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Happy International Woman's Day
Few thoughts...
( The post is not intended to any one )
Always prioritize your health first...if you have to care of your family.
Its ok if you are stay at home mother and not earning...your kids come first and dont care about people saying not earning...you can always work when kids grow...world is full of opportunities...
Its ok if you are working mother and kids at day care...dont listen people saying your are not spending time with kids...you can always spend with them after work..you love them unconditionally...building carreer is always important
Its ok if you are not earning money...but always try to be independent...
Its ok you if you want to get married later, career comes first...
Its ok if you want to remain single...you can always become mother by adopting...
With kids, Its ok if kitchen is dirty, cushions every corner of the room...toys everywhere...you can always do it later or your partner can help...kids come first...
Its ok if you are tired and cannot cook...take outs are always there...be stress free
Its ok if the other woman in the house judges you...always reciprocate with smile...you dont want any saas bahu drama at the end of the day...not always possible...Ouch
Dont get affected if people judge you by the way you dress or you attend late parties...be yourself...its your life...
Dont judge any woman...you are not in their shoes...
Its ok if you dont have friends...groups are always there where you meet new people.
Its ok if you are dad's lil princess or brother's darling sister or your partner's sweet heart...they need not gift you everytime...gift your self...grab your keys...go to mall and shop for yourselves
Its ok if you have a bad day at work...go home ...get under the covers and relax ...go to spa and pamper your self...
Its ok if you are not yourself ...your mind is full of tensions...go for a stroll around the park...plug in your earphones...listen to music...enjoy the nature...
Try to defend yourself...you dont want somebody to do it for you always...
always raise your kids to be strong and independent..be an example...teach them the core values...
once in a while...have a girls day out with your friends,...your husband can take care of kids and house...its difficult...LOL
Try to help woman in distress...she may need your emotional support...
Every day is a struggle...Be happy always...
( few wrote by me and few i have posted in my words which was shared by other people in different groups)
Bade Achhe Lagte Hain
Anupamaa
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
