i disagree regarding todays episode

nandinivarma1

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Posted: 14 years ago

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[Maan definately isn't selfless. 😛 He surely didnt blindly trust Geet even when he promised to stand by her. Remember when she revealed that she's pregnant? He behaved so badly with her after that. Basically, both of them made the SAME mistakes in trusting each other. The only thing is that today's behavior crossed all limits.

i agree with u...he is not selfless...remember he did not believe geet first when she said dev was the person who cheated her...remember he said it cannot be and geet's look of anguish at that time...only bcos then dev came at that time and told it is true he believed it...and remember so far he has not told geet anything about his own past...if we r to believe dadi, that past has great significance to the way he behaves...truth and trust are important to him, but he will not reveal his truth...she told him everything in her life even if it meant locking him up...and remember how upset he was when everybody were telling about the sach in the hospital..he even discharged himself forcefully to ask geet wat it was...but does he not owe the same courtesy to do the same to her...he never gives out any details about his own family, his past, his life...his love is one way...take all and give nothing away...all these pbms were created bcos of this character...had he told her about his family and brothers, geet would have known about dev earlier...even nt when she comes to office he hides geet and talks to nt alone...even now he has not told her anything about his parents or younger brother or his ex love....

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Inaya Haya

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Posted: 14 years ago

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I think it's a matter of perspectives ... he's definitely hurt, no doubt. And it's Geet fault, again no doubt there.

BUT - I think, all this could be taken away if Maan were to swallow his pride and just TELL her that he didn't do it for his bro, that his bro was out on bail coz of dadi, and that he still loves her. She'll melt. The misunderstanding, which Geet doesn't realize is a misunderstanding, still remains. And Maan is the ONLY person who knows that she misunderstood the issue. But his pride won't let him clear it. ANd I can understand that too. I would've reacted initially, the same way Maan did. If someone I loved and was going to marry told me they loved and trusted me, and then decided to not believe my actions and think of a foul intention behind them, I'd be very hurt too.

That said - Geet WAS insulted today. From the beginning of this week, when he called her there, he's been stonewalling her and giving her the cold shoulder. When she tried to tell him she got the file, he shut her up right away. That was rude. When she tried to talk to him, he deliberately ignored her, that was rude too. But mostly, he was deliberately flirting with the other girl, and he even stated that he'd do so for her benefit. So he IS doing it to prove a point, except his point is hurting Geet.

As for the public insult - if you deliberately flirt with other girls, or dance with them, in front of your ex ... who btw is only a few days old of an ex ... you're making a very very very public statement. I understand his p ain, and I understand her pain. I don't think anyone is at fault.

And I tthink they're both hurting each other - whether advertantly or inadvertantly.

But I don't think she was at fault here today at all. She came coz he called her, she knew something would be up. She fell, he took her out, but he did snub her pretty publicly ... he did leave her dripping, like a wet rag, and push her aside. All this was in public, and trust me, if I push someone away, in public, the other person WILL be insulted. And add to it that it's an ex, who's still in love.

But, again, it's a matter of perspective.

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Inaya Haya

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Posted: 14 years ago

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BTW - I feel the slap was very much warranted FOR THAT SCENE ONLY. Not because of their past, not because of any other jealousy instigating act, not coz of any other exchange of words ... but merely coz the guy wasn't letting her go, and she kept saying to let go, and she genuinely looked hurt, but he wasn't letting go.

So, to make him let her go, she had to stop it. And I think if ANY MAN manhandled me like that, whether in anger or not, I'd want to slap them. Given that fact that it is someone who once promised to protect her, and is the epitome of discipline and principals ... he shoulda known better.

I, again, can see his pain and what's driving him to this, and see hers too.

The CVs are doing a good job. I don't think we should point fingers at anyone, the track is slow, but moving along. The slap was warranted by teh scene preceding it, IMHO. But to each his own.

Let's enjoy the show.

-S

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dolly fernandes

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Posted: 14 years ago

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This time MAAN was totally wrong. I really felt pity for GEET. This was not the way to behave and take revenge on Geet and huring her. How she was pleading him to leave her and that salp was really good👏to bring him back to his senses. But that MAAN.........🥺 i don't understand which evil spirit is entered his body. Next is ....geet should leave the place and never see him again ( i mean disapper ) than you see how MAAN will be missing her and will sorry for his deeds.

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JanakiSatish

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Posted: 14 years ago

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yeah .. u r right. why cant geet get her senses right. cant she even imagine anything beyond her humiliation. cant she see his eyes. there were tears many a times. why cant she feel now?? she is totally in the wrong.

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basicquestion1

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: nandinivarma1
[Maan definately isn't selfless. 😛 He surely didnt blindly trust Geet even when he promised to stand by her. Remember when she revealed that she's pregnant? He behaved so badly with her after that. Basically, both of them made the SAME mistakes in trusting each other. The only thing is that today's behavior crossed all limits.

i agree with u...he is not selfless...remember he did not believe geet first when she said dev was the person who cheated her...remember he said it cannot be and geet's look of anguish at that time...only bcos then dev came at that time and told it is true he believed it...and remember so far he has not told geet anything about his own past...if we r to believe dadi, that past has great significance to the way he behaves...truth and trust are important to him, but he will not reveal his truth...she told him everything in her life even if it meant locking him up...and remember how upset he was when everybody were telling about the sach in the hospital..he even discharged himself forcefully to ask geet wat it was...but does he not owe the same courtesy to do the same to her...he never gives out any details about his own family, his past, his life...his love is one way...take all and give nothing away...all these pbms were created bcos of this character...had he told her about his family and brothers, geet would have known about dev earlier...even nt when she comes to office he hides geet and talks to nt alone...even now he has not told her anything about his parents or younger brother or his ex love....

".remember he did not believe geet first when she said dev was the person who cheated her...remember he said it cannot be..."

i'm just going to answer this qoute of ur's ...

when some1 told me that my dad died...i said"it cannot be" not because i was not trusting the person who told me that BUT because it's not something i wish it was true.

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Anamika

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: delhigirl
When has geet ever said to maan that she loves him. We all criticize maan for not saying the 3 golden words. But has geet said that. Even when she gave him taveez, she said I want to tie you in a relationship and he rook that seriously. He has valued her in his life. But when the time came to blindly trust him, she could not and went on a path to prove to him that she does not need him. I wish she showed to the world what she can do but not to him. How can she do that to a selfless man like maan.

We live in a male dominated society and the indian cultural values mostly stop women from saying the three little words before they hear it from their men. Woman expect men to take the first step forward. When she put the Taveez on Mann's neck she says that she wants to tie him in a relationship for life (indirectly she is hinding on Marriage) and when Mann puts the jewelry on her he says there would be nothing fake (he saying the engagement and their relationship would be a true one). But when you see and hear something like what Geet overheard or seen it is quite natural for her to doubt Mann considering the circumstances. Mann should have told her that he is getting Dev bailed out for Dadima's sake before doing so or when Geet came to Khurana Mansion... but he did not. He could have offered an explanation when she asked for it (Why are you marrying me)... again he preferred not to say anything but went on counting the favors he did for her.

I am not saying Geet is not without fault (she should not have talked in front of all or declared that she would not marry him without hearing what Mann had to say) but considering the situation I find Mann more at fault. He could have just said that he is marrying her because he loved her and that would have ended all the problems.

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mechantefille

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: delhigirl
I finally saw the episode. I can't believe that Geet did this again. Maan saved her life a third time and pushed her away. He did not say anything humiliating to her excpet that everyone should continue to party. But then she wants to go and talk to him, good gesture. Maan here was quite controlled, even told her to go home.
And again she flings on his face that she does not need his help, after he again saved her life. To maan this has always felt like she does not need him and he is not important to her. Geet destroyed him again. Geet is a woman who is cruel to her love. This was like takling a knife again and twisting it in his heart.

In reaction he decided to dance with the girl and he was not enjoying one bit.

Now to the part of his being rough in the dance with geet, I am amazed that he actually took her away from the dance floor and showed his anger in private. I am not saying that he should not have been gentle but geet is absolutely responsible for the state he is in.

I wish that he just walks away from her tomorrow. This episode was not a one-sided fault.

Sure it wasn't one-sided fault....etc...

But darling he toh danced to show her that he's enjoying life to make her JEALOUS n feel hurt naaa. He wants her to be as hurt as he is. 💔

The ONE reason her called her to the party was to humilaite her n show her that she's worthless n unimportant n that he proved by pushing her, calling her a circus show, dancing with some other chick, ignoring her, and humiliating her in private.

Also, he didn't TAKE her in private; he followed her when she was leaving frm the dance floor cuz her heart was broken yet again. If i recall, while pushing n pulling her around, he said, ''doesn't matter if anyone sees us...ur getting wat u want aren't u?''

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mechantefille

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: Anamika1570

Stop idolizing the Mann Character and giving justifications for his behavior even when he does something wrong. Put yourself in Geet's shoes and see if your Boyfriend behaved to you in this manner would you like it. Just because it is Mann does not mean that he is always right. What he did was unforgivable. He did not even consider the condition she was in. She is not his private property and No lady deserves to be treated this way.

You say 'Geet should express her love and trust in the right way'. Think again ... She came when he called her, tried to talk to him despite of his insults and rude behavior. She even asked him 'why he is humiliating himself and doing things which his mind does not give permission to' because she understands his love and concern for her (But she cannot forgive and go to him because she still thinks Mann wanted to marry her because of Dev and Mann did nothing to clear her misunderstanding). Mann is the one who is behaving like a spoiled brat. Do you really think that Mann is expressing his love in the right manner? Violence and abuse is not the answer to anything.

Well said , girlfriend!

Also, Maan needs o understand that he's seriously is not the only one who can get angry......spoilt he is n he needs a lesson or a wake-up slap to comprehend the concept of humility. Just cus Geet doesn't throw attitude around n treat ppl like shit, she ranks higher in the mentally fit category. She knows why she's doing what? She's using her head too despite her pain! Go girl.

Maan needs more than a week's timeout. A longer dip in the pool to blow some steam and get his thoughts adjusted!

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