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Posted: 14 years ago
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hima i am clueless dear..as i have not read the article but i agree with you..just donating sperm does not make you a father...
msk's insecurities are justified..in real life also we find such situations and i am sure geet will stand by her hubby and she ease msk's insecurities..she is his strength and will prove it once more by making all the doubts vanish..
dev is a criminal and i was nerver convinced by his saintgiri...i want him to be punished..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajeev the best

hima i am clueless dear..as i have not read the article but i agree with you..just donating sperm does not make you a father...

msk's insecurities are justified..in real life also we find such situations and i am sure geet will stand by her hubby and she ease msk's insecurities..she is his strength and will prove it once more by making all the doubts vanish..
dev is a criminal and i was nerver convinced by his saintgiri...i want him to be punished..

samata .... the article came last week i think u missed it ...... never mind ......... the reason i made the post is thought may b now that dev's presence will increase so maan might feel that way as per the article ....
yes samata .......any person in real life will exactly feel the same way if ur past is in front of u ........Even I 2 want geet 2 proove 2 MSK once more that she loves him truly deeply & madly ..........
i 2 want dev 2 b punished .........
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Posted: 14 years ago
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good post and it makes sense.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Maan 's insecurities & My predictions on this track ?.

Finally I got time to write ?.coz my discussion with my friend (anu) finally made me write my extended thoughts over here ?

I wanted to write on this topic as soon as I saw the article as I was busy with different works was unable to accommodate some time on this article ?

& another reason still wanted to wait till the track starts because I did not want to think that the track on this article will ever be shown in GHSP ? as I did not want the insecurity track to be shown ....

Because ...
I always felt maan is a strong man & he can never let any insecurities come into his life ?

but how can I also forget the fact ?. that what place geet holds in his heart & how important geet is for him ? & if he feels unsecured then it is only because of his undying & unconditional true deep mad love for his geet & the baby ?

very true hima....its not about maan being strong and being confident about geet's love for feeling of insecurity may arise because of maan's immense love for geet....we hv seen his state of agony wen geet was admitted in hospital and her life was at stake....today maan cannot imagine a life widout geet and the baby...and such intense love generally has the feeling of insecurity as part and parcel....

regarding insecurities ?

In real life situations any person in place of maan would definitely feel unsecured after seeing the biological dad of the baby ? roaming in front of his eyes ?

if the sperm donor shows concern towards the baby the insecurity level raises even more ? now whether the concern from that devil is true or fake is secondary ? but there will definitely be certain level of insecurity from the women's hubby ? which we can never deny ?. That is a fact ?

rite....in real life no man will tolerate the biological dad of the baby anywhere near his wife....but maan has been portrayed as larger than life in many ways...and as such his emotions, feelings, reactions to any situation hv also been in bigger proportions than in real life....
but situation is different here....if dev wud hv been the love of geet....then there is question of insecurity....but that was never the case....yes, for geet the marriage was real till her illusion broke the next day itself....and with time geet wud hv fallen in love with dev....but that didnt happen and before geet developed any romantic feelings for dev....he left her with dreams shattered....
and today geet's hatred for dev is genuine as much as her love for maan is....
maan knows very well that geet will never go back to dev....his insecurity lies rather in the bonding of dev and the baby rather than geet and dev...this is wat i think....
as much as we say in phylosophical sense that maan is the true father....but at the same time biological bond cannot be denied....
And to top it ?
If the sperm donor moves freely in front of you & your wife's eyes ... That would really be quite uncomfortable for both hubby & wifey ?. & what if the sperm donor is your brother & u r indebted to him ? unwillingly coz he saved your life ? too much tricky situation ? maan is put into ?

yes....i always felt from the very beginning that geet being pregnant with another man's child is not the main twist of this story but the biological father is maan's own bro....that is the actual punch of the story....it is not at all uncommon for a man to accept another man's child with his wife...it is also not uncommon to accept a dead bro's wife and child....but to live in the same house with dev who is the biological father of geet is a severe test of maan's love and trust on geet....i hv full faith that maan wont fail in this...

And now I know cv's will definitely show this in GHSP ?? they will definitely be focusing on this point & I am quite sure they will show it very soon ....

But ? Not like how we all might have thought after reading the article ?

As GHSP has always been unique ? the insecurities of maan will be shown ??.

but ? with a different touch ? how different would be it would be left to the cv's ? & how they show this track I m not sure right now ?

all I can say is if at all they are planning to show the insecurity track ?. it will definitely be dealt with utmost care ? so that maan's character will not be trashed ?

yes, that is my main concern...i hope the CVs will align the track with the real character of maan....maan is not a narrow minded person who believes in controlling his wife...as i said his insecurity shud be more on baby-dev bond rather than geet-dev bond which has actually never existed....one night stand is not a bond....

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Now coming to the article ? if a part of the article say comes true ?? Then all I want to say is ?

This article on maan's insecurity ?. is to prove to maan that no one can take his place in geet's life .. & geet will definitely take a big class to maan & will make him realise that he is the baby's father ?. not that B****** devil ?. Who is a simple sperm donor ? donating a sperm does not make you the father ? you need to be equally responsible father ?

how it will be shown is left to the cv's?

& then?

Geet will also make maan understand that he is the father of the child & also what maan did for geet all the time ?. from the beginning to till date ?

how much he accepted her & the baby in his life ? how he always thought & gave importance or priority to geet & baby's needs & what importance he has in her life & no sperm donor can now come & claim any thing from her ?

She can never forget what maan did for her ?. neither it is not forgotten by any of us .... how he took care of her & their baby ...

If we see even during the accident how he saved geet & their baby first ? he did not think about himself ?. result maan got severely injured after saving his family ? & geet ko ek kharoch bhi nahin ayi ?

his words before the accident to geet ... & after that ? regarding her safety & baby's safety ... geet remembers everything ...

all that maan has done for the baby r not some favours from his side....as maan has repeatedly said to geet that it is for her that he has learnt the true meaning of life...it is for her that he has learnt to smile and see the colourful side of life....for him it is geet who has done so much for him...as he said to dadi after he realised how much geet was hurt by his words....
it is maan's genuine love and concern for geet and the baby that makes him do watever he does....
he has proved in everyway that if anyone has the right to be the father of the child....it is maan...
what if he is not the bioloical dad ... maan is the father of the child like geet always says ....
he was the person who always felt the responsibility towards their child & gave his name to the baby in front of every one ..... without even thinking for a second .... even before they were married ...
& geet will make maan realise that ?. How responsible father he is ?
how he cried for the baby when geet was in a life & death situation & how he preferred her over the baby & how he said sorry to the baby ? how much he suffered during the wedding ... not even enjoying his wedding ... because his guilt was killing him from inside ... this would happen only when you love some one so dearly you would feel in this way ....
geet will make maan realise that donating a mere sperm does not make you a dad .... & now coming .... & showing fake concern .... for the baby ....... will not change the fact that maan is the father ..... maan & only maan is the father not that loser dev ....

once geet prooves that his insecurities are not at all an issue ..... maan will love her even more ?? as we all know that day by day their love grows ..... then blooms into a beautifull fruitful tree ...

yes...as much as we know maan's trust on geet will never falter...but it is also geet's job to prove maan that he is the only one who can claim the baby as his own....

but 1 more thing we need to remember star1 site articles are never true ??.

how many star one articles came true ....... let me tell u 1 thing ...... about star one articles do u remember the dhaba wala episode thy said .......after the dhaba wala incident maan will warm up towards geet ......but uska teek opposite hua ......he fired / geet quit after a fight .....& then thy both had a very bad fight in outhouse ........ & many more articles from star one about yash track ...... about bankruptcy ........ nothing came true ........ so may b not the entire article comes true part of it can come true .......

true again....better we not trust the article blindly...

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My prediction ?.if there is some truth in the article ? not totally true ?.

as we all have to remember a fact that ? we cannot believe an article unless & untill it is shown in GHSP ?.

Coming to my prediction ??.how they will deal with it ?

If at all we think or assume that maan is feeling unsecured ? The same insecurities of maan might come up in front of geet in form of anger ? restlessness ? his performing tai chi ? maan being upset ? unable to concentrate ? thinking on how to solve the issue .... some times a fear of loosing someone you love a lot can also cause insecurity ....

geet unable to understand what is the reason behind maan's worry ?

Once geet understands the reason for maan's behaviour ? she will try to prove her love for maan ? & make him realise about his love for her & their baby ....

and his insecurity might also result in some passionate moments between maan & geet ? and who knows ?. the much awaited kiss from the couple or even an SR ? we can never say ?.. some of you all may not want a SR resulting because of insecurity ? well it is just a possibility ? some times jealousy / insecurity leads to passionate moments between couples ?

hima...u know this is y the CVs r delaying the SR seq....as much as we all r craving to see it....the CVs r not bothering...now i understand y....once consummation is shown maan will hv the last remaining hold on geet and as such his chances of feeling insecure will be almost baseless....but now...maan and geet still hvnt shared physical relationship which is one thing dev has shared with geet....and for the possessive side of maan....this reason alone can give rise to insecurity....so, i guess u r rite that this track may lead to SR....

but then i really dont want that...i dont want geet to go physical with maan just to prove to him that his feeling of insecurity is baseless....maneet's SR must be free of all obligations and reasons....
Sorry friends for making it too long ?.. & thank you all for patiently reading it ??

nice post hima....
my reply in red....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sara202

good post and it makes sense.

thank U sara
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Posted: 14 years ago
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very true hima....its not about maan being strong and being confident about geet's love for feeling of insecurity may arise because of maan's immense love for geet....we hv seen his state of agony wen geet was admitted in hospital and her life was at stake....today maan cannot imagine a life widout geet and the baby...and such intense love generally has the feeling of insecurity as part and parcel....
aditi ... yes dear ... the best reason of insecurity from maan's side is his deep immense love for geet ....

rite....in real life no man will tolerate the biological dad of the baby anywhere near his wife....but maan has been portrayed as larger than life in many ways...and as such his emotions, feelings, reactions to any situation hv also been in bigger proportions than in real life....

but situation is different here....if dev wud hv been the love of geet....then there is question of insecurity....but that was never the case....yes, for geet the marriage was real till her illusion broke the next day itself....and with time geet wud hv fallen in love with dev....but that didnt happen and before geet developed any romantic feelings for dev....he left her with dreams shattered....
and today geet's hatred for dev is genuine as much as her love for maan is....
maan knows very well that geet will never go back to dev....his insecurity lies rather in the bonding of dev and the baby rather than geet and dev...this is wat i think.... as much as we say in phylosophical sense that maan is the true father....but at the same time biological bond cannot be denied....
aditi ... agree that maan's character is very well etched ... & also agree that geet never loved dev ... and also that maan knows geet will never go back to dev as he knows geet's preferences very well ... and he will be feeling insecured for the baby ...
his insecurities will start bcoz dev is here to create MU between the couple ... that is his hidden agenda ... until what level his insecurities will rise that we have to see ... coz ... I feel dev is trying to portray to be changed & innocent .... but he is not ... he might have changed his mind & turned negative ...
for me ... dev can never be trusted ...
yes....i always felt from the very beginning that geet being pregnant with another man's child is not the main twist of this story but the biological father is maan's own bro....that is the actual punch of the story....it is not at all uncommon for a man to accept another man's child with his wife...it is also not uncommon to accept a dead bro's wife and child....but to live in the same house with dev who is the biological father of geet is a severe test of maan's love and trust on geet....i hv full faith that maan wont fail in this...
aditi ... u got it right .... maan may not feel the same if geet was carrying some one elses child ... the problem over here is ... geet is carrying his brother's child ... thats is very difficult to digest ...
& that is another reason for maan's immense hatred towards dev ... he spoiled a innocent girls life while he was married ... all he did is just for money ... & all 3 living under same roof will give rise to plenty of uncomfortable form all ... but as we all know maan & geet ...... like you I also have faith in maan & geet & they will proove their mettle over here ...
yes, that is my main concern...i hope the CVs will align the track with the real character of maan....maan is not a narrow minded person who believes in controlling his wife...as i said his insecurity shud be more on baby-dev bond rather than geet-dev bond which has actually never existed....one night stand is not a bond....
aditi ... agree maan was never a narrow minded person ... & cv's will never show that ... coz till now they kept maan's character intact ... & this will happen in future also ... agree 1 night stand is not a bond ... & maan also knows that very well & he knows his geet too knows that geet loves maan ... but some where if dev shows concern for the baby then I am hoping that maan's insecurity level will not rise ....
all that maan has done for the baby r not some favours from his side....as maan has repeatedly said to geet that it is for her that he has learnt the true meaning of life...it is for her that he has learnt to smile and see the colourful side of life....for him it is geet who has done so much for him...as he said to dadi after he realised how much geet was hurt by his words....
it is maan's genuine love and concern for geet and the baby that makes him do watever he does....
he has proved in everyway that if anyone has the right to be the father of the child....it is maan...
aditi here what ever geet & maan did for each other was never a favour it was always love .... true love .... what they have for each other & what maan has for baby ... inspite he not being the biological father ...he has prooved that he can never be less than a father & if any one deserves to be called a father it is maan & only maan .........
yes...as much as we know maan's trust on geet will never falter...but it is also geet's job to prove maan that he is the only one who can claim the baby as his own....
aditi ... just like maan geet has prooved her love for maan every time she is put to test & this time also she will come out with flying colors .... I trust the characters of both geet & maan ...

true again....better we not trust the article blindly...

yes dear never trust them until we see it on screen ...

hima...u know this is y the CVs r delaying the SR seq....as much as we all r craving to see it....the CVs r not bothering...now i understand y....

once consummation is shown maan will hv the last remaining hold on geet and as such his chances of feeling insecure will be almost baseless....but now...maan and geet still hvnt shared physical relationship which is one thing dev has shared with geet....and for the possessive side of maan....this reason alone can give rise to insecurity....so, i guess u r rite that this track may lead to SR....
but then i really dont want that...i dont want geet to go physical with maan just to prove to him that his feeling of insecurity is baseless....maneet's SR must be free of all obligations and reasons....
aditi... if u remember i gave the options for SR ... then also U were against the SR coz i said insecurity might lead to SR ....
I never pointed out the actual reason why maan would feel insecure ... why .... why because i never wanted to say that & today u ... urself said those words ........the lines underlines & in pink ..... coz i always had this thought in mind ... not that this really matters to maan ... coz according to maan .... thy were united long back & maaneet are soul mates ....
P.S. - this belown mentioned line in green is in general case ...... I am not talking about maaneet relationship ....
but still this is a basis for every marital relationship
& this can either make or break a relationship ...
nice post hima....
thanks aditi ... my replies in blue black & green
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: dewdropred

aditi... if u remember i gave the options for SR ... then also U were against the SR coz i said insecurity might lead to SR ....
I never pointed out the actual reason why maan would feel insecure ... why .... why because i never wanted to say that & today u ... urself said those words ........the lines underlines & in pink ..... coz i always had this thought in mind ... not that this really matters to maan ... coz according to maan .... thy were united long back & maaneet are soul mates ....
hima....u r rite that this doesnt really matter to maan...but if i talk about geet's POV...she may feel the need if she sees him in insecure state....
the last thing i want is that geet going physical with maan to complete the relationship as whole and then miscarriage happening due to that....
maan's guilty conscious will never allow him to be at peace again....he will be guilty because of his insecurity geet took the risk of making love with him knowing that the baby's life is at stake....
that is y hima....i want total medical clearance before SR....and also i repeat the SR must be widout any obligations....

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Posted: 14 years ago
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i don't know but lookng at dadi's melting heart and the way she don't care how much awkward situations maangeet have to face coz of dev being there she might one day say that if dev wants to care for the child then problem kya hai akhir woh asli pita hai dadi can say that.
maan might feel that he is not good in all fatherly responsibilities while practising all those things then he might feel insecure but this track should only lead to dev being shown he is no one to geet and the baby only maan is imp for them and dev seeing his awkaat.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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U know at tht time that was my prediction that maaneet con...
due to insecurities ...specially more form geet's side & as a result MC happening ........ but looks like as per recent episodes MC may not happen coz the doctor might clear geet as last episode the doctor said geet was normal & asked for another check up 1 week later ...
so the cv's will not show MC ....
but they will clear geet's condition in the mean while in the coming weeks ... while dev will b planning his moves ... once doctor clears ... the SR happens ... so that maan will not feel guilty abt it later on .....
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Originally posted by: smrite

i don't know but lookng at dadi's melting heart and the way she don't care how much awkward situations maangeet have to face coz of dev being there she might one day say that if dev wants to care for the child then problem kya hai akhir woh asli pita hai dadi can say that.

maan might feel that he is not good in all fatherly responsibilities while practising all those things then he might feel insecure but this track should only lead to dev being shown he is no one to geet and the baby only maan is imp for them and dev seeing his awkaat.

no dear dadi will never say that ......... she will not butt in this issue ...... she knows how much maan cares for the baby .....knows what all maan did for geet & baby out of his love for them ..... & how much geet & the baby mean to maan ....when he was feeling guilty coz he selected geet over the bay.... & how geet & maan tackled the baby issue & how maan was again happy in sangeet ..... she will mostly keep out of this baby business .... these 3 will be involved .... none of the characters will b involved in this issue ......

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