Debate: The Ethics of Carrying A Rapist's Child

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Interesting!

We've all debated across the board for the "BABY" as "CENTRAL" to the story.

We've argued our points left, right, and center. Haven't we?

We've made a case for keeping the baby.

We've written reams on it--advocating the baby's existence.

Now comes another diversion to this topic.

Keep aside all these so-called pleasantries and our fascination with rosy cheeks, dimple chins, eyes so blue, and all that jazz and the general enchantment or bewitchment of cuddling babies and motherly feelings kicking up, let me don the Devil's advocacy here.

The baby track at the end of the day is only a cinematic and dramatic tool or device to show the following:

1- How Geet reacts to it
2- How her family reacts to it
3- How society reacts to it
4- How Maan reacts to it
5- How Daadi reacts to it
6- How NT reacts to it
7- How Dev reacts to it

And ultimately, point number 8, how we as viewers react to it.

That is all there is to it.

But look at it from a realistic and pragmatic viewpoint.

Would we ask that an 18-yr old girl who is our sister, or daughter to retain her rapist's child?

Would we ask a sexual assault victim to keep her child?

Would we ask a gang rape victim to keep her child?

Would we ask a defenseless woman to keep her rapist's child?

Would we ask a woman who herself is nothing but a child or at best a teenager to keep her rapist's child?

Would we encourage any 18yr. old to keep their rapists child? Or even for that matter a much older woman who is raped to keep her rapist's child.

These questions are important to those that want to look at society from a broad perspective and NOT from narrow compartments of contained or coerced thought..

~ Thanks

Postscript: Let's not rehash the arguments!! As per Indian Penal Code as well as law in California Statute, what DEV did to GEET is legally termed as RAPE!

Secondly, to all the previous posters in such threads, this is the third thread on this baby track we have dealt and each one has been dealt on different grounds, and I had informed you then that this thread will be made in future, so I am coming good on my promise. Let's not keep on repeating the same old-same old-same old in all the threads. Add comments ONLY if you have something NEW to add and make a case to the EXACT and SPECIFIC points made on this post.

Otherwise you can please refer to the other posts that are provided herewith:

Abortion/Planned Parenthood: The Flip Side of the Pregnancy Debate

In Support of the Pregnancy Track


Caution: Updated in Page 3 also:

One CAUTION to all those posters who are trying to quote from my previous posts or tie-in my beliefs here. I think you are forgetting the first tenet of debate and sharing views.

I AM NOT ON TRIAL HERE
This is NOT about my beliefs
This is NOT about me

And secondly,

YOU are also NOT on trial here
IT is NOT about your beliefs either
It is NOT about YOU

Finally,

It is about the SERIAL
IT is about the STORY
It is about the BABY track being a cinematic and dramatic device

It is about the EUGENIC grounds and the ETHICS of CARRYING/RETAINING a Rapist's CHILD

So let's keep conscience calls, moral posturings, dubious personal attacks and personal feelings out of this debate and let's stick to the topic on hand from a rational, objective perspective and if you CANNOT debate from that perspective, you might as well avoid this topic.

- Thanks
Bri

Further Clarifications: The baby track can still be used as a cinematic/dramatic tool/device in future with it's parentage coming into questioning and it becoming a bone of contention between Maan and Dev in future after it's birth in terms of property as well as parentage. -- so this is not about the BABY track continuation either. It is about the here and the now.

Additional Note: Talk from the Victim's perspective NOT from some notion that this is a pro-life/pro-choice debate. That has already been dealt with in the Abortion post, the link of which is provided above. - thanks

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Posted: 14 years ago
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excellent bud....👍🏼
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I don't really understand this post? Geet wasn't raped. I know what Dev did was awful, but what he did was definitely not rape.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: noopurarora

I don't really understand this post? Geet wasn't raped. I know what Dev did was awful, but what he did was definitely not rape.

*sigh* It's in the indian penal code. what dev did was RAPE. need proof, i'll PROVIDE!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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In my opinion, it should be totally would be mother's choice whether to keep the baby or not. Noone should force their opinions on her. Ofcourse they can tell her what pros and cons are of being a teenage, single mother but the choice should ultimately lie with the mother.
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anyway, awesome post bri! right now, can't type but will be back with my answers! 😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: cooldude10

*sigh* It's in the indian penal code. what dev did was RAPE. need proof, i'll PROVIDE!



u gooooooooooooo bud😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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thanx....for opening an interesting post...i have given this angle a thought too....well...fact n fiction are just not related....so...reality would be different than show ...
Then again, it all depends upon the girl's decision..although i would have some concern about an 18 year old traumatised girls decision..but still in the end it all depends on her will...whether she wants to keep it or not....
Keeping it will raise uncountable..unimagined problems...thats a certainity...not keeping will make life easy..also in future there might be some hope of a new start..
Also bringing the child in this world is not the most important issue...bigger than that is the environment which it will be received in....the upbringing..what kind of life will the child be given when it is being raised by an outcast 18 yr old single mother of limited means..and no family support either...
but then again there are emotional n morality issues involved here...some believe that an innocent childs life should not be taken...some might argue...a mother has a right to live happily in this world too...some might say the life that has not taken shape is important..and some might state that life that already exists and the shape it takes is vital.....
As far as this show is concerned...we all have supported the mother n child coz that was her wish ..and who doesn't like heroes (Geet is a hero )...in .reality...if its someone in know....i will definitely try to present the true picture of the issues she will face..( and that will be very discouraging )
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: anshimanshi

In my opinion, it should be totally would be mother's choice whether to keep the baby or not. Noone should force their opinions on her. Ofcourse they can tell her what pros and cons are of being a teenage, single mother but the choice should ultimately lie with the mother.


i completely agree with you.. mother should make the decision.. elders should give her guidance and mentoring.. but the final decision should be the mother's..

initially while watching HP episodes, even i wanted Geet to terminate her pregnancy.. but seeing how she wanted to keep it and stood up to her family for her baby, now i support her..


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: bDgT

Interesting!

We've all debated across the board for the "BABY" as "CENTRAL" to the story.

We've argued our points left, right, and center. Haven't we?

We've made a case for keeping the baby.

We've written reams on it--advocating the baby's existence.

Now comes another diversion to this topic.

Keep aside all these so-called pleasantries and our fascination with rosy cheeks, dimple chins, eyes so blue, and all that jazz and the general enchantment or bewitchment of cuddling babies and motherly feelings kicking up, let me don the Devil's advocacy here.

The baby track at the end of the day is only a cinematic and dramatic tool or device to show the following:

1- How Geet reacts to it
2- How her family reacts to it
3- How society reacts to it
4- How Maan reacts to it
5- How Daadi reacts to it
6- How NT reacts to it
7- How Dev reacts to it

And ultimately, point number 8, how we as viewers react to it.

That is all there is to it.

But look at it from a realistic and pragmatic viewpoint.

Would we ask that an 18-yr old girl who is our sister, or daughter to retain her rapist's child?

Would we ask a sexual assault victim to keep her child?

Would we ask a gang rape victim to keep her child?

Would we ask a defenseless woman to keep her rapist's child?

Would we ask a woman who herself is nothing but a child or at best a teenager to keep her rapist's child?

Would we encourage any 18yr. old to keep their rapists child? Or even for that matter a much older woman who is raped to keep her rapist's child.

These questions are important to those that want to look at society from a broad perspective and NOT from colored glasses.

~ Thanks

I think the simple and sensible approach is that we don't encourage or discourage it.
By law you are deemed an adult by 18, so therefore it is her prerogative.
As for the character Geet, she has already decided that the child is hers and therefore will be born.
Completely her decision.
The viewpoint of family, society, Dev, Naintara, Maan and even the doorman becomes irrelavent.
It's what the mother is compfy with at the end of the day.
Although....
I think the real question is, was Geet raped or not by Dev?
I personally think she was, however some will disagree.

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