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Originally posted by: jazzerette
You know....even in the most realistic and harshest of the situations there are ppl standing with you. Maybe someone not as uncondionationally loving and supportive as Maan ....but one does have someone around. Think about it....see around. It's not possible to win life's battles alone. God always sends someone to aid you in you struggles.And having that someone around in no way means that you are not a strong person. A girl can wage her own battles and still have supportive ppl around without being called weak.If not Maan...then what?? Now Geet will probably go work with Yash...they'l be shown as frnds....and frnds support each other...rt?? Say Geet goes to a lawyer to fight her case.....that lawyer is a positive character...he does everything possible to help geet...that too comes in the ambit of helping-geet...rt?? Any person who comes in your path in the fight for justice and eventually becomes a catalyst in your fight....is a helping-hand!!I agree that god always send some one to help U but how much ever he sends some one to help you ... the emotional support or the love & care of the loved one is different ... if we have some one like that in our life ... our problems will become very less ... even negligible sometimes & we get the courage that we can face the world ... what ever may happen .... & over here if we see geet was always being protected by maan ... when ever she was in problem ... it was maan who was always by her side ... now when geet is fighting this war ... he is not their with her ... her back bone is missing ... now she has to first come to terms with that aspect also ... that the man whom she always trusted is not their by her side ...it's not that other's like yash /lawyer whom she will be appointing will be their by her side ... still she will be having them ... but maan whom she wants to be with at this moment is missing from the scene ...This is the case of most of the young girls who are not living with their parents or are away from them say for example in a different country ... where they are no family memebers & friends & when they have any problems ... their is no one to even share ur problems you have to struggle on your own ... in the beginning some may come & say that they will help you ... but later on they also will leave you to struggle ... trust me it's not so easy ... I know many who have suffered like this .....Being alone and showing a strong Geet is fyn...but she could have been with Maan and be a stronger Geet...coming to geet ... it would have been very nice if maan would be there by her side & given her the emotional support she needed .....
To show her independent they did not need to stampede over Maaneet's relation!!!
that's wht my point was earlier ..."If they wanted to show it this way .... didn't they find any other option than to break their relationship in this way ...."If they wanted to show that geet has to be strong they did not have to do this to their relationship ....
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