Why Maan has to sacrifices? - Page 3

Originally posted by: ria_sengupta

well,..............i am guessing u do not want maan to reap a rich reward, sorry,if i am wrong, but from the tone of ur comment,it seemed so......anyways....as per the present track,it is maan who is right and he is the one who is shown to be making all the sacrifices,he is the one who is making all the effort to save the relationship,....there is and should be a limit to a person's immaturity, but the female protagonist of this show seems to be lacking it big time, yes,she is worried about him, but honestly, shouldn't she be doing a lot more than that?her husband is staying as a driver in her masi's house and getting insulted,and all she does is cry,or worry or tell maan to leave, not once,has she thought about her part in the whole fiasco! she does not feel the urge to save her marriage.she cannot think beyond her hurt,her pain! what about maan's pain?he has not committed such a huge crime after all!and he is repenting big time for it.he has punished himself and is trying to make everything better!that is how a matured person behaves! i was shocked at geet's self talk yesterday-she said that maan ne bekaar me mujhse jhagra kiya aur yahan aa gaye,kya zaroorat thi!i mean seriously - does this girl even realise the seriousness of the situation? if she does,since she weeps all the time,then what was that self talk?and if she realises that whatever maan said was in anger,then what is the meaning of her behaviour?is this the time of being whimsical and show her nakhras-when her husband is staying as a driver in the house!its baffling! from what her character has been turned into, yes,she actually seems undeserving of maan's love,and if she weeps at the end and asks maan to forgive her,that won't be wrong!marriages are not jokes, but geet seems to be treating her marriage like one!

Originally posted by: sush1

Well His Biggest Mistake in life is to Love His Wife Than Himself!

Why is love a mistake? Did Maan felt or showed any time that he repents loving his wife? Then who are we to judge who is right and wrong between husband and wife or lovers? 😊

When love is on both sides it makes an eternal love story. Look at Romeo Juliet, Heer Ranjha Shirin Farad. And then our own Maan and Geet. 😳 Can any one claim that Romeo loved Juliet more? Or Shirin's sacrifice was more that Farad, then by same logic how can any one say that Maan loves more than Geet? Can you measure love? Can you equate with any action? Love is only felt and understood. It is never a business proposition where you see profit and loss. In a divine love as Maaneet you just give without expecting anything in return. 😉

No third person can tell what is felt by the lovers so we as viewers cannot impose our opinion on them.

Mohobat ek nadiya hai aur usme sirf behna hai.

Bhagwaan Shree krishna ne Rukhmini ko manane keliye bohoot papad bele. Shivji ne Parvati ko pane ke liye ghor tapsya ki to Maan to akhir a Man hi hai na? woh bhi apne Geet ke liye kuch kar raha hai to apni marji se kar raha hai kisine zor zabardsti to nahi ki na? To hume kyon aitaraaz hona chahiye?

Ek haath se taali kabhi nahi bajti chahe woh jhagde mein ho ya pyaar mein.

soooory for my biiiggggg bhashan. It is Sunday here so had plenty of time on my hands. No offence to any body and no intention of bashing any character. 😊

Originally posted by: sush1

I am not sure but I am making a wild guess that the viewers who are discussing the show are not in medical or para medical field.

I also do agree that it is ridiculous to mention about logic in a serial like GHSP which has taken huge cinematic liberty in the name of science,😆😆 so a short lecture in medicine and psychiatry. Will try to keep the terms simple, so that a layman understands. 😊

Clinically I can say that Geet is showing typical symptoms of post MC depression which may be similar to post natal depression due to abrupt hormonal changes and the major trauma of loss of child. 😭😭

The patient under these circumstances may show one of the following symptoms

1. The patient withdraws to herself and reduces communication with outside world (check)
2. Refuses to eat or take medicine (check, check)
3. Periodic bouts of crying (check, check)
4. Disinterested in many routine activities (check)
5. Disinterested in well being of near and dear ones ( Cases have been reported where in mothers refuse to tend to their children under these circumstances) (check)

This behavior may continue for period of 4-6 months depending upon the person and support system available. Under such circumstances it is not surprising that Geet is not responding to Maan's presence or his behavior as she would have done if she was normal. Most probably she is not readily registering what Maan is undergoing as she has withdrawn into herself. For her to react to any stimulus in a sensible manner or her usual manner will take time, clinically.

Since she is still depressed she requires one of the following in the order of priority.
1. Medication
2, Councelling
3. Love and support

She is getting 3 adequately from Maan and her family and is showing signs of improvement. She will be back to normal in a short period. May be Darji will provide 2 which will hasten her recovery process.

Now, many are of the opinion that Maan also is in pain due to her MC. But for Maan it is only mental agony while for Geet it is both physiological and mental which takes time to recover.

So next time when we think of Geet's attitude if we keep this in mind that she is clinically depressed then it may help to understand as to why she is not responding to the stimulus (Maans insult/his pain/his love) immediately.

Any more queries on this are welcome.

"If you talk to God, you are praying. If God talks to you, you have schizophrenia." 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: sush1

I am not sure but I am making a wild guess that the viewers who are discussing the show are not in medical or para medical field.

I also do agree that it is ridiculous to mention about logic in a serial like GHSP which has taken huge cinematic liberty in the name of science,😆😆 so a short lecture in medicine and psychiatry. Will try to keep the terms simple, so that a layman understands. 😊

Clinically I can say that Geet is showing typical symptoms of post MC depression which may be similar to post natal depression due to abrupt hormonal changes and the major trauma of loss of child. 😭😭

The patient under these circumstances may show one of the following symptoms

1. The patient withdraws to herself and reduces communication with outside world (check)
2. Refuses to eat or take medicine (check, check)
3. Periodic bouts of crying (check, check)
4. Disinterested in many routine activities (check)
5. Disinterested in well being of near and dear ones ( Cases have been reported where in mothers refuse to tend to their children under these circumstances) (check)

This behavior may continue for period of 4-6 months depending upon the person and support system available. Under such circumstances it is not surprising that Geet is not responding to Maan's presence or his behavior as she would have done if she was normal. Most probably she is not readily registering what Maan is undergoing as she has withdrawn into herself. For her to react to any stimulus in a sensible manner or her usual manner will take time, clinically.

Since she is still depressed she requires one of the following in the order of priority.
1. Medication
2, Councelling
3. Love and support

She is getting 3 adequately from Maan and her family and is showing signs of improvement. She will be back to normal in a short period. May be Darji will provide 2 which will hasten her recovery process.

Now, many are of the opinion that Maan also is in pain due to her MC. But for Maan it is only mental agony while for Geet it is both physiological and mental which takes time to recover.

So next time when we think of Geet's attitude if we keep this in mind that she is clinically depressed then it may help to understand as to why she is not responding to the stimulus (Maans insult/his pain/his love) immediately.

Any more queries on this are welcome.

Originally posted by: roshni19

I just have thing to say , is that if you don't wont Maan basher its fine with me , But are you all Bashing Geet for everything . If the CV has decided this track then Bash CV . Ijust want to say one thing , Geet is doing what a wife has HAQ to do . MSK doesn't have any problem then why are you all concerned so much . This serial is running due to Maaneet , so please don't bash Geet .