers Pakhi his well-wisher. And I can understand why he would still take a stand for Pakhi. As much as I don't want to, here's why I feel he would take a stand for her:

1. Pakhi has shown her "fake" concern for him many times, which, according to Virat, makes her his well-wisher and a genuine friend. He has not seen through her act yet. So, it is pretty obvious that he cannot see her being "tortured". He might definitely be okay with Sai calling her out on her BS and verbally putting her in her place, but physically hurting her is definitely not nice.

2. It is humanity. From a third person perspective, when you're seeing someone physically hurt and no one is doing anything about it, you would definitely want to intervene and put things right. It doesn't mean that he harbours romantic feelings for her, but is treating her with humanity. If Sai were the third person here, she herself would have intervened. Also, I don't think Sai herself is happy with Pakhi physically feeling pain, which is why she's talking to her in a soft tone, very politely trying to make her understand.

3. I don't think I have a reason 3 except for... he's lost his marbles.

I still think I spoke too soon in support of Virat in my previous post. But yeah, I'm keeping my guns loaded, along with 2 kgs of tomatoes, 2 dozen andas and 20 pairs of chappals. Let's see what happens tomorrow

Love,

Yours immaturely,

Niya🤗

Yeah sai herself felt bad seeing pakhi in pain..... she unlike pakhi does not relish in other's pain and in tormenting and humiliating people.

I agree w number 2. I was going to say the same. Virat does speak up for his wife and the things he has done in the past was wrong but he will not stand there and take anyone hurt and just watch. He couldnt do it w Sai or anyone else..it's not in the romantic aspect at all.

Additionally, whatever feelings Virat had for Pakhi, he called it love. I personally don't think you can ever unlove someone. I think the care will always be there if the releationship never ended in a sour/bitter note. So when you once loved someone, if the romantic feelings arent there ...there will be care there.

I havn't seen the episode and im not taking any sides but i don't think showing Pakhi how it hurts was correct either ..i personally think if she utilized her relationship w Virat to get back at Pakhi, that would work much better than this way

I actually agree. How do we expect Virat to goad Pakhi in this situation? If I saw it correctly, Sai brought cold water for Pakhi. So, Virat'd point might have been to not engage in such petty one-upmanship. I think all three of them are on different tangents. Sai thinks that those two are in love. Pakhi imagines Virat to be her husband, and Virat considers Pakhi to be a friend.

I think the mess lies in the lack of communication between Sairat. Pakhi's delusions need therapy really.

I don't think he wants Sai to be friendly with Pakhi but to be civil. I seriously did not think that he was engaging in anything romantic or that the segment showed EMA. He didn't hold Pakhi's hand even as she held them out, lol.

Chappals are , anyway, out.

Originally posted by: Bluegrass

I actually agree. How do we expect Virat to goad Pakhi in this situation? If I saw it correctly, Sai brought cold water for Pakhi. So, Virat'd point might have been to not engage in such petty one-upmanship. I think all three of them are on different tangents. Sai thinks that those two are in love. Pakhi imagines Virat to be her husband, and Virat considers Pakhi to be a friend.

I think the mess lies in the lack of communication between Sairat. Pakhi's delusions need therapy really.

I don't think he wants Sai to be friendly with Pakhi but to be civil. I seriously did not think that he was engaging in anything romantic or that the segment showed EMA. He didn't hold Pakhi's hand even as she held them out, lol.

Chappals are , anyway, out.

But how does he expect sai to be civil towards woman who has declared her as enemy no. 1 because in her delusional world, sai has snatched virat from her.... The only way to end this torment by virat breaking that promise made to pp... Tell her to focus on her own life instead of poking her nose into their matters.

Civil here does not mean being dormant but not engage in petty feuds. Objectively, if you someone you love got hurt by someone, would you ask them to go and physically hurt the other person as well? The cycle of one-upmanship continues. I don't mind that Sai taught Pakhi a lesson but I don't expect a third person to goad them either. Her Aaba would have done the same.

Yes even though i wished for the scene to be different, i think i do understand virat to an extent. He is potrayed to be a very soft spoken person who do not believe in tit for tat policy even when the other person harms you. There are also subtle differences in the way he treated sai and pakhi which shows he doesn’t harbor any romantic feelings for pakhi.

1. He shouted on pakhi when she was taunting sai, but he asked sai to stop now that she has made her point.

2. he was so worried for sai that he himself applied ice pack and called her in the middle of his busy day whereas with pakhi i am assuming he just went to her room to ask about her well being - yet to see.

3. he went away from the kitchen scene but he did not walk away from sai.

so as of now i am giving him the benefit of doubt. lets wait and watch.

but the night scene is still long ahead, aniket entry, devi’s medicine, back story of devi pulkit , sai’s dance and then the night scene.

And i dont think sai has planned and and wanted to hurt pakhi like pakhi and makad gang did. it’s just that there came an opportunity and she wanted to teach her a lesson. in the bts we see her giving her ice water. sai as such may be impulsive but not vengeful person.

I agree with your points here.

Sai herself was not happy when Pakhi was suffering. Virat also felt bad. And the way he felt bad was not out of some stupid 'love' that he had months ago, but just a humane concern. Like everyone pointed out, he has long forgotten that so-called vaada, and now he just views her as a friend whose husband is missing and hence he thinks it is fine to help her. It is another matter altogether, that Pakhi is least bothered about her MIA husband and she would have more food for her incest thoughts from now on. 🤢

But yes, the SBS segment is a massive put off. The picture of him helping Pakhi by holding her hand was really in bad taste. I did not even have the nerve to go through the segment. I am more bothered about what would follow after this sequence, where he goes to her bedroom with ointment?

All I want is for Sai to just be indifferent now. She needs to make friends of her age. ASAP.

Kind of off-topic, but I wanted to raise this question somewhere. Am I the only one who feels Virat is controlling / dominating kind of a guy? He seems to act all modern on your face, but he really isn't. This became more apparent the way he said, "While you are here, you will have to listen to me", but the CVs downplayed it by bringing in Sai's "Havaldar" comment and from there it took a comic angle.

Originally posted by: VioletOrchid123

But how does he expect sai to be civil towards woman who has declared her as enemy no. 1 because in her delusional world, sai has snatched virat from her.... The only way to end this torment by virat breaking that promise made to pp... Tell her to focus on her own life instead of poking her nose into their matters.

Sorry, forgot to quote your post.

I have replied to it. Additionally, I am thinking of a situation where I have a friend that my spouse does not like. (Virat considers Pakhi to be a friend, on his part.) The healthiest thing to do would be to not force them to engage with this friend— which is not possible here. I would hope that they trust me and do not engage in catfights with them. Secondly, I would keep these relationships separate because I am not giving up my friends for anyone. But, here's the problem, Pakhi is an ex despite never being in a relationship with Virat. In that case, I would have discussed all these things with my spouse in the initial stages of my relationship. I don't think these two have ever talked about what exactly happened between Virat and Pakhi and hence, all the MU.

I would not be friends with someone who has hurt my spouse. But, neither would I ask them to retaliate in kind. The problem lies in the fact that Pakhi is unavoidable and these two haven't cleared any air about anything. Virat needs to draw boundaries but these are two different things.

Here, he's helping someone who is physically hurt