Virat's intentions - Page 2

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

If she was only immatured still that would have been solved. But, at times she's very stubborn. She doesn't accept her fault easily. When Sayi got lost while returning back after her college admission inspite of Virat asking her to hold his hand, at that time too she wasn't ready to accept that it was her mistake. Now, too it's the same thing. Her stubbornness is taking a toll on Virat and not her. I know many won't agree, but Sayi too does make mistakes.

I am sorry, I thought being immature meant showing a lack of emotional maturity, and being stubborn is part of it. She still has a sense of childishness in her which is her character flaw and needs to work on overtime. As a person that is how we grow and become mature (not Virat and PP wala mature for god's sakes). She can't suddenly become a mature, complacent person in just a couple of days just because she is married. She absolutely has mistakes and not holding Virat's hand was her fault, but her actions towards Virat's family, although it may not be the way many people would like to handle it, it is still justified as they are trying to instigate her to act that way. They are always pushing her off the edge and Virat only takes out his frustration on her. She is so smooth when talking to Pakhi, but turns into a headmaster when talking to Sai. Not everyone likes a 24/7 nit-picking radar-like Virat on top of them to find faults at everything. He never tried to stop Kaku from calling her names like "jugli mulgi, choti ghar" etc. But when she herself tries to stand up for herself, he will stop her because to him it is being disrespectful to elders. He comes during the last half of the convo and assumes that Sai is wrong. He knows that his family is not accepting of Sai, but he does not know the extent to which they insult and demean her. His lack of knowledge about the entire situation is putting more pressure on him. If you can't speak then be silent, just don't barge in with your 2 cents like PP and make the situation worse. He should hear both sides of the story before throwing his opinions and judgment on others.

Whenever he is present and a fight breaks out, he always supports Sai because he knows his family is wrong. For example, when they came back for their date, and everyone was charging them for being so late, or that same morning when he was going out to take her for admission, or when Sai and PP had a verbal confrontation when Virat manaofied his baiko from Usha's room. All these instances he was there from the start and he supported Sai because he knew she was not wrong. Other times when he yelled at her, he walked in during the middle of the arguments and assumed Sai was wrong.

As I have said earlier that Virat is being sandwiched from both sides. However, as much he takes out on Sai to discipline her, he should use the same tone and brashness with PP and his family. No woman comes to her husband's family to get insulted with every breath she takes. If the husband can not try to bring a truce between both sides then he has the option to live with his wife separately. In this case, Sai wanted to move to a hostel, but he will not allow him to do that either.

@bold. what thing are you exactly referring to?

Originally posted by: piapriya

In today's episode I realised one thing.... All of them lack communication. All of them. Sai is Frank and speaks her mind but also doesn't speak clearly about what exactly the chavans say to her. She rants out but she forgets virat always makes his entry after chavans are done with threatening her. So he doesn't see the full picture and obviously supports his family.

Ashwini also expects Virat to always support Sai but even then she doesn't share what vile things the family call Dai behind his back.

Virat always sees half picture and assumes Sai could easily diffuse the situation by keeping quiet which obviously ain't happening. And since he is always half out of loop of what's truly going on he is frustrated.

It's frustrating to even tune in the show and all you see is one character screaming or accusing other 24*7.

Ashwini should have a talk with her son regarding herself as well as things going on in the family. She should also rightfully ask him to stop considering PP so dear even when he already has a wife! If he ever expects to truly bond with Sai. I am surprised why she hasn't done it till now tbh.

And I don't get it for a righteous person like Virat how can he just keep quiet when seeing his family calling Sai stupid names.🤷

Virat's biggest problem is sirf aankhon dekhi baat par believe karta hai.... I wonder how he must be solving cases with this kinda attitude..... He needs to listen to the whole thing before deciding on anything.... Last time during the masala grinding episode he said his family is just traditional.... Sai ko bhi poori baat batane ki aadat nahi hai... Instead she gets all worked up while talking to virat.

Originally posted by: deepthi2014

He didn't want to marry Sai... especially when she said"ye dunia ke aakhri ladke bhi honge na..to bhi main inse shaadi nahin karoongi". But kake kaka ans all so called "family members" kind of forced him to think over the decision of marrying her. Then also he mentioned that his family was very traditional and they won't agree to it...he got blown by that zimmedari n farz thing that he even dreamt of rescuing Sai out of the puddle n breaking his chains of vaada.

But when the decision of marrying Sai was taken he didn't take a step back from performing all rituals right from haldi till mangalsutra tying with full acceptence from within....

From then onwards, he has been constantly trying to make this relation work n to make Sai feel comfortable. He also gave her the freedom to talk back only with the clause of taking care as to whom she is speaking to..the "lehzaa".

That has been main point from the starting itself ..but now this blowing out of proportion arguments n loosing his cool is a sign of his helpness ness n his sense of failure to make Sai understand his family and vice versa..

Not Virat Sir's fault totally sirf situations aise hain ki woh majboor hain..totally my feelings..

Agreed that virat cant be solely blamed... The situations and daily drama is taking a toll on him.... Today's outburst was mainly due to his insecurities regarding sai... When pakhi said sai wont listen to you, he got adamant on making her apologise... Seemed like he wanted to prove that sai listens to him.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

I agree with you. It's not totally Virat's fault and it's never the fault of one person only in any relationship. If a relationship doesn't work between two people it's wrong to blame the either partner. So, I guess Sai too is to be equally blamed since she never tries to confide in him, but is always ready to take the plunge without thinking twice.

Virat was right about her plan to trap amay being stupid... This plan is working only because amay is an idiot of highest order.... Since virat said he will get amay punished sai should have let him take charge.... But she was hell bent on doing it by herself.

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire

That is what is called immaturity in Sai. She was always like that. But Virat didnt think it will cause so much heartburn in his family. She was and is doing all the work before or after college etc. But no, they keep provoking her. She isnt the silent types and Virat telling her to understand is just going down the drain.

Virat always trying to shut her up is doing no good.. Atleast poori baat jaan lo before deciding who is right and who is wrong... He didn't even listen to his aai when she tried to explain the situation

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

If she was only immatured still that would have been solved. But, at times she's very stubborn. She doesn't accept her fault easily. When Sayi got lost while returning back after her college admission inspite of Virat asking her to hold his hand, at that time too she wasn't ready to accept that it was her mistake. Now, too it's the same thing. Her stubbornness is taking a toll on Virat and not her. I know many won't agree, but Sayi too does make mistakes.

she does make mistakes but we have seen her in the past make up for those mistakes as well. however, this family taunts her every min nahi second of the day. they all gang up on her, if it's one person then she reponds to that person and then another one starts ...in that situation maybe she cant even think straight ki jane doon ya bolu. bc if you let go once then these people think you are weak and keep doing it. She def needs to improve her tone but i think if i was an 18 year old being subjected to such treatment, i would react the same way lol

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

If she was only immatured still that would have been solved. But, at times she's very stubborn. She doesn't accept her fault easily. When Sayi got lost while returning back after her college admission inspite of Virat asking her to hold his hand, at that time too she wasn't ready to accept that it was her mistake. Now, too it's the same thing. Her stubbornness is taking a toll on Virat and not her. I know many won't agree, but Sayi too does make mistakes.

Sai is a very much flawed character ... Noone said she's perfect and makes no mistakes... She's adamant and stupid at times... But we have to take her age into consideration too... She's still in a growing up phase... She was the only child of a single parent... She never had to deal with such a big family that too an extremely toxic family... It will take some time before she learns to deal with them tactfully....with time She will also learn to pick her battles wisely.

Originally posted by: VioletOrchid123

Agreed that virat cant be solely blamed... The situations and daily drama is taking a toll on him.... Today's outburst was mainly due to his insecurities regarding sai... When pakhi said sai wont listen to you, he got adamant on making her apologise... Seemed like he wanted to prove that sai listens to him.

Doesn't he have brain ?? Vahini just pressed that button and got triggered ??

Originally posted by: Panchhi1

Doesn't he have brain ?? Vahini just pressed that button and got triggered ??

This episode showed he actually doesnt lol 🤣

Originally posted by: Panchhi1

Doesn't he have brain ?? Vahini just pressed that button and got triggered ??

Vahini knows to hit where it hurts the most.... Virat was already upset with the last night fight with sai... She had already rejected his 'mujhe pasand nahi' and continued with her plan... So when she was again refusing to listen to him he got adamant.