A question for Silent member's..plzz do answer..(Note on pg20) - Page 2

Originally posted by: vrinda22

really a needed one

why are all silent members..

only few comments on ffs

some atleast click a like..

but most of them just read n go..

we can see from the post viewed..

it will be more than the likes..

some writers leave writing bcoz of this

they expect lots of replies n likes

when they didnt get it they feel low n leave the forum forever..

i miss many of them..

i agree to u on this..
But right now, i am not hinting at comments..coz most of them arent comfertable enough to comment..they feel that they wont be able to express themselves n their views in words... So first of all they should be comfertable in interacting with new ppl..then only they can share their views..thats what i feel..
I knew a few who were uncertain coz of the same reason at first but now they are active members of the forum..
so Silent members...dont worry, i am not expecting any comments from u..just want u to give a try and make friends here..after that if u like to drop comments for ur fav writers..they will be happy to welcome u with open arms..;-)

Originally posted by: leenukiguru

nice post 😊

thank u dear:-)

Originally posted by: kabslocks

I am not a silent member anymore. I am very bad in expressing my views but now i have started by giving simple comments like nice update or lovely update etc. May be one day i will be able to give long long comments as many readers give.Yes one thing more i read each any every update and post on geet forum.

i hav noticed that u hav started commenting on many stories recently...but am still waiting for ur comment on my stories..😉
just joking yaar..
But honestly, am happy that u hav taken the first step and trust me very soon u'll feel that why didnt do it before..
And to express ur self..u dont need to do anything extra ordinary..just write what u feel..then eventually u'll be more accurate with ur words..every body has to learn/practice first to master it!;-)

Originally posted by: aaradhya

I am little hesitant to reply. What if you think I m not being honest in my reply? I don't like to criticize because writers can be best if they are given full space. I read few times when writers are disappointed because of readers I don't like that situations that's why try to stick to like option most of the time. Definitely I m not going to bring time as one of the reason because if someone can spend time reading can definitely spare extra few sec to reply. But I'll definitely try to open up

i respect ur respect & trust on the writers.
But replying doesnt mean that u are criticising them. And even if u dont like anything.. then there are many polite ways that u can convey ur view without hurting the writer. A readers review helps writer to improve..as a writer i wait for my readers opinion that make me satisfied with my work.. But yes, that should be in a humble way..like discussing with ur friend rather than accusing them.
Any ways,
all the best to you and hope u make many friends here.:-)

Originally posted by: Dazlingdivya

Hi,

Thanks for asking, but my problem is that i operate IF from my office, so its not possible for me to interact very frequently, but i love to read all the stories and updates on IF.

hey,
i do understand ur problem dear.
If not oftenly...then whenever u may get time u can come around.. Everyone has their own commitments so i am sure that they wont mind..
All the best..hope to see u atleast once in a while..;-)

Originally posted by: priya111111

HAAN VALLI AUR MAIN BHI KITNE DIN TAK SILENT READER KE LIST MEIN THI AB DEKHO😆MAIN THO AB NONSTOP BANGAYI HOON

MERI POSTS KO DEKTHE HI PATHA CHALEGA KI MAIN KITNA KAM BOLTHI HOON😆😆

😆
its all about the comertlevel..once u feel comertable...then its easy to express ur self..;-)

Originally posted by: Shonameet

😆
its all about the comertlevel..once u feel comertable...then its easy to express ur self..;-)

Originally posted by: priya111111

ab jyaada friends banachuki hoon yaha

first mujhe bhi nahi aathi ki kaise comment dena hai dheere dheere sab seekh gayi

wahi toh..
It is the "first step" which is the most difficult task always...uske baad toh apne aap u start learning things..and then everything falls in place..
But after taking that first step only u'll be able to explore anything..and enjoy it..haina..;-)

Apart from silence there is reserved nature of people like me
i cant mingle wid lots of people n thats why have stopped writing too

Originally posted by: suhaaana

Apart from silence there is reserved nature of people like me
i cant mingle wid lots of people n thats why have stopped writing too

ya thats also a important point..but even reserved ppl hav their own group of friends...it isnt necessary that u should talk to each & everyone..everyone hav right to chose whom they want to be friends with..
Though its ur own choice and decision of leaving writing..but just like to say that..even being a writer doesnt mean that u must talk or involve personly with each of ur readers...coz i too am not the kind to open up fully with everyone..still i wont mind casual talk once in a while..and beside...without interacting..how u'll know if u are comfertable with that person or not..:-)