'Maan Singh Khurana aisa hii hai.' - Page 6

Originally posted by: nanditasingh

ofcourse Men do but it can be counted on fingers of one hand for a lifetime of moments they did were as with us women its countless ....we have the liberty to cry & shed ...alas our society does not give men that liberty

Originally posted by: bharkha

agree nandita.... even in weddings wen the bride leave their mother s place she sheds tears.. how much ever the groom feels bad he shudnt suppose to shed tears....and thats the reality that the society doesnt give men that liberty

Originally posted by: kuls11

I am definitely with you....I know Maan used some harsh words in last,,,but its not his fault Geet has tendency to push him to Limits and when he react he is at fault....there many one track minder here who just like to see Geet point of view and force that upon you....again and again......According to them you dont have brain liberty to think.....Its either their way or highway.............If you agree to it...you are only Maan sucker ..........but nevertheless....if you are only Geet supporter in all her wrongs than you see 2 side of coin.....Thanks Nandu for taking time and writing your masterpiece even during in exam...bceause most of Good writer who used to write from Maan prospective have left this forum .......like Kashish ,,,becuase of some meniacism of DD supporters...

Originally posted by: drdee142

Nandita, thanks again for this beautiful post. You've explained both sides of this painful phase which makes the whole thing so much more credible. Yes it's so easy to blame Maan for being hurtful to Geet but for Maan the biggest torture is seeing Geet hurt so will he willfully hurt Geet.

I do understand Geet's insecurity seeing all that she's been through in her young life but I also thought that now she'll understand Maan more than anything cause he has proved time and again that she & her happiness will always be first for him.

I can understand her being hurt but I also wondered didn't she see the pain in Maan's eyes when she confronted him, didn't she get it when he said that the whole thing was more hurtful to him than it was to her.

As for Maan's anger, that is and was always the only way he knows to mask his pain or vulnerability. I feel sorry for both of them to be caught in this situation but I was confident that Geet would never think the worst of Maan and would did deep to find the actual truth and I still think she'll do that once she get over the initial hurt. Their love for each other is much too strong to let this affect them

Thanks for getting this perspective out; I could feel both their pain while reading your post and you're so right Maan cannot even cry and get his pain out......all I wanted to do is comfort him.

You brought tears in my eyes once again darling Nandita........you know I love you and always look forward to reading your articles as they touch my soul. Sorry for rambling so long.....

Originally posted by: nanditasingh

yes Kul....people easily go to butcher Maan in name of feminist plight ...God ! atleast be fair to him...i don't trust these people who they yell they admire & love & very next moment don't hesitate to talk so cheaply off..be it fictional character...but we are not fictional...nor are our thoughts..they slight others pov ...you hold full right to disagree with others pov ....but not disrespect it by calling them wrong ...

yeah i miss Kashish, Dol & Pooja are busy & Pari is done with the forum in a way ....
Sri i'm missing a lot ...

so happy to see u & Aditi react as you Should.
& i'm waiting to read Ritu , guess she is pissed off with the flow of biasness too

Originally posted by: nanditasingh

yes Kul....people easily go to butcher Maan in name of feminist plight ...God ! atleast be fair to him...i don't trust these people who they yell they admire & love & very next moment don't hesitate to talk so cheaply off..be it fictional character...but we are not fictional...nor are our thoughts..they slight others pov ...you hold full right to disagree with others pov ....but not disrespect it by calling them wrong ...

yeah i miss Kashish, Dol & Pooja are busy & Pari is done with the forum in a way ....
Sri i'm missing a lot ...

so happy to see u & Aditi react as you Should.
& i'm waiting to read Ritu , guess she is pissed off with the flow of biasness too

Originally posted by: nanditasingh

Thanks a ton Rati ....
i'm so glad that you felt so that i voiced both their plight ...
its the best compliment that this post could ever get ..
very well mentioned that both are suffering coz of the distance ..
as few mentioned a hug, a kiss , holding in arm can it be harmful...ofcourse not
but they are humans isn't it ...beyond a point if they lose their self control ..esp since Geet here is ignorant party ...what is at stake ..? a life to lose.

he cannot dare to do that....
he cannot trust himself when question is Baby's safety, Geet's health ...nor can he tell Geet why is he doing this ....

Originally posted by: nanditasingh

in a way i agree with you that its the DUO not any individual that is at fault ..thats what i tried saying in my post too ..
Both here are victim in the hands of destiny ...

as i mentioned Knowledge is not blissful state....Maan knows something that he cannot share , YES HE CANNOT SHARE coz sharing it will hurt her heart & health more than his keeping distance or his rude words
what has more impact on a WOMAN , her husband not loving her as she assumes or the knowledge that her Baby to die in her womb....

If Maan stays away or being rude to Geet will save the baby, then he must do it...but here, it is very clear that in either way she has to get rid of the baby...So she has to bear the two things, her husband distancing from her and her baby dieing in her womb. From all the angles I think, the conclusion that comes to my mind is that if the woman has to experience both the things she will go insane, emotionally.I think it's time for Maan to give her the support and care ...he should not need to wait to do that until she breaks up emotionally, with both the facts. If spouse don't be on your side, then who else will be? supporting one doesn't always mean that one has to wait until the one falls onto the ground, one needs to avoid circumstances that may lead to the fall...though I tell this, I know there are certain things that are beyond our reach, but still it doesn't mean we have to wait until we fall hard onto the ground.

Maan is trying hard to keep her away from this as much as possible as long as he can..were as Geet is trying hard to cover the distance & reach out to him.....

But her assuming that he does not love her of the other possible options that too owing to a serial is question on the very trust she holds on him ...
He hurt her with his words trying to save her from the more mortal wound ..he is helpless

How? If his words could save her baby, then yes I'm happy that he did it. but the doctor told that they have to decide and act as soon as possible, Geet should get rid off the baby for her survival.

People who comment 'Maan is not God' Guys then atleast let him remain human then...& humans react when pushed too hard.

I have never said Maan is God, neither I would do that ever.. Humans are the ones who will push humans...

*All the things don't stay the same way before marriage and after marriage...Once a marriage happens both hubby/wife need to learn how to life with their partners...here, Maan and Geet needs to learn it.