Ego or Love ?????

Originally posted by: dewdropred

Girls .... one doubt ...

should ego surpass the love You have for each other ....

when u r in love ... how can u let ego / misunderstandings come in between ..... if any such type of things does come in also ... will u not try to atleast clear them .... instead of clearing them .... do u think walking away is the best solution .... & when u are confronting each other ... don't u all think it is necessary to give each other chance to talk ... than just speak what u have to say & walk off from there ... how much correct is this ...

The first & foremost thing in a relationship is trust ... if trust is not there how can love be there ... without trust will love be their in any relationship ...after trust next respect .... if u do not respect your life partner / fiancee ... how can ur relationship grow ...

In real life ... if any such incident happens I know we all would surely go & would actually try to reason out or else find out the actual truth .... after knowing how much the person loves you & what not had done for you ... over hearing a small line affects your relationship that much ... that u lose all senses & do what u might regret later on ...

Anger is the sole reason for marring any relationship ... if u cannot control ur anger then you will mess up the relationship ... what is the use in crying over spilled milk once the damage is done ....

so here I guess .... the CV's are trying to show that these two know very little about love ... they both love each other a lot but what they know about each other is not enough ... & their love really needs to grow even more .... for that ... They need to come out of all the negativity they have in them ... they need to leave their Ego .... anger ... & make a new start ... learn to respect each other ... think before you act ....

Girls I don't know whether my post sounded any sense ... let me know ... whether u all agree or not ....

geet knowing wht maan had done for her .... should ahve actually thought ... why would maan do it ....

how can that happen ... when u know each other so well & U can sense each other's sadness / happiness in their eyes ... how come 1 small misunderstanding creates such a big rift ... how come u both are not ready to listen to each other & how come ego came in between when u have to say the truth .... Do U expect them to understand U at all times .... is that like asking for some thing which is next to impossible ...

plz let me know what ever i wrote did it make any sense ...

A relationship which had reached a different level between Maneet and made a place in the heart of the audience.....definitley required a different treatment by the CVs...All long they had been harping on " Truth and Trust ".......Instead they should have set the stage for EQUALITY and and Geet's independance ...not play with our and Maan's emotion..........there were hundreds of other ways .....EGO ( one is always confused between self respect and Ego ) .........but was this the cost to be paid ?..I loved the honesty and divinity of their love which was full of it's share of ups and downs.....but this one is uncalled for.....as they say a glass once broken can be fixed but the scar remains.....regardless that in week / month's time Swati will again get them back as per her plan.....to me it feels that atleast I would always remember the scar....dont know about the story tellers. ...................Maneet needed to stand together and face the Dev / Khurana Izzat situation.....Geet would have anyways joined Yash because of her promise and eventually become an independant woman.

Originally posted by: dewdropred

but 1 thing came into my mind .... are the CV's actually planning to show that Geet actually has to fight this war alone without maan's help ... & to show us how strong a girl can be ... if u c ... geet is like a role model for so many girls whose life is close to geet ... & all these girls may not have a maan in their lifes ... so for all those girls ... do the CV's want to show geet can do some thing by her self even without maan's help ...

If they wanted to show it this way .... didn't they find any other option than to break their relationship in this way ....

Originally posted by: jazzerette

I have been ranting on similar lines since last night...I don't have the stamina anymore. So'll just quote what I wrote in my post.

This is just not done!!

Yes many times before Geet has levied unnecessary accusations at Maan and many times Maan has gone over-board with his anger. But today was the heights!!!

Maaneet, their love ..it was supposed to stand the test of time. To show misunderstandings between them or to show separation ...i agree...demands of story....but to bring them to a level where they shook the very foundation of their love is questionable!!!

Yes Geet has been scorched very badly by Dev-NT. It makes a person wary of ever trusting someone again. And if they do come around to trust and love someone again ..they tend to act irrationally insecure. But what the CVs showed today was beyond even irrationality....it was insanity. Irrationality can still be expected...however they way the Maaneet bond was developed in the show especially after the engagement fiasco.....insanity of this magnitude was not expected.

Any other sitauation could have been shown to bring in the separation track...to justify yash's entry, but not this.

This was a time where they should be standing together...facing the world together. Tomorrow they will be united...yes we have no doubts about that....but looking back on this memory they'll always find that their loved lacked when it was called upon to prove its worth the most. The period of their life which should have been the stepping stone of their lives...their love will become a bitter episode forever.

CVs soiled a beautiful relation by bringing in unwanted elements in the show....dadi's character took a u-turn, bringing in the marriage track (when the media could have been handled in a different way...rather than showing an impulsive maan) and finally maan releasing dev on bail without informing geet first (again uncharacteristic of maan...a person who is shown with a keen sense of right and wrong).

Maaneet meant a lot to me. To see them together was to strengthen our faith in love...in the divine. Geet's promises...Maan's assurances ....it was supposed to be meta-physical. Today's episode lessened them in a way.

And yes it breaks my heart to see them this way.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/geet-hui-sabse-parayee/1523277/this-is-not-done