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vrinda22

@vrinda22

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 11 years ago

#51

maan has done a great mistake

but geet is also at fault

she must have given proper introduction of her bro

she intro him as bf

n she did saw a lil changes in his behaviour too

atleast that time she must have tried 2 think why maan is behaving such

but maan behaviour broke her so much

marriage is based on trust

in both ways equally they r at fault

geet must not forgive him easily

at the same time she must also think deeply it happenned bcoz of her behaviour..

maan is repenting

so make some ways n get geet back to sasural

n let maan manofy her there..

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Deepa

@spvd

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#52

well let him redeem himself by pacifying her...the fault is on Geet and Amy too...they should have made it clear to Maan about their closeness...still what Maan did is very wrong...but he can try to woo her now...ask for forgiveness...stay at their place and get to know her much better...redeeming urself by punishing physically is the stupidest thing...let him stay at their place and try to make her feel his love and regret...he loves her and he didnt know about them properly and no one told him too...so everyone has their own share of fault here...

Edited by spvd - 11 years ago

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deep002

@deep002

Dazzler

+ 7

Posted: 11 years ago

#53

its not only maan is fault geet and amay are more responsebel, she is newly married and she iteru as amay her boy friend, neither husband or wife like it, so what ever punishment or another chance both need equally.

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gunjar

@gunjar

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#54

mahi according to me maan surely deserves a cold treatment from geet

but not by moving away from eachother...

because here there is equal mistake of both dear

geet aur ammy ko isse act nahi karna chahiye tha which husband is going to agree that yaar wo bhi newly wed couple unhe to ek dossre ki baare mai bilkul patha hi nahi hotha...

lekin maan should not have slapped geet yaar (it looks like showing his man ego )

but if we see this slap clearly it shows his pyaar for her dear

as it clearly says that he cant share her withany one as she is an internal part of him

yaar hum log unhi par humari feelings jathatha hai jinpar hume poora haq ha...

so i think maan deserve an other chance but it should be though for him to manofy his geet

he need to full fill all his duties of being husband and now papa

even though if he doesnt get any response from geet

he should tolerate geets cold behaviour towards him

and should gain his geets trust on him back...

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hira2010

@hira2010

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: idunno
i think fault lies on both parts prank should not be such that it can make other people angry to the point he slap her in spite loving her too much jo apne hote hai wo hi to gussa karte hai it clearly show how much he loved her that he cant tolerate such thing in his life and if geet did mistake she can be forgiven but not maan why?because she is woman?why we always pity women?why cant we portray them to be strong?in-spite geet could have said sorry for her prank and maan should have said sorry for his doing in love there is no punishment for small small thing,but there should be understanding and forgiveness not ego and punishment.yes it should be punished if he had hit her for wrong reasons,purposely, just show her he is men and has got wright to hit her,or hit her without her fault but here both are equally responsible for all the situation created than i will say , forgiveness is the biggest punishment u are giving some one in this short of situation if we started to punished our loved ones for small small thing love will vanish and remaining will be sour relation ship without love so i think this is very sensitive issue and it all depends on person and his/her nature how they behave in such condition if geet will forgive him she will get more love and understanding and trust from him but if she will punish him may be bitterness will stay there and it may in future effect their relationship.forgiveness is the biggest weapon to win someones love and trust and is biggest punishment who loves u a lot as that person will feel so much ashamed of his/her doing that next time he will think twice doing that.if u read low that provocation for the situation and crime this factor gets in to consideration while giving judgment and every coin has 2 sides so i will say both people who favors and oppose the punishment for hitting wife are right in somewhat in their thinking and wrong also so i will like u to decide where u want to go with this story.thanks- i dunno.

total agree

now geet also slap him kisa khatm

give a chance to him

agar ausko misunderstanding hoi uski wajha bhi geet ka prank tha

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hira2010

@hira2010

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#56

husband wife hai ek room mein lock kardo

do din bad khud hi ek dosrey ko samj legey

sarey gila shikwa khatam hojai gye

u know kssi misshy shona jano mano sweety mishty

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hira2010

@hira2010

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#57

geet ko monofy kartey kartey maan hi na roth jai

kisi ko ek had tak rotna chiya or manachaiya

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hira2010

@hira2010

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#58

maan should kidnap geet

warna koi khai ga maan galat koi khai ga geet

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sakshi

@tanvi04

Inactive

Posted: 11 years ago

#59

mahi its such a tough answer to give muje ye to nahi pata ki yaha geet sahi hai ya maan because galti to dono ki hai equally

in dono ko aap us main baat karni chahiye vo bhi jab geet ko pata tha ki maan uske liye kitna possessive hai n maan ko pata tha ki geet uski life ka integral part hai

marriage is always about trust vo bhi tab jab arrange ho kyunki aap na samne wale ke baare main kuch jante ho pahle aap ko usko janana padega ki usse kya acha lagata hai kis cheez se aap ka life partner khus hoga n kis cheez se naraz n kis cheez se gussa

but mahi i think ki arrange marriage main ek cheez aur bhi hai ek do log bina ek dusre ko achi traha jane physical close jaldi ho jate hai which is for me is wrong kyunki jab tak aap kisi se emotionally close nahi hoge tab tak physical close is just for body satisfaction

yaha bhi aisa hua maaneet ne ek sure ko bahut achi tarah se to nahi jana n second thing i know ki hum ksisi ko bhi bahut jaldi nahi samaz sakte fir vo chahe koi bhi aur male ko samjhna to aur bhi difficult hai

maan ko kabhi bhi n kisi bhi halat main geet par hath nahi uthana chaiye tha thats the thing is tooo wrong geet agar uske ghar main aayi hai to sabse jyada to usse uspe hi bharosa hai na ki maan uska sath humesha dega but agar maan hi uspe doubt karega to ghar wale kaise uspe trust karenge

nw the ? is ki geet maaf kare ki nahi to galti dono ki hai but maan ki jayda hai but nw he seems to know his mistake but i want maan n geet to promise each other ki aage se pahle baat clear karenge n tabhi kuch decision lenge n ithink maan should get one chance

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Bhanu

@Cherishh

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#60

As I said earlier too in my comments, I feel it isn't just Maan's fault...it is Geet's fault equally...why only Maan should understand things, doesn't Geet should..even she did wrong, which she hasn't realized yet. has she at least once thought how Maan would feel with her closeness with Amy. She doesn't have feelings like that, but after marriage things change. She is innocent and doesn't look at things like that or even think like that. At least amy should have maintained distance..oh come on they aren't kids right??

Saying all this, I would also like to add that what Maan did in his anger, possessiveness, insecurity was very hasty and wrong. He shouldn't have slapped and laid accusations. He should have had a talk with Geet, but seemed like that situation just added fuel to his already restless heart and insecurity making him do all that.

I think now they should talk heart to heart. Geet should know Maan's pov and should understand her mistake too, which exactly isn't wrong thing to be friendly, but she should have at least talked with Maan about it.

Maan should defo get a chance. he is in pain and is repenting, so he deserves a chance and yeah after their talk and all, Geet can show her anger too in a diff way😉

Well this is what I personally feel..no offense to anyone, but at the end its all depends on u Mahi as to how u take it ahead and I am sure u surely will do justice to it😳

Thanks for asking our views..its a nice way to interact and see things from everyone pov...way to go dear