To add to that list:
- If you eavesdrop and hear certain truths about yourself -- for instance, about how she was able to pull the wool over your eyes -- be a Maan enough to admit it. Don't attempt to even the score by trying to pull the bedsheet over yourself. The bedsheet provides a very flimsy cover, especially when it isn't tucked in tight.
- On that note, never ever fake illness. Have you heard of the boy who cried wolf?
- When this particular thought crosses your mind -- "woh mere sharafat ka najayaz faida utha rahi hai" -- you should first be thankful that she considers you shareef enough to own some sharafat.
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