Originally posted by: Susegad
Iss update ko kya naam doon.
First let's talk about the song. Ah that song is just beutiful I hadn't heard it in a long time and when I heard it, I remembered the whole movie.What an amzing movie. - Hai na...thanks. I felt Maan's character is like that of Kamal in that movie...unexpected and boundless love with a ray of hope in depth of darkness...
Full marks for the perfect gana selection. 😃
Now for the update
What a fantabulous man Ritzy. Kya character likha hain sahi mein.
It is easy to find a man physically attractive. It is a fulfillment to love a man, but to respect a man is an intangible, that he earns when his actions speak louder tha his words. - Very well put. Also, they are from such different background and given the circumstance, I felt that Geetw ill always respect him before loving him...
The obeisance Geet paid him by touching his feet mujhe 'tumhi mera mandir wala gana' yaad aya
I love the song. Another one I am toying with and wondering where to add is "chupa lo dil mein yuon pyaar mera ki jaise mandir mein lau diye ki."
When I read the part of her background, I thought to mysel, no wonder she considers him to be a god like figure.
Jis ladki ka koi wajood hi nahi thi, uss ladki ke liye Maan ne jo kiya that is nothing short of miracle for her. And I'm not talking, just about him bringing her the eduactional material and sketching out a future plan for her. It's every thing he's done and been to her so far. - "Yes. She has only seen women being degraded and she is in awe to see ki there are men like Maan too. Her background is the one which also puts her in denial mode so it will be interesting how that gets broken."
On my father's side we had an distant relative, who had a brilliant child. My father kept telling that uncle to give her higher education and that a brilliant mind like her's should not be wasted. That uncle refused ki ladki ko zyada padhya toh ladka bhi zyada padha likha dekhna padega, and that means he'd have to give more dowry. He refused to let her study after the 12th grade and she still curses her father to this day. That is the sad reality that is actually hapening in our country.
Oh yes, sadly I have seen it happening too often as well. I replied in a similar vein to one of the other comments as well. And it is not a relaity only in villages but even in cities and in average families. As a matter of fact when I wanted to go for my engg, i remember my daadi throwing such a fit and tantrum. Lucky for me, my mom always supported me and eventually my father agreed too as he was more worried about my safety than anything else. But yes, it is a very common issue...much more common than we think.
Back to Maan and Geet.
He has made her feel safe, he's given her security.
Now though, I'm waiting for him to make her feel beautiful. That will definitely put him back in the human category, basically a man worthy of loving. Coz you worship gods, but you love a human.😉
Oh yes...beauty...well...we will get there eventually...but before that she is a basket full of insecurities and traumas which need to be healed layer by layer...
Waiting for 'Teri Ore', but only when everything in your household gets settled and you are feeling upto it.😃
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