What you will call it?

I know what Pakhi is expecting: An EMA🤢.

Still I kind of feel good that she is true to whatever she is feeling.

But Virat has friendzoned her (the rooftop conversation). Still he keeps on glancing at her.😒

What you would call it from Virat's side?

Has he truely friendzoned her?or he is emotionally infidel but kind of behaving morally right?

I am kind of 'ghum' thinking what he is actually feeling..

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

I know what Pakhi is expecting: An EMA🤢.

Still I kind of feel good that she is true to whatever she is feeling.

But Virat has friendzoned her (the rooftop conversation). Still he keeps on glancing at her.😒

What you would call it from Virat's side?

Has he truely friendzoned her?or he is emotionally infidel but kind of behaving morally right?

I am kind of 'ghum' thinking what he is actually feeling..

Right now, I feel that there is typical war between the mind and the heart for Virat. When Pakhi questioned him regarding his feelings for her, he said that he thinks of her s his best friend. Obviously he cannot say that he still loves her, because that's downright disgusting, no matter what the situation.

Also, she is Samrat's wife. So, even if he has any feelings for her at all, he'll never be able to openly say it out loud or act upon it.

Also, he knows how strongly Pakhi feels for him. She's never kept it a secret. So now, after giving her that thoughtless vaada, he also feels extremely guilty for leading her on and getting her into this mess.

So, whatever his feelings are towards Pakhi, the guilt over-shadows every other feeling he has for her.

Honestly since pakhi married samrat, I actually don't see any love from virat's side for pakhi... all I see is gratitude for pakhi for agreeing to his request and an obligation to be sensitive towards her feelings out of acknowledgement that she's in an unhappy marriage only because of him. He knows the promise he gave her and he knows the expectations she has of him, so now it's him being careful not to hurt her feelings or make her feel he has forgotten that she has sacrificed her happiness on his words.

Its why he puts her on a pedestal, tries to keep her involved with his marriage to sai. It's him trying to over-compensate her for sacrificing something for him. Not love! I actually see and feel the weight of the guilt and gratitude that will constantly be on him due to pakhi is what will finish the feelings of love he has for pakhi, because that weight and burden of guilt and gratitude will be too great for love to be able to survive, especially if pakhi herself starts to push that burden on him by constantly making him feel guilty and reminding him of her "Sacrifice" and favour she did to him. The more she tries to guilt him, the more that feeling of love will wear down and be overpowered by guilt.

On the other hand he knows sai blames him for her loss, but unlike pakhi, she won't constantly remind him and make him feel guilty, and neither will she keep any expectations from him. Instead he is doing everything for sai without her demanding or expecting anything from him and he continues to think for her out of concern and duty despite him knowing sai does not expect him to think for her so much and that she prefers he wouldn't. For that reason thinking about sai's feelings and happiness won't feel like a burden and obligation as much down the line in future and will feel instinctive to him eventually.

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

I know what Pakhi is expecting: An EMA🤢.

Still I kind of feel good that she is true to whatever she is feeling.

But Virat has friendzoned her (the rooftop conversation). Still he keeps on glancing at her.😒

What you would call it from Virat's side?

Has he truely friendzoned her?or he is emotionally infidel but kind of behaving morally right?

I am kind of 'ghum' thinking what he is actually feeling..

i would not call it infidelity because he has told Sai the truth before marrying her. Also, one can definitely actually have anyone in their heart but it depends on the conduct whether it is immoral or no. So, as far as Virat goes, I can give him (only this much) credit that he has refrained from even the slightest 'touch' with Pakhi and there have been scenes where he has wanted to call her but refrained after remembering that she has told him that Samrat might have learnt about them. He is mostly shown returning her desperate missed calls during the Gadchiroli posting.

Plus, i don't think he actually knows that she married Samrat not as a sacrifice but because she saw it as a backdoor entry to Virat's bedroom. 👎👎

Originally posted by: sammy17

Honestly since pakhi married samrat, I actually don't see any love from virat's side for pakhi... all I see is gratitude for pakhi for agreeing to his request and an obligation to be sensitive towards her feelings out of acknowledgement that she's in an unhappy marriage only because of him. He knows the promise he gave her and he knows the expectations she has of him, so now it's him being careful not to hurt her feelings or make her feel he has forgotten that she has sacrificed her happiness on his words.

Its why he puts her on a pedestal, tries to keep her involved with his marriage to sai. It's him trying to over-compensate her for sacrificing something for him. Not love! I actually see and feel the weight of the guilt and gratitude that will constantly be on him due to pakhi is what will finish the feelings of love he has for pakhi, because that weight and burden of guilt and gratitude will be too great for love to be able to survive, especially if pakhi herself starts to push that burden on him by constantly making him feel guilty and reminding him of her "Sacrifice" and favour she did to him. The more she tries to guilt him, the more that feeling of love will wear down and be overpowered by guilt.

On the other hand he knows sai blames him for her loss, but unlike pakhi, she won't constantly remind him and make him feel guilty, and neither will she keep any expectations from him. Instead he is doing everything for sai without her demanding or expecting anything from him and he continues to think for her out of concern and duty despite him knowing sai does not expect him to think for her so much and that she prefers he wouldn't. For that reason thinking about sai's feelings and happiness won't feel like a burden and obligation as much down the line in future and will feel instinctive to him eventually.

U explained it very well.