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delhigirl thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: S.Stephy

I feel Geet not wanting Maan's help should not be equated to Geet not loving Maan. Geet wanting/not wanting Maan's help basically should not affect their love.
So Maan should necessarily not get hurt or angry when Geet says she doesn't require his help. If he does, it just indicates that his ego is coming in between.



Geet has an ego as big as maan. Has anyone ever thought that how it must feel to maan when she keeps saying that? I feel the hurt reflected in his eyes every time she says that. It is childish of geet to keep saying that to him all the time.

I have been through a similar situation where i did something for someone near to me. In the end that person threw it in my face that it was nothing big deal and humiliated my whole family in the worst possible way. so i can tell you how it feels . I am not saying that someone should feel grateful to that person for the rest of their life, but i do feet that that person deserves your respect and love for selfless actions. And the way geet is showing is certainly not the way.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: delhigirl

I finally saw the episode. I can't believe that Geet did this again. Maan saved her life a third time and pushed her away. He did not say anything humiliating to her excpet that everyone should continue to party. But then she wants to go and talk to him, good gesture. Maan here was quite controlled, even told her to go home.

And again she flings on his face that she does not need his help, after he again saved her life. To maan this has always felt like she does not need him and he is not important to her. Geet destroyed him again. Geet is a woman who is cruel to her love. This was like takling a knife again and twisting it in his heart.
In reaction he decided to dance with the girl and he was not enjoying one bit.
Now to the part of his being rough in the dance with geet, I am amazed that he actually took her away from the dance floor and showed his anger in private. I am not saying that he should not have been gentle but geet is absolutely responsible for the state he is in.
I wish that he just walks away from her tomorrow. This episode was not a one-sided fault.


I agree with you
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: S.Stephy

I feel Geet not wanting Maan's help should not be equated to Geet not loving Maan. Geet wanting/not wanting Maan's help basically should not affect their love.
So Maan should necessarily not get hurt or angry when Geet says she doesn't require his help. If he does, it just indicates that his ego is coming in between.



Will you not feel the same way when your spouse tells you he/she does not need you? Isn't that a minimum expected by anyone from their partner? Why is it termed ego and stamped to be a wrong? If you do not rely on your partner, then there is no point in making a relationship with him/her. I think Maan is fully justified in feeling hurt when Geet so bluntly tells him she does not need him or his help. It actually goes on to show that she does not trust him or his love. How can you love someone without actually trusting them enough to rely on them?
Edited by sksg - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Seriously? MAAN is the one who called Geet to the party. All Geet wanted is to know the reason why he called her there. He purposely was dancing around with that female to make her jealous and react. When she finally wants to LEAVE he finds her only to assault her. You think that Geet should have just allowed him to behave like that and not slap him? And he was rude to her publicly so many times. Remember he dragged her out of the office, didn't care when Arhana was insulting Geet, and said that "the circus is over" when she was saved. If that's not public humiliation then I don't know what is.

Yep, Geet has her faults too, but Maan's behavior is not justified.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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When has geet ever said to maan that she loves him. We all criticize maan for not saying the 3 golden words. But has geet said that. Even when she gave him taveez, she said I want to tie you in a relationship and he rook that seriously. He has valued her in his life. But when the time came to blindly trust him, she could not and went on a path to prove to him that she does not need him. I wish she showed to the world what she can do but not to him. How can she do that to a selfless man like maan.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: delhigirl

When has geet ever said to maan that she loves him. We all criticize maan for not saying the 3 golden words. But has geet said that. Even when she gave him taveez, she said I want to tie you in a relationship and he rook that seriously. He has valued her in his life. But when the time came to blindly trust him, she could not and went on a path to prove to him that she does not need him. I wish she showed to the world what she can do but not to him. How can she do that to a selfless man like maan.



Maan definately isn't selfless. 😛 He surely didnt blindly trust Geet even when he promised to stand by her. Remember when she revealed that she's pregnant? He behaved so badly with her after that. Basically, both of them made the SAME mistakes in trusting each other. The only thing is that today's behavior crossed all limits.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: noodles



Maan definately isn't selfless. 😛 He surely didnt blindly trust Geet even when he promised to stand by her. Remember when she revealed that she's pregnant? He behaved so badly with her after that. Basically, both of them made the SAME mistakes in trusting each other. The only thing is that today's behavior crossed all limits.



accepting her with respect was an absolute selfless thing to do. And even if he was upset he protected her and her pregnancy from the entire world. He showed his anger and the words he used in private . People on the office knew that something was wrong but he did not once made that apparent to anyone even to his dadi. what he did no man on this earth will do. Not to mention that he saved her life 3 tea now. And when she is not able to trust h she abuses him publicly. When we are talking about abuse for geet, why do we forget that geet abused him at that time.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yeap totally right but everyone is after maan bashing him.cvz have became full anti of maan i don't know what he did to them.i just love maan feel like crying what he has become and his pain is too much huge can't handle
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I hold geet resposible for ruining a good man, his principles and character. Pushed him into what he is today
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Posted: 14 years ago
#20
their reacting to each other without thinking.
Maan did not deserve a slap, however he was pushing her..
she could have pushed him away and screamed, but i guess they wanted her to slap him.

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