Originally posted by: gudmeet
@ Susegad
U r absolutely right why should a girl feel guilty if a man misbehaves with her
she has not committed a crime . So it is upto us to change our thoughts and keep telling us that there is no fault of us the girls.
Hey dear and why have u given that prfessor of urs a place in ur mind for ur entire life.
do u think that a person so disgusting like ur professor deserve a place in ur mind?
Just think it in this way
the professor is not physically present but u have kept him alive in ur memories till today
WHY
Whatever he had done is over now just throw him out of ur mind and stop punishing urself.
U may say that this is not possible , he has given u such bitter memories.
Totally agree but PAST IS PASSED
It is only u and only u who is keeping it alive in ur present.
close ur eyes and bring ur professor in the screen of ur mind and then say however bad u want to say or even kick or slap him and then throw him out and say it to urself that he is not important for u that u will keep him in ur mind for ur entire life.
trust me dear it works
and even after doing this if his thought comes to u and then say it to urself that u have thrown him out with full determination.
dear u may disagree with such philosphical things but pls do it once and if u dont get any result then also no harm will be done.
that professor may be leading his life without any guilt and here u are punishing ur self for the crime of other.
how fair it is?
and only we can change it just by giving a new direction to our thoughts.
sorry dear if i bothered u but pls think abt it once.
lots of love dear
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