Okay this update just made me all the more confuse. So please, you have to bear all the non sense I m going to type here. It might even feel I m over thinking and over assuming. Or even as if I have completely lost it. So if read at your own risk, dont tell me I dint warn you before.
So Yash's surprise to Geet was their wedding night and also his confession that he loves her. Wedding night dint come much as a surprise cos I had somewhere guessed it. It was one of the guess from many other weird though guesses. But him confessing his love for her was a complete shock. I seriously couldnt ever think about that. Specially after reading 78th update where he completely avoids her just dint let me ever think he could actually love her.
So now the question arises is why he avoided getting close to Geet on her birthday that too when they were in their bedroom? Her exams were close, like in a month time or something, so could it be possible that he realized his love for her in this one month, btw her birthday till her exams time?
Was he stopping himself just cos of her exams? But like Maan thought there are so many protections out there in the world so it couldnt be exams I feel. I assume he wanted to explore his relationship with Geet. Wanted them to be strong in their relationship emotionally than physically? May be wanted to be sure enough or even that he wanted to fall in love then experience the other aspect of a couples life? It could also be that he simply wasnt ready for it. It could be anything actually. But definitely not just Geet's exams. At least this is what I feel after reading 78th update where he had to cough to get Geet distracted.
Anyways moving on to Maan, firstly I liked the fact that he thought Geet deserves to know the truth cos she indeed does deserves to know the truth. Secondly, I liked the brother in him which dint wanted Geet to doubt his brother's n her own husband's (Yash) love for her.
Though I m surprised about him being emotional cos Geet-Yash hadnt started their actual married life even after 6 months of marriage.
I mean I thought he would have understood it by now that a couple doesnt just come close after sharing physical intimacy. It equally needs friendship, emotional bond n support from your partner n lot other things.
Else dint he shared physical relationship with Arpita? But was he in love with her even after being in a physical relation with her for 6 months of his marriage? And not to forget she got pregnant too. So even after being intimitately close to Arpita he dint developed any kind of feelings for her, it shouldnt be a big deal if Geet-Yash dint started their married life.
After all I believe there are two types of couples in arrange marriages, one like Maan, being the practical one, continues to share the typical relation n eventually fall in love. Or even then doesnt fall in love but their kid brings them close at least emotionally n then eventually fall in love. Second type, where couple decides to explore their feelings, know each other better, their likes n dislikes, be emotionally depended on each other n then confess when they finally are ready to take their marriage to next level, like Yash. As of now, to me, Yash seems to be coming in the second category here.
Coming to Maan again, I feel he could get over Arpita cos firstly he never loved her despite starting the married life with her. I believe he wasnt even that much hurt when she died along with the fetus in her womb, waiting to take the shape of a baby soon. I dont know why but I felt he over came her demise very early. First, may be cos he dint love her. Secondly, his grief over losing his brother was much more than the grief of losing his wife n child. Had it been only Arpita dying in that accident then may be he would have been in grief but even then I feel he could have gotten over it n may be married second time after few months. Thirdly he dint got much time to think over Arpita's loss cos he was anyways busy handling his business, his parents n more over saving Geet from their evil chachi n making her come out of her own grief of losing her husband.
But that wasnt the case with Geet. I feel had Geet being in a intimate relationship with Yash or had she gotten Yash's surprise when he was alive n listen to his confession face to face, experiencing all the feelings he would have evoked in her, then marrying Maan would have been WAY MORE tougher for her. Cos then she would have known what exactly all these feelings mean after personally experiencing it all from Yash already. So accepting her marriage with Maan would have been a lot more tougher for her as well for Maan to make her fall for him. Plus even if she had still fallen for Maan i.e after experiencing every feelings from Yash, she would surely have been confused, more in denial, taken much more time to realize her feelings for Maan also much much more time to get over the guilt she would have felt thinking she is cheating her first husband by loving Maan.
And m assuming all this after reading how despite not actually not being in love with Yash n just thinking that she loves Yash, she was ready to spend all her life as Yash's widow. So if without feeling n experiencing what the actual married life is, she can keep such strong feelings in her heart for Yash, then after sharing a perfect couple life with Yash it would have been way more tougher for her to let go off of Yash n his memories. So here I dont even want to imagine what Maan could have gone through n how much he had to wait, had Geet-Yash were a perfect couple that he assumed them to be.
So after all the blabbering there, I only wanted to say that just cos Geet-Yash dint start their married life doesnt mean they are any less of a married couple. And I feel none other than Maan should have felt that. And so him getting emotional just cos Geet-Yash dint start their married or Geet not experiencing the actual married life got me really confused.
After all even after being in a intimate relationship with Arpita, he couldnt fall for her n gotten over her quickly after her demise. Plus not to forget he actually fell for Geet despite he assuming she loves Yash. There was no physical interaction btw Maan n Geet n yet he was head over heels in love with her.
So I thought he should have known that though a couple not sharing starting their marriage life doesnt mean they dont love each other. After all every couple has different ways of leading their married life. Not all are practical. And they experience different situations too. So Maan getting emotional got over my head.
I know you reply to your every comment Rashmi, so whenever you reply to my this non sense, over thinking n hyper active mind comment, do PM me the page number or link of it, either on IF or even inbox me in FB. My ID is Sanjana Sarkar n I m in your friend lists.
Oh n yes, if you are in any way offended or hurt by my comment, then m extremely sorry about it. I m really confused at Maan's behavior n thoughts and so blabbered whatever came to my mind. I myself dont know if this comment has made any sense even.
Waiting to know Geet's reaction over Yash's surprise. Though I believe her confusion would get cleared, I for one fact think, she will take it entirely differently. Cos now she loves Maan n her head is cleared at that one fact. So may be Yash's surprise might just make her emotional n overwhelmed her. But she wont feel any guilt of loving Maan. And she might also know that she just thought she was in love with Yash but in reality she wasnt.
-Sanjana!
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