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SaynaFM

@SaynaFM

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Posted: 14 years ago

#21

ek aur post ka jawab hai, lekin yahen bhi chalega

Medieval Indian Women Medieval India was not women's age it is supposed to be the 'dark age' for them. Medieval India saw many foreign conquests, which resulted in the decline in women's status.

. for them women was the sole propery of her

father, brother or husband and she does not

have any will of her own

.Due to this reason their freedom also became affected

. They were not allowed to move freely and this lead to the further deterioration of their status. These problems related with women resulted in changed mindset of people

. Now they began to consider a girl as misery and a burden, which has to be shielded from the eyes of intruders and needs extra care. Whereas a boy child will not need such extra care and instead will be helpful as an earning hand. Thus a vicious circle started in which women was at the receiving end.

LACK OF POWER
They cannot take decisions independently not evn related to their own life. They have to take permissin of male members for every issue

Aap khush hoge yeh soch kar ke yeh kal ki

baat thi, ab aisa kuch bhi nahi....

to cv ka message kya hai?

Geet ko pura haaq hai apne faslay lene ka....

1 woh dev ko maaf kar sakti hai

2 woh uske sath holi khel sakti hai

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geet.a

@geet.a

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Posted: 14 years ago

#22

Okay guys- I have a favour to ask you...in Main Forum,there has been a post...this decision was a call taken on sets by the creatives , by the production house...i think we need to do something abt it..because it WILL be SICK if there's DEVEET on the cards dur dur tak bhi...

So, please please, write and call the star one offices to push for maneet...it's the only way ...

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geet.a

@geet.a

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Posted: 14 years ago

#23

http://india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1641654

here you go! time to act for justice and for maneet..

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Sanjana

@maan-ki-sanjana

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Posted: 14 years ago

#24

I think an IDEAL women isn't defined by her relationships. A women isn't defined by her being a mother, wife or daughter; she is more than the sum of these.

Its more the intentions and the decisions she makes. Geet's decision may not be right by many peoples standards but the intention is correct. And that is the important thing.

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undisclosed

@undisclosed

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Posted: 14 years ago

#25

i appreciate your respectful tone and the way you worded your thoughts...i agree that the scene where dev and geet are putting color on each other looks very disturbing...a lot like a nightmare...i wonder if the cv's are doing it consciencely knowing that we will feel uneasy or if they really don't know that it is disturbing...

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Kesha

@--Kesh--

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Posted: 14 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: ria_sengupta
Well, first of all,let me clear that i do not intend to bash any actor or character. but , being a member of a free forum, i guess, i have the freedom to express my disappointment at the treatment of a particular subject by the cvs.
Geet forgave Dev. although,personally, i am against that forgiveness, becoz i feel Dev's sin was unworthy of forgiveness.......well, even then, i leave the issue at that. i have read many posts where some have supported geet for her decision while some have not. but what has left me absolutely shocked , in fact horrified, was yesterday's precap. Geet smiling and allowing Dev to put colour on her face and herself putting tika on his forehead- well,thats appalling. Now, let me clear that i am not bashing the actress who plays the role of geet here, i know it was the script and hence i blame the cvs. but it is only natural for a viewer to be angry with the character Geet because everyday,on our tv screen, we see these characters and get attached to them.perhaps if the cvs had come on screen and read out the scripts instead of airing the episode, we would have been angry with the cvs only. people must understand that when i am blaming geet, it is in fact the cvs that i am referring to becoz geet is a fictional character created by them.

Well,now back to the topic-i feel what geet was shown to be doing in the precap was absolutely wrong.Even after forgiving Dev,she should have been indifferent to her, and if i am not wrong, i guess many of the people who supported the decision of forgiving Dev wanted her to remain indifferent and not behave in such a manner as was shown. My question to the cvs- why have u decided to butcher Geet's character to such an extent? aren't u sending out the wrong message?what happened to all those promos about geet being the ideal woman?or are u trying to say that an ideal woman is someone who not only forgives her sinner whole-heartedly but maintains a friendly relation with him as well?
even if geet is shown to be doing it under dadi's pressure or to make dadi happy, this is wrong. Under no circumstances, i repeat-no circumstances should such a scene have been shown.

Finally, i feel bad for maan. any other man in his place also would have reacted in a similar way and this is maan we r talking about- who loves geet more than anything else .His anger will be justified now.

pls give ur opinions also.

For once I agree with one thing - they shouldnt have shown Dev putting colour on Geet and Geet allowing it with a look of content and then going ahead and putting a tika on Dev's forehead.

I am all for the forgiving part.. cos I think they showed good logic behind it but totally shocked with the precap from yesterday.

But I will still wait and see the episode to pass a full judgement on the precap segment cos in previous precap they showed Geet telling Maan she is happy cos of Dev but actually she said she is happy cos of Maan and his card, which Dev gave her.

As for Maan's anger - well if the precap turns out to be true than yes to some extent his anger is justified but how this is directed towards Geet is what I want to see; whether that will be justified or not only the coming episodes will tell us.

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Kesha

@--Kesh--

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Posted: 14 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: undisclosed
i appreciate your respectful tone and the way you worded your thoughts...i agree that the scene where dev and geet are putting color on each other looks very disturbing...a lot like a nightmare...i wonder if the cv's are doing it consciencely knowing that we will feel uneasy or if they really don't know that it is disturbing...

I think the PH and channel know that a scene like that will cause major turbulence among the Geetians thus increasing the publicity of the show cos it will became a big point of discussion

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undisclosed

@undisclosed

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Posted: 14 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: kesha2412

I think the PH and channel know that a scene like that will cause major turbulence among the Geetians thus increasing the publicity of the show cos it will became a big point of discussion

if this is the case, then i would feel better thinking that it is a deliberate attempt to get us to talking about it...

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delhigirl

@delhigirl

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Posted: 14 years ago

#29

Ria, I completely agree with you. Since this all starts and ends with CVs, I am going to make a comment about that. In India, there are probably sveral women like geet. And to protect them or to give them justice, there is a law which governs the people. I just wish that CVs would have felt a sense of responsibilty to the society in general and the real women of India. If they had shown that geet got justice for what dev did to her, It may have come as a lot of hope as well as education for women that there is a law like that to help them.

It would have served a bigger purpose. I will not even go into any opinion about the holi scene

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DMKJ_VB

@DMKJ_VB

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Posted: 14 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: Sayna
ek aur post ka jawab hai, lekin yahen bhi chalega

Medieval Indian Women Medieval India was not women's age it is supposed to be the 'dark age' for them. Medieval India saw many foreign conquests, which resulted in the decline in women's status.
. for them women was the sole propery of her
father, brother or husband and she does not
have any will of her own

.Due to this reason their freedom also became affected
.
. They were not allowed to move freely and this lead to the further deterioration of their status. These problems related with women resulted in changed mindset of people
. Now they began to consider a girl as misery and a burden, which has to be shielded from the eyes of intruders and needs extra care. Whereas a boy child will not need such extra care and instead will be helpful as an earning hand. Thus a vicious circle started in which women was at the receiving end.
LACK OF POWER

They cannot take decisions independently not evn related to their own life. They have to take permissin of male members for every issue

Aap khush hoge yeh soch kar ke yeh kal ki

baat thi, ab aisa kuch bhi nahi....

to cv ka message kya hai?

Geet ko pura haaq hai apne faslay lene ka....

1 woh dev ko maaf kar sakti hai

2 woh uske sath holi khel sakti hai