Indifference and Forgiveness vs Anger and Hatred - Page 4

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: geet.a

opti- exactly!


maan gives dev thoda sa attention, and dadi gives only dev ko apna aanchal to lean on..but geet is just..whatever..haha

she was talking mroe to the methi ka dabba that day than him..haha



I would love to see Maan too giving him the indifferent treatment the next time he pokes his nose in his business. He should just look at him up and down condescendingly and walk away with his head held high. Why should he waste his emotions on that worthless bro of his. Loved Geet's talk to the methi dabba.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@ Opti..........Again you are sooooooooo right........ i loved your point of view and explanation.........indeed forgiveness will give her clean break from past........ you know i really loved baby and never ever wanted MC.... but creatives killed baby😡........ but i derived one satisfaction from this to soothe myself that now last relation with Deva as sperm doner is also over .......... and forgiveness will end last hold that exsists between Geet and Dev............. and she will never forget and will be more carefull..........
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Posted: 14 years ago
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but i feel forgiveness for this big crime is not that easy........ when i was in 8th standard my classfellow borrowed Rs 20. from me and promised me to return next day.... but she never gave me back.... few days i waited and then i reminded her to give me my money back and she refused.... that day i vowed i will never forgive her as she cheated......... i m 25 now and laugh at my stupidity when i think about that...... and my father always say age plays big role in matters related to forgiveness and revenge...... So aftter reading your post it hit me will Geet at this tender age will be able to forgive crminal Dev??????????
P.S i m not able like you post but i do like them............ and sorry could not post all in one post as my net is screwed...........
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arwenish

@ Opti..........Again you are sooooooooo right........ i loved your point of view and explanation.........indeed forgiveness will give her clean break from past........ you know i really loved baby and never ever wanted MC.... but creatives killed baby😡........ but i derived one satisfaction from this to soothe myself that now last relation with Deva as sperm doner is also over .......... and forgiveness will end last hold that exsists between Geet and Dev............. and she will never forget and will be more carefull..........

Yes, forgiveness will allow her to make a clean break but from what they showed in today's episode I think it could be Maan's apprehension that Geet has forgiven Dev, rather than any action by Geet to forgive her adversary.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arwenish

but i feel forgiveness for this big crime is not that easy........ when i was in 8th standard my classfellow borrowed Rs 20. from me and promised me to return next day.... but she never gave me back.... few days i waited and then i reminded her to give me my money back and she refused.... that day i vowed i will never forgive her as she cheated......... i m 25 now and laugh at my stupidity when i think about that...... and my father always say age plays big role in matters related to forgiveness and revenge...... So aftter reading your post it hit me will Geet at this tender age will be able to forgive crminal Dev??????????
P.S i m not able like you post but i do like them............ and sorry could not post all in one post as my net is screwed...........

Seems like you have a hard time forgiving people. I can understand because I too was like that and yes, with age and time, things look different and one finds it easier to let go. Geet may be 18 but I think life forced her to grow up earlier than normal although she still retains a lot of childishness. Lets wait to see what exactly the creatives have in store for her. Mayeb there is no forgiveness track only.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thanks for agreeing.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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awesome post loved it.......
very well said...
and apt quotations....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree....Dev's crime is really big....what he did was horrible and it is very hard to forgive him....but I truly think that if someone is truly sorry for or regrets what they have done in the past....and really want to become a better person, don't you think they should be given a second chance? I know what Dev did was wrong....but he seems to be trying to become a better person....of course if this is all an act....then that is a different story, but if he truly is trying to change, then I think maybe he should be given the chance....
As for Geet and Maan....I am not saying that they should be best friends with Dev....but forgive him and move on......if they forgive him, then they can move on in their own life....Dev is the last door to Geet's past....if they put this behind them, then they can move on in life....I know its hard...but might be the best....
Sorry if I offend anyone, just my view😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Very apt quotes to describe Geet's act of forgiveness. However as you say it does not mean Dev should escape the law. If he has changed he himself must surrender to law as repentance , If he is just pretending, he cannot get away for long !
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sahil0225

I agree....Dev's crime is really big....what he did was horrible and it is very hard to forgive him....but I truly think that if someone is truly sorry for or regrets what they have done in the past....and really want to become a better person, don't you think they should be given a second chance? I know what Dev did was wrong....but he seems to be trying to become a better person....of course if this is all an act....then that is a different story, but if he truly is trying to change, then I think maybe he should be given the chance....

As for Geet and Maan....I am not saying that they should be best friends with Dev....but forgive him and move on......if they forgive him, then they can move on in their own life....Dev is the last door to Geet's past....if they put this behind them, then they can move on in life....I know its hard...but might be the best....
Sorry if I offend anyone, just my view😳

We do not know whether he is genuinely repenting or not but for Geet's own peace of mind, its better she just lets go. Forgiveness would allow her to make a clean break from her past and put that unhappy memory from her mind forever. So more for Geet's sake rather than Maan it would be good if she does so. It would also help in finding out Dev's true colours. If he was pretending, then he will suddenly have no choice but show his true colours. How long can he put on the show? His guilt trip will come to an abrupt halt.

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