Maan's hatred a bit too much? - Page 3

Originally posted by: mysterygurl1427

He doesn't know her, he doesn't remember her so what is his fault in that?😕 He's not at fault here obviously - if he doesnt remember her he doesnt remember her but to say i cant stand or tolerate you that is harsh esp if u dont know a person that well and yes it is a shock for him to know that a girl he doesnt like much is his wife i understand him completely in that respect What do you mean what has Geet done??? I meant what has she done to him for him to hate her that much that he cant stand the sight of her - shes done everything according to him and how he likes it - whether it was his coffee, breakfast, office work so in this respect he has no reason to To us Geet hasn't done anything, but to Maan she is the kind of personality that he cannot stand. She is clumsy, talkative, always smiling... see now here I see what u mean isn't there always people that you guys cannot stand?? yea but i dont talk to people like that even if i cant stand them - i guess its just his character trait of being the angry young man! Maan can't stand her, and to top it all he is married to her and has no memory of it. I know it would be a reality check and shock for anyone so i do understand his pov - my only issue was trying to understand WHY he hates her so much that he cant stand her and uses the term 'bardaasht'

Geet acted like a werido (walking around with dev...) when she was undergoing her depression after losing her baby wasn't she? She couldn't take the fact that her baby was gone. Despite having maan in her life, she had no meaning to live!!! Maan has no memory of geet, how do you expect someone to react in a situation like this? He will not give in soo easily, had he then it would have been so unrealistic..at least what they are showing is a natural human tendency. I think ur getting me wrong lol im not expecting him to give in at all nor have I mentioned that plus that would be the opposite of his character now anyway

Did Maan like Geet before?? He didnt but he used to think abt her alot after they spoke during the HP track and her thoughts used to bother him and then his famous line 'yeh ladki mujhe pagal kardegi' used to follow. He couldn't stand her before him even before...just like as that now he is thinkin the same way. Soon he will get used to her, then he will see traits in her which will hit him in the heart reminding him why he fell for her. I'm waiting for that so I will be patient - just want him to soften in the way he speaks to her, which he prob will be now - atleast infront of dadimaa

Originally posted by: undisclosed

yeah...we need to know more about what maan is thinking because i'm a little confused as to why he is being so harsh...but i too loved the epi!

Originally posted by: ninand

Granted , many people would find his behavior shockingly rude, and perhaps inexplicable. But its not so.

Yaar, he just woke to being himself. Very rich, very educated, heading a successful company, HATES women, has no patience for incompetence or slack or smart-mouthing, unsocial, taciturn, used to ALWAYS having his way, upper crust elegant Alpha male.

Let alone marriage, he does not even think women deserve a second glance.

And suddenly this small town, not too bright, not too educated, girl is shoved right in his face, with whom he has nothing in common, who he supposed to be indebted to for having saved his life.. and now.. NOW to top it all.. shes supposed to be his wife.

As it is in his psyche, the girl is a complete nuisance, who keeps invading his space, who is given undue importance by his family and who refuses to leave him alone..

Irritation would have been the word in the beginning, maybe annoyance.

But the moment he realizes she actually is his wife, that hes supposed to have loved her so much that he married her, he cannot get over the shock that he fell for something so annoying and trivial and unworthy.. there, his annoyance grows to hatred.

He must be going crazy with frustration and anger wenever anyone would mention her as his wife, talk about their 'glorious love'.. can you imagine the Maan Singh Khurana that entered for the first time giving a girl a chance to talk of love and mohabbat and all.. he'd have strangled that woman.

That's probably what he wants to do. That is why he tells her in no uncertain terms- he cannot stand her. Hes not a man to mind his words to save the other person from hurt. and specially not the person whom he detests. Hes being forced to accept her.

He doesnt know her beyond what he has seen, Maan from before, had known what she was, and what she was capable of as a person and as a woman- her dignity, sense of character, never-say-die attitude, fierce fighter, determined... many many things that showed him the woman beyond the image of a typical punjabi female.

Thats how he fell in love.

This Maan HAS to start like this. Its only very very natural for him to use such vicious and straight words. These words are equivalent to him leaving her with the goons in the first scene. He was ruthless then.He is ruthless now. case closed.

Awfully sorry for the long post. Just wanted to share why though Maan might sound soo harsh, he is in fact in character more than ever.

It may sound strange but I can understand his revulsion for her very well.. and that it would grow more and stronger before it goes less. He cannot hate her enough for what she has done to his life right now. and hes helpless to do anything about it.

Wanna appreciate the CVs for that sooo much.👏

Originally posted by: ninand

Granted , many people would find his behavior shockingly rude, and perhaps inexplicable. But its not so.

Yaar, he just woke to being himself. Very rich, very educated, heading a successful company, HATES women, has no patience for incompetence or slack or smart-mouthing, unsocial, taciturn, used to ALWAYS having his way, upper crust elegant Alpha male.

Let alone marriage, he does not even think women deserve a second glance.

And suddenly this small town, not too bright, not too educated, girl is shoved right in his face, with whom he has nothing in common, who he supposed to be indebted to for having saved his life.. and now.. NOW to top it all.. shes supposed to be his wife.

As it is in his psyche, the girl is a complete nuisance, who keeps invading his space, who is given undue importance by his family and who refuses to leave him alone..

Irritation would have been the word in the beginning, maybe annoyance.

But the moment he realizes she actually is his wife, that hes supposed to have loved her so much that he married her, he cannot get over the shock that he fell for something so annoying and trivial and unworthy.. there, his annoyance grows to hatred.

He must be going crazy with frustration and anger wenever anyone would mention her as his wife, talk about their 'glorious love'.. can you imagine- the Maan Singh Khurana, that entered for the first time ,giving a girl a chance to talk of love and mohabbat and all ?.. he'd have strangled that woman at the mere mention of the ' L' word.. 😳

That's probably what he wants to do. That is why he tells her in no uncertain terms- he cannot stand her. Hes not a man to mind his words to save the other person from hurt. and specially not the person whom he detests. Hes being forced to accept her.

He doesnt know her beyond what he has seen, Maan from before, had known what she was, and what she was capable of as a person and as a woman- her dignity, sense of character, never-say-die attitude, fierce fighter, determined... many many things that showed him the woman beyond the image of a typical punjabi female.

Thats how he fell in love.

This Maan HAS to start like this. Its only very very natural for him to use such vicious and straight words. These words are equivalent to him leaving her with the goons in the first scene. He was ruthless then.He is ruthless now. case closed.

Awfully sorry for the long post. Just wanted to share why though Maan might sound soo harsh, he is in fact in character more than ever.

It may sound strange but I can understand his revulsion for her very well.. and that it would grow more and stronger before it goes less. He cannot hate her enough for what she has done to his life right now. and hes helpless to do anything about it.

Wanna appreciate the CVs for that sooo much.👏

Originally posted by: ninand

Granted , many people would find his behavior shockingly rude, and perhaps inexplicable. But its not so. i know his character is such dont get me wrong so I know hes rude etc but at times he has been too much of that but then thats just his char i guess

Yaar, he just woke to being himself. Very rich, very educated, heading a successful company, HATES women, has no patience for incompetence or slack or smart-mouthing, unsocial, taciturn, used to ALWAYS having his way, upper crust elegant Alpha male. such male ego lol

Let alone marriage, he does not even think women deserve a second glance.

And suddenly this small town, not too bright, not too educated, girl is shoved right in his face, with whom he has nothing in common, who he supposed to be indebted to for having saved his life.. and now.. NOW to top it all.. shes supposed to be his wife.

As it is in his psyche, the girl is a complete nuisance, who keeps invading his space, who is given undue importance by his family and who refuses to leave him alone..

Irritation would have been the word in the beginning, maybe annoyance.

But the moment he realizes she actually is his wife, that hes supposed to have loved her so much that he married her, he cannot get over the shock that he fell for something so annoying and trivial and unworthy.. there, his annoyance grows to hatred. See when u put it like that then I guess you can prob see why he thinks the way he does because yea shes practically been shoved infront of him at every given opportunity. I've never had anything against Maan's character in terms of realising Geet is his wife I can imagine the shock to find out a) ur married and b)ur married to a girl u barely like

He must be going crazy with frustration and anger wenever anyone would mention her as his wife, talk about their 'glorious love'.. can you imagine the Maan Singh Khurana that entered for the first time giving a girl a chance to talk of love and mohabbat and all.. he'd have strangled that woman.

That's probably what he wants to do. That is why he tells her in no uncertain terms- he cannot stand her. Hes not a man to mind his words to save the other person from hurt. and specially not the person whom he detests. Hes being forced to accept her.

He doesnt know her beyond what he has seen, Maan from before, had known what she was, and what she was capable of as a person and as a woman- her dignity, sense of character, never-say-die attitude, fierce fighter, determined... many many things that showed him the woman beyond the image of a typical punjabi female. Thats how he fell in love.

This Maan HAS to start like this. Its only very very natural for him to use such vicious and straight words. These words are equivalent to him leaving her with the goons in the first scene. He was ruthless then.He is ruthless now. case closed.

Awfully sorry for the long post. Just wanted to share why though Maan might sound soo harsh, he is in fact in character more than ever.

Wanna appreciate the CVs for that sooo much.👏

Lol thanx 4 the long post i enjoyed reading it - was nice to get another side to it and I guess it makes me understand Maan a bit more so thanx for ur 2 cents and for expressing it in a good way :) although yea I didnt understand him for leaving her with goons but then saving her from drowning - can u explain this one for me lol😆 that i've never understood!