I am not angry at Pakhi, but at Virat today - Page 3

I think Sai did speak up and was on point but shes at the end of the day an impressionable 18-19 yo. She has a lot of self belief, confidence abd conviction despite her age and semi rural background thanks to her aabaa parvarish. She has a lot of respect and regard for virat not only because he took a stand and is helping with her ambition but also because her father had a lot of regard for this man too. And upar se shes getting emotionally attached to him unwittingly. Literally hes all she has right now. Maushi aai, devi and shivani are nice people just like the GC villagers but she cant count on them like she can with Virat to actually take a stand for her. So despite everything she told him, if the only person she trusts and seems to be her well wisher says all this, she will be forced to consider it seriously.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Exactly. My husband who watched along with me commented...Will this ACP react the same way if some other girl faced this ? He would have gone to the roots to trace the exact happenings that resulted in the girl getting injured while leaving for college.

Exactly! my anger lies there...he is a police officer who takes his duty so seriously, but when it comes to his family he will just look the other way.

Talk about double standards from the ML.

Originally posted by: Bana

This is not only about Virat’s personality & how much he knew about the abuse. His handling of it goes completely against the code of conduct & training of police officers esp IPS cadre.

Imagine a girl came to the police station with blistered hands & complained that her inlaws were preventing her from going to college. What wld he do? Tell her to out up with her traditional inlaws or order an enquiry?

Double standards!

Here in chakram niwas there is a bunch of sadistic egotistical morons and virat is saying they are dil se achaa hai.My foot 😡

Not just disappointed with Virat but also at the creatives

What type of a mss are we conveying that DV is ok and u should put with with abuse coz it's adjustment time or traditional. Not all abuse is physical ..

It just irks me ..how can a ML who is especially a cope who should be example propogate this..

Please set an example through the ITV so that small changes people are encouraged to take

Originally posted by: by_stander

Exactly! my anger lies there...he is a police officer who takes his duty so seriously, but when it comes to his family he will just look the other way.

Talk about double standards from the ML.

Exactly

Agar uske pas koi ladki domestic violence ki complaint leke jayegi toh wo FIR karne ki jagah use hi samjha kar wapas bhej dega ki thodi si hi Orthodox family hai tum thoda adjust kar lo...kha lo ek do thappad roj ke kya farak padta hai🤣

Originally posted by: by_stander

Exactly! my anger lies there...he is a police officer who takes his duty so seriously, but when it comes to his family he will just look the other way.

Talk about double standards from the ML.

I do not want Sai to change one bit.... I loved her for being a firecracker lead who knows to give tit for tat... don’t want another ITV typical bahu out of her.... so, a big NO to Virat’s suggestions... it’s time he changes his perception about his family and come out of denial that oh family - they have a good heart but are orthodox... he can SEE it... he needs to accept it!!! they are bad people who never accepted his mom and will never accept Sai

On a diff prospect I agree with what he said, it's not just abt her with respect to his family members ,, even in real world, be it in hostel or hospital , she will have to face so many different types of people , he tells her how to go about turning things around in her favor or make way to pass through these lanes full of ditches , it was more of a caution.

if trow similar situation arises in hostel, where will she go ?

I think it was a pretty normal advice , though I totally agree with Sai , those chavans are not worth trying to impress or win over them, but she shdn't quit the space, instead do things her way not to impress them which they never will be,...but do things which give her good and peaceful sleep at night ,,,

when an elephant walks , dogs bark .... just bark...,... Sai shdn't react or show her reaction and adopt a diff approach ...

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

On a diff prospect I agree with what he said, it's not just abt her with respect to his family members ,, even in real world, be it in hostel or hospital , she will have to face so many different types of people , he tells her how to go about turning things around in her favor or make way to pass through these lanes full of ditches , it was more of a caution.

if trow similar situation arises in hostel, where will she go ?

I think it was a pretty normal advice , though I totally agree with Sai , those chavans are not worth trying to impress or win over them, but she shdn't quit the space, instead do things her way not to impress them which they never will be,...but do things which give her good and peaceful sleep at night ,,,

when an elephant walks , dogs bark .... just bark...,... Sai shdn't react or show her reaction and adopt a diff approach ...

Somewhere virat is right when he says sai is impulsive and immature and she jumps to conclusions too soon but today I felt virat's advice was not needed. His advice was right but he chose wrong time to give it. He should have explained it to her when she created ruckus on the day of her result or many other occasions where she completely comes as an immature, impulsive, angry person but today, she was right at her place. She cut herself in the process was her fault because she lost her patience but still the chavans were pathetic and tried to demoralize her, insulted her just to take revenge. This is not done.

If she goes to live in hostel and come across mean people then she will give them befitting reply and not try to get into their good books. If she will have to face struggles in life then it will be her struggles, her battles to make her dream come true. She would gladly fight those battles and learn her lessons but here forcing her to please all chavans and take their shit was so unfair on virat's part.

Bang on post👏

The chakram family has very conveniently forgotten that their son is alive because Said father sacrificed his life.

They keep abusing her and virat says Dil ke bure nahi hai,what rubbish,bure nahi Dil hi nahi hai unke pass,heartless brainless jungli pack of wolves attacking a young girl.

Also virat is witness to how his Kaku and father treat Ashwini after 28 yrs of marriage.how is Sai gonna deal with such horrible people?

And why should she in this deal Wala marriage.

If this is how they are behaving now how is Sai going to go thru 5 and a half years of medical college?