Maan is the father & My predictions on insecurity - Page 5

Originally posted by: dewdropred

no dear dadi will never say that ......... she will not butt in this issue ...... she knows how much maan cares for the baby .....knows what all maan did for geet & baby out of his love for them ..... & how much geet & the baby mean to maan ....when he was feeling guilty coz he selected geet over the bay.... & how geet & maan tackled the baby issue & how maan was again happy in sangeet ..... she will mostly keep out of this baby business .... these 3 will be involved .... none of the characters will b involved in this issue ......

Originally posted by: dewdropred

no dear dadi will never say that ......... she will not butt in this issue ...... she knows how much maan cares for the baby .....knows what all maan did for geet & baby out of his love for them ..... & how much geet & the baby mean to maan ....when he was feeling guilty coz he selected geet over the bay.... & how geet & maan tackled the baby issue & how maan was again happy in sangeet ..... she will mostly keep out of this baby business .... these 3 will be involved .... none of the characters will b involved in this issue ......

Originally posted by: smrite

i don't know dadi's reactions are unpredictable so she might not hesitate in giving dev concern for this baby responsibilities if dev will try to do something for baby.

Originally posted by: dewdropred

Maan 's insecurities & My predictions on this track '.

Finally I got time to write '.coz my discussion with my friend (anu) finally made me write my extended thoughts over here '

I wanted to write on this topic as soon as I saw the article as I was busy with different works was unable to accommodate some time on this article '

& another reason still wanted to wait till the track starts because I did not want to think that the track on this article will ever be shown in GHSP ' as I did not want the insecurity track to be shown ....

even i never thought and never wanted this insecurity track to be shown that is y i mite be biased now.....i mean i don't know how to respond to this track dear

Because ...

I always felt maan is a strong man & he can never let any insecurities come into his life '

same here..........

but how can I also forget the fact '. that what place geet holds in his heart & how important geet is for him ' & if he feels unsecured then it is only because of his undying & unconditional true deep mad love for his geet & the baby '

i feel here more than Maan's insecurity it is his immense, unconditional and selfless concern and care for his Geet and their baby and also his mistrust in dev (Maan might feel dev wud harm Geet and the baby)...........also i'm 100% sure Maan will never doubt his Geet...........not sure if watever i wrote makes sense

regarding insecurities '

In real life situations any person in place of maan would definitely feel unsecured after seeing the biological dad of the baby ' roaming in front of his eyes '

if the sperm donor shows concern towards the baby the insecurity level raises even more ' now whether the concern from that devil is true or fake is secondary ' but there will definitely be certain level of insecurity from the women's hubby ' which we can never deny '. That is a fact '

And to top it '

If the sperm donor moves freely in front of you & your wife's eyes ... That would really be quite uncomfortable for both hubby & wifey '. & what if the sperm donor is your brother & u r indebted to him ' unwillingly coz he saved your life ' too much tricky situation ' maan is put into '

yes it's all too tricky

And now I know cv's will definitely show this in GHSP '' they will definitely be focusing on this point & I am quite sure they will show it very soon ....

But ' Not like how we all might have thought after reading the article '

As GHSP has always been unique ' the insecurities of maan will be shown ''.

but ' with a different touch ' how different would be it would be left to the cv's ' & how they show this track I m not sure right now '

yes GHSP has always been unique so i still have faith in the cvs i just hope like always they will handle it in a different way

all I can say is if at all they are planning to show the insecurity track '. it will definitely be dealt with utmost care ' so that maan's character will not be trashed '

yes even i hope and pray that they wud not ruin Maan's character in any way

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Now coming to the article ' if a part of the article say comes true '' Then all I want to say is '

This article on maan's insecurity '. is to prove to maan that no one can take his place in geet's life .. & geet will definitely take a big class to maan & will make him realise that he is the baby's father '. not that B****** devil '. Who is a simple sperm donor ' donating a sperm does not make you the father ' you need to be equally responsible father '

how it will be shown is left to the cv's'

& then'

Geet will also make maan understand that he is the father of the child & also what maan did for geet all the time '. from the beginning to till date '

how much he accepted her & the baby in his life ' how he always thought & gave importance or priority to geet & baby's needs & what importance he has in her life & no sperm donor can now come & claim any thing from her '

She can never forget what maan did for her '. neither it is not forgotten by any of us .... how he took care of her & their baby ...

If we see even during the accident how he saved geet & their baby first ' he did not think about himself '. result maan got severely injured after saving his family ' & geet ko ek kharoch bhi nahin ayi '

his words before the accident to geet ... & after that ' regarding her safety & baby's safety ... geet remembers everything ...

so what if he is not the bioloical dad ... maan is the father of the child like geet always says ....

he was the person who always felt the responsibility towards their child & gave his name to the baby in front of every one ..... without even thinking for a second .... even before they were married ...

& geet will make maan realise that '. How responsible father he is '

how he cried for the baby when geet was in a life & death situation & how he preferred her over the baby & how he said sorry to the baby ' how much he suffered during the wedding ... not even enjoying his wedding ... because his guilt was killing him from inside ... this would happen only when you love some one so dearly you would feel in this way ....

geet will make maan realise that donating a mere sperm does not make you a dad .... & now coming .... & showing fake concern .... for the baby ....... will not change the fact that maan is the father ..... maan & only maan is the father not that loser dev ....

kaash aisa hi ho

once geet prooves that his insecurities are not at all an issue ..... maan will love her even more '' as we all know that day by day their love grows ..... then blooms into a beautifull fruitful tree ...

but 1 more thing we need to remember star1 site articles are never true ''.

how many star one articles came true ....... let me tell u 1 thing ...... about star one articles do u remember the dhaba wala episode thy said .......after the dhaba wala incident maan will warm up towards geet ......but uska teek opposite hua ......he fired / geet quit after a fight .....& then thy both had a very bad fight in outhouse ........ & many more articles from star one about yash track ...... about bankruptcy ........ nothing came true ........ so may b not the entire article comes true part of it can come true .......

rarely articles come true so still waiting to see how they wud actually show it

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My prediction '.if there is some truth in the article ' not totally true '.

as we all have to remember a fact that ' we cannot believe an article unless & untill it is shown in GHSP '.

Coming to my prediction ''.how they will deal with it '

If at all we think or assume that maan is feeling unsecured ' The same insecurities of maan might come up in front of geet in form of anger ' restlessness ' his performing tai chi ' maan being upset ' unable to concentrate ' thinking on how to solve the issue .... some times a fear of loosing someone you love a lot can also cause insecurity ....

geet unable to understand what is the reason behind maan's worry '

Once geet understands the reason for maan's behaviour ' she will try to prove her love for maan ' & make him realise about his love for her & their baby ....

and his insecurity might also result in some passionate moments between maan & geet ' and who knows '. the much awaited kiss from the couple or even an SR ' we can never say '.. some of you all may not want a SR resulting because of insecurity ' well it is just a possibility ' some times jealousy / insecurity leads to passionate moments between couples '

awesome hima👏👏👏

Sorry friends for making it too long '.. & thank you all for patiently reading it ''

spee.....awesome post...yes, maan is the papa in every way....

Originally posted by: mayadika11

awesome post........

loved it.......u have said it all perfectly......

hope we can get MAANEET passion back asap......

thanx for the fab. post.....

take care.....🤗priti.....

@sptrno - my ans in black ... old post in red

but how can I also forget the fact '. that what place geet holds in his heart & how important geet is for him ' & if he feels unsecured then it is only because of his undying & unconditional true deep mad love for his geet & the baby '

that's wht I too am saying spee ... maan's insecurities are not coz he does not trust her it's bcoz of his immense love 4 her ... which will make him insecure .... coz tht happens .... in normal life .... & the situation what maan is thrown into is tricky ...

kaash aisa hi ho

hoping spee .... trying to fit in romance in the insecurity track ...

thanks spee ... I know yaar u r busy ... i am glad that this post helped u spee ....

Originally posted by: aditi123_78

spee.....awesome post...yes, maan is the papa in every way....

maan will never feel that dev will be better papa...no way....

maan's insecurity is not based upon dev's relation with the baby...because dev is non-issue here...lets say some xyz was the biological papa...even then maan at some point of time wud hv felt insecure....

if u hv watched loads of movies....u will know that many times the step-father never bornes a child of his own only so that he can shower all his love on the wife's child....
this he does not because the wife feels that her hubby will neglect the child once his own is born....this is not because he feels that he is not a gud papa to the child....

this is because somewhere deep inside he feels that even if he does the world for the baby...somehow he wud hv done more if the kid were his own...this is his own feeling of insecurity towards himself and nothing to do with who the biological papa is....

this is the feeling maan is hving rite now...he feels maybe he shud take more care of geet because the real father wud hv done that...and he wants to prove to himself that he is the real papa in all sense...again i repeat here it is irrelevant who the real father is....

i again say this is not because he feels dev can be better papa....

look around u....if u know any couple where the wife has a child from prev marriage....then in most cases u will see the father pampering his step child more than his own child....this is because he feels the step child may feel that he loves his own child more even if it is not true....
this is a basic human nature...deep down maan will always feel that he has to cover up the fact that he is not biological papa by showering the child with extra love and care....

at the end of the day such kids hv the tendency to become spoiled due to over pampering (i hv seen in real cases) because of over indulgence from the step father....

and as for geet-dev....no way maan will feel insecure on that....he has trust in geet and her love for him....

Originally posted by: dewdropred

@sptrno - my ans in black ... old post in red

nice post .......... 😊

u had patience to write so many old scenes ....👏

thanks dear😊

even i never thought and never wanted this insecurity track to be shown that is y i mite be biased now.....i mean i don't know how to respond to this track dear

spee now tell me how U feel about this track .... still u r not sure ....

same here..........

but how can I also forget the fact '. that what place geet holds in his heart & how important geet is for him ' & if he feels unsecured then it is only because of his undying & unconditional true deep mad love for his geet & the baby '

i feel here more than Maan's insecurity it is his immense, unconditional and selfless concern and care for his Geet and their baby and also his mistrust in dev (Maan might feel dev wud harm Geet and the baby)...........also i'm 100% sure Maan will never doubt his Geet...........not sure if watever i wrote makes sense

yes it's all too tricky

that's wht I too am saying spee ... maan's insecurities are not coz he does not trust her it's bcoz of his immense love 4 her ... which will make him insecure .... coz tht happens .... in normal life .... & the situation what maan is thrown into is tricky ...

yes GHSP has always been unique so i still have faith in the cvs i just hope like always they will handle it in a different way

yes even i hope and pray that they wud not ruin Maan's character in any way

I have the faith in the cv's & like till now how maan & geet's character has been kept intact ... they will do that in future ... thy will show this track without affecting the characters of geet & maan ....

kaash aisa hi ho

hoping spee .... trying to fit in romance in the insecurity track ...

awesome hima👏👏👏

👏...............sorry for reading it so late..................my replies in green above..........also i guess i'm still young and don't have much experience so i was upset after reading the article and also my reply might not be right for the same reason............i love u for making me understand these important things dear..............hopefully now i can try to see the insecurity issue from a different angle........

thanks spee ... I know yaar u r busy ... i am glad that this post helped u spee ....

love u hima sweetheart🤗

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Maan became father of the baby even before becoming Geet's lover, husband and soulmate..............Maan took Geet to the hospital for the first time and there he tells doc that mein jaantha hu maa aur bache ki zimmendari meri hai aur mein aaj ke baad apko shikayat ka koi mauka nahi dunga..............Geet was awestruck when she heard her Maan's father of their baby's words which were sweet melody it touched her heart her soul...............and this happens even before MAANEET's official engagement............................

Also when Maan is really hurt and angry at Geet when he only knows that Geet is pregnant but he did not know the whole truth, but still when Geet faints he gets her home and takes care of her............next day he decides Geet is pregnant so even if he had to die a million deaths every second still he will continue mangetar naatak and also has all the papaya which dadi brings bcuz unknowingly he was emotionally attached to the baby and it was bcuz of his unconditional love for the baby and Geet which he himself was unaware of at that point.......................

Maan has given back the self-respect, dignity and honour that Geet lost in hands of dev*l, rapi*st, sinner dev................Maan made Geet feel like she is the most 'pavitra girl' he has ever seen in his life.............Maan ke liye Geet hi pavitratha ki symbol hai......................

Also the sacred and divine moment when Maan sees their baby for the first time his tears of joy, happiness, immense and love and care for their baby........he cud not believe wat he was seeing feeling................he was awestruck................seeing their baby for the first time brought tears in Maan's eyes which r windows to his soul.............their baby's one glance cud arouse such strong emotions in him that it brought tears in a man's eyes who used to hate tears and who used to hate all feelings infact he had made his heart more stronger than any rock a rock wud have some feelings but not Maan Singh Khurana...............but since Geet came in his life and gave him their baby now he has a new reason to live, to be happy, to dream and now he feels and expresses all his feelings for their baby...................

Also the recent pool scene, Maan with immense pride and love saying woh mere bachcha ki maa banane wali hai she is my wife.........here Maan is grateful to his Geet mother of their baby that she has given him the most precious gift most special gift their baby.............now for MAANEET their baby is their most beautiful dream, wish and happiness and their parenthood the most precious blessing they have......................

Also the movie scene where Maan tells his Geet that from now their movie will have a new character their baby which will fill their life with new happiness, colours and dreams.............

Also rem how Maan had to go thru heartbreaking choice of choosing between his heart Geet and his heartbeat their baby when Brij attacks and Geet is critical after Geet collapses in steam room.................and then Maan's guilt trip that he chose Geet over their baby but here Maan never chose Geet over their baby but i was just his reflex action bcuz he was too tensed worried for both baby and Geet so he did not know wat he said...............he was dying amillion deaths until he poured his heart in front of his Geet..... ......papa said sorry to his baby and baby's mommy..............it was so touchy to see how Maan touched their baby and hugged Geet..........Maan epitome of unconditional and selfless love and care calling himself selfish........how noble can any man get.......the way he bowed down in front of his Geet........ he could not even look into Geet's eyes..........v all know Maan never chose his heart Geet over his heartbeat Khushi..........him saying Geet's name was just a relfex action but still Maan torturing himself sooooooooo much........while Maan was pouring his heart out releasing all the heavy burden pain and guilt Geet's heart was aching soooooooo much.............her tears were only for her Maan.............seeing how Maan has punished himself for no fault of his Geet comforting him soothing all his pain with her angelic touch awwwwww...............Geet saying baby ki mama ne papa ko maaf kar diya par baby apse naazar hai kyunki aapne kaha woh apka ansh nahi hai.........mein jaanti hu agar yeh apka ansh hota toh bhi aap yehi faisla karte.......................Geet tells her Maan baby's papa Maan apse acha papa koi nahi ho sakta...........baby is a blessed child to have mama and papa like Geet and Maan..................For Maan his Mishti's words were like a melody to his ears and the balm which soothed his aching heart which was broken into zillion pieces..................Now once Geet had forgiven him he felt like he is the most luckiest person on this planet.............................

Also in front of Brij she with immense pride, respect and admiration tells Brij that now baby has the father best father who will shower all the happiness in the whole world on their baby........................

Also all the cute baby talks so far be it when Maan tries to wake up Geet he speaks to his baby to see if mama is awake and also only baby can calm papa's anger, only baby can soothe his aching heart...........only baby can erase pain from papa's heart...........................

Also when Maan gets a call from nurse reminding him that Geet has an appointment when MAANEET were going thru a painful phase of MU/ego clash, but still just this call made him feel guilty that he forgot about their baby in his anger and he rushes to his Geet mother of their baby and at this point he forgets everything else all the pain, MU, painful arguments MAANEET had in the past few days...................

Also in the conference room Maan tells Geet that he hates himself and his Khurana name bcuz his blood relations remind him make him feel so guilty make him ashamed that bcuz of his brother an innocent's life was completely shattered, it was bcuz of hsi own bro an innocent girl's happiness and dreams were shattered and she had to become sabase parayi even after having a family bcuz of his own brother.................even now when he saw dev in outhouse Maan's concern, worry and love for their baby and his Geet's health and whom whom he wants to shield from all the pain, tension, thorns, nightmares given by dev but due to dadi his helpnesses and immense guilt he is going thru and Maan's hatred, anger, frustration seeing dev....................Maan has always been is and will always remain as the father of the baby...................no one can change this fact................

The mafi nama epi where Geet tells her Maan uss company ki waaris ko aapki zaroorat hai warna unka aane wala kal unke guzare hue kal ki tarah kalaash ho jaayega............and this brought that serene and divine smile on Maan's face on papa's face and his heart replies to her saying muje unka saath manjor hai.............one had to feel this MAANEET scene................

Also when NT is bad mouthing Geet, where NT says to Geet kudh toh kisi ka anaam nahi de sakthi ab bache ko kiska naam dungi..............Maan cud not hears this words which hit him like a thunder bolts words which hurt Geet's self-respect, dignity and motherhood.............so he fills Geet's maang with his khoon............here Maan's maang-filling with his khoon symbolic that now for him their baby and his Geet r his life he can do anything and evertyhting for them.......also here in this divine action of filling Geet's maang he made her his forever and also here he expressed proudly that the baby is his............only his.............

Maan's only aim and wish in life is to fulfil his Geet's and their baby' all wishes and dreams...........Maan has fulfilled all her cravings be it bringing her mango or paani puri or even bribing the waiter bcuz mama wants kulfi at any cost!...........these were all cute and sweet moments of MAANEET with their baby...........

Maan distances himself from his Geet when she was submitting her heart her soul her everything to her Maan the man who she proudly loves trusts and respects..............for Maan it was the most divine and sacred moment it was the moment when all his dreams desires and wishes wud have come true but 'selflessness' in him is at such a level that it doesn't permit him to be 'selfish even for a second or a moment......................at that moment Maan's duty, concern and love as a father of a new life, and caretaker and saviour of his Geet overtook his own wishes and desires as Geet's lover, husband and soulmate.............Maan once again showed us that his love and concern for their baby and Geet' health and safety is his top most priority, his top most responsibility, his top most wish and desire..................

we can also contrast Maan-the true Man and Dev-

one side v have a dev-a dev*l who destroyed a girl's life, used her for his lust, never kept any of his marriage vows, who just left Geet all alone...........for him baby nor Geet was never in his priority list or life................on the other hand v have Maan someone who loves their baby and Geet to such a level which cannot be measured.........Maan's love for them is deeper than the deepest ocean...................for him it's always his his heartbeat their baby and his heart Geet.............

Just being a biological father or shud i say rap*ng a girl doesn't make a man father of a baby....................only Maan the father who showered unconditional, selfless, true and pure love on baby and baby's mother Geet his Geet is the father of the baby in all respects...............only MAANEET r baby's parents...............i still can't really believe that Maan wud feel insecure bcuz of dev.................Maan will never feel that he cannot replace dev...............btw dev never had any place in Geet's life nor baby's life so the question of replacing dev doesn't arise at all..........the marriage was fake...........even when this fake marriage took place and when Geet was facing all torture, pain, helplessness, cruelties bcuz of dev's evil sins, Maan was in Geet' life always..........initially Maan was present in her life as her saviour then thereafter he became her eternal saviour, caretaker, parent, teacher, friend, father of their baby, and last but not the least her lover, husband and soulmate.................it was always only Maan in Geet's life........................i so hope that cvs will keep MAANEET's divine sacred and special bond and their immense love, care, trust, faith and understanding they have in each other intact even if they want to show insecurity track...........................

All i know and i want to say proudly is that Maan has been is and will always be the best papa perfect papa and only he is the father of the baby in all respects.........................

very well written spee darling ....... hats off to ur patience .....👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

thank u so much sweetheart😊

spee ...... maan has prooved himself time & again that he is the best father a child could ever get .... no doubt on that .... but we need to think over here that inspite of being a best father .... a best lover & very best hubby ............ he is also a human ...... & humans tend to have this jealousy ...... insecurity issue hidden in some part of their life & we already know how maan can't bear any one looking at geet .... now devil showing his concern towards geet .... how will maan react ... how will his insecurities come up ... this is what will be shown in future episodes ........

coz this track is quite important ...... once maan get's an answer for his insecurity ....... he will never again feel that way .... that will be the end of the insecurity track ...... i am not sure whether my answer satisfied U or not .... coz like I said before this is quite a tricky & delicate issue which needs to be dealt with extra care ........

p.s.sorry hima for my long post but i had to take it out somewhere.......... and i felt like sharing it with u............u might have seen since the article has come out, and even day-before yest i was kind of upset and tensed.............don't know y...................just hope everything will be handled in a proper way in a way that wud not ruin Maan's character...........i can't see Geet's or Maan's character being ruined in any way............hoping for the best................

spee .... no need to say sorry dear ...... I am always there 4 U ........ yes I do remember how upset U were & me & varsha had to comfort U .... don't worry ... geet & maan's character's will not be ruined but they will be shining even more brighter after this track ....... & viewers will love maaneet even more ....... trust me .....cv's will not do any damage .....

tere mu mein chocolates sweets ghee shakkar watever u wish for dear😊😊😊