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Posted: 14 years ago
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Kesha agree with your points..
by Filling Geet's Maang that day Maan just made her his but he still respects the aspect and tradition of marriage and that is why he has asked her that he needs to keep his distance till they are accepted by family and society.. He does not want any bad reputation for her.
and that is why he asked her officially if she would marry him and he is making arrangement for that..
The first most thing he did is to take her to Dadima and ask for the blessings.. But because of this NT's emergency dadima and he had to leave.. But MSK will make his uttermost priority to make Geet his lawfully wedded wife.. once he knows that she is not going to be affected by NT's aligetions and meanwhile he will keep her near and won't let any harm come to her..
The same thing he did at Manali... He could have gone ahead.. but no he did not as he respected Geet too much to take advantage of her. They will have to Keep him that way.. MSK walks in the path of truth and integrity and he will not cross his boundaries till he makes Geet his lawfully wedded wife...
He is miles apart then his brother.... They definitely cannot show him like Dev...
So he will go either for full ritual wedding or for court wedding asap..
Edited by evasumi - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: kesha2412

Perfectly understand where u coming from Avi... in so many shows they show this ritual only...
but it is also improtant to realise that even though sindoor signifies a bond has been created betweem 2 people... putting sindoor by itself does not mean they are married...
So I am glad that unlike other shows... in this show... Maan asked Geet about getting married...
I am therefore positive about the whole episode... to me Maan filling Geet's maang signified that He considers their bond sacred and significant... He considers their relationship as one of a lifetime and beyond... which he then further confimed with his words to Geet....
So unlike other shows... this show has not made fun of this ritual... Cos other shows just show ?Maang bharna and ....Voila.. they are now a married couple... Thtz absurd and pathetic and making fun of the rituals....


Agree with you buddy😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: evasumi

Kesha agree with your point..

by Filling Geet's Maang that day Maan just made her his but he still respects the aspect and tradition of marriage and that is why he has asked her that he needs to keep his distance till they are accepted by family and society.. He does not want any bad reputation for her.
and that is why he asked her officially if she would marry her and he is making arrangement for that..
The first most thing he did is to take her to Dadima and ask for the blessings.. But because of this NT's emergency dadima and he had to leave.. But MSK will make his uttermost priority to make Geet his lawfully wedded wife.. once he knows that she is not going to be affected by NT's aligetions and meanwhile he will keep her near and won't let any harm come to her..
The same thing he did at Manali... He could have gone ahead.. but no he did not as he respected Geet too much to take advantage of her. They will have to Keep him that way.. MSK walks in the path of truth and integrity and he will not cross his boundaries till he makes Geet his lawfully wedded wife... He is not miles apart then his brother....

I hope thtz what they show... a proper wedding whether its proper rituals or civil ceromony... but needs to be legalised... and that cant happen by just filling someone's maang...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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well they are talking about official marriage i don't think they are trying to play with any religion and tradition
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think they will have to show it that way..
Geet has been cheated by his brother and his wife and now she is going to be unwedded mom..
MSK never ever do the same thing to Geet. He totally wants to legalize his relationship with her so that the baby also would be legitimate.
He will honor their relationship by full fledge rituals or civil ceremony.
If he thinks that Geet needs that from him he will go for civil ceremony and may wait for ritual so that he can give Geet full satisfaction of being married to him in the best way..
He will not take away the joy of being his bride from Geet..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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idk about that but maaneet 4ever
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Posted: 14 years ago
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agree..They showed it as a high point in the show and now Maan and Geet are behaving like it had no significance other than that it meant that marriage is their next step..I mean that was MARRIAGE!..if you want to do it with all rituals ..than fine but dont show scenes like"kya tum mujhse shaadi karogi,..mein tumse shaadi karna chahta hoon,,..hamari shaadi kaise ho sakti hai"etc etc..maybe not proper marriage but it was marriage..filling maang is a BIG thing..we dont go around filling people's maang just to ask them that"will you marrry me?"!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bul3

agree..They showed it as a high point in the show and now Maan and Geet are behaving like it had no significance other than that it meant that marriage is their next step..I mean that was MARRIAGE!..if you want to do it with all rituals ..than fine but dont show scenes like"kya tum mujhse shaadi karogi,..mein tumse shaadi karna chahta hoon,,..hamari shaadi kaise ho sakti hai"etc etc..maybe not proper marriage but it was marriage..filling maang is a BIG thing..we dont go around filling people's maang just to ask them that"will you marrry me?"!!

Again... thtz not correct........ infact some hindu castes dont even have maang filling as a ritual..
and my caste is one of them..
I am a hindu.. married.. (3 different times.. to the same person😕😆😆) and Maang filling is important in some traditions but does not... i repeat does not mean they are married by just filling the maang. Infact the legal system does not recognise it as a marriage.
There are more significant rituals that need to be followed to legalise a Hindu wedding.. so if Maan has asked Geet's hand in marriage... I applaud the CVs for not making fun of Hindu traditions and actually showing that Maang Bharna signifies a a bond but not legalised marriage.. In fact if there is no sindoor ceromony but the other things like Pheras and Kanyadan has been done then its still legalised in Indian constitution and legal system... and not the other way round..
Unfotunately we have seen time and again in Indian televison and films showing this Maang Bharna as be all and end-all of legalised marriage... I am glad that Geet is not showing the same...
Edit: BTW the reason it was shown as high point in the show cos it showed the world that Maan is with Geet and fully commited to her... it showed that Maan wants Geet in his this life and beyond.. its showed that Maan is there for Geet always...
Edited by kesha2412 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: happygolucky

Hey guys


I am totally offended by the makers of Geet by making fun of mang bharo scene. Mang bharana is an important part of hindu marraige, its almost like shaadi. Kal ko phero ke baad yeh bolenge ki they are not still married. My pov, no offence😊




I agree with your POV. Yes, maang bharo is very important step in hindu marriage and I believe once boy fills up the maang of a girl...it considered they are married ...now a days CVs are making fun of this rasm..in Pavitra Rishta Manav fill up Shravani Maang and then doesn't marry her. Even though we know Hindu marriage is completed with varmala and saat/four phera around the agani...we cannot deny the importance of sindoor. CV's should not show all these rasms without any reason.It hurts our feelings. We were so happy Maaaneet are married and here they are not...I would have been OK if Maan would have said I have accepted you as my wife but I want to legalize this marriage for society sake by doing shaadi with all the rasams.
CV's did the same thing with their 1st engagement also...we had to see 4 engagements I hope we don't have to see 4 shaadi this time...I hope Maaneet get married soon.😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i'm not hindu and i got offened wht a perfect way to elad us to teh deed
and stupid cvs denied us taht

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