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The 12 Edicts of LOVE By Who-Says-Never
When a pin pricks you, do you scream in horror and do you cry out loud? Well! That is Natural! Right!
When you trip and sprain your leg, does it hurt? Do you want someone to relieve you off that pain? Don't you want someone to come and help you? Don't you want to lean on that said person's shoulder and walk to your seat? Well, of course! That is natural!
When your mother gives you a warm hug when you failed in that all important Math exam, does it not make you feel warm and want to perform better next time? Well, of course! That is natural!
When you look at your child that you conceived, wouldn't you want to stop her from causing herself harm? Well, of course, that is natural!
When you climb a tree or pick the weeds, and see the clean garden or the fruits of your labor, don't you feel a sense of achievement? Well, why not? It is after all a measure of your hard work and well, that's but natural!
When you cook a meal and no one eats it, don't you feel morbid? Well, of course, that again is natural!
When someone plays the blame game and you feel that you have been unnecessarily blamed, don't you feel anger? Well, of course, that is so natural!
When you are standing with that shining star on your certificates, you scream in delight? Well, of course, that it but natural!
When you are slow to be in the uptake, someone tells you to speedup and then you catchup, don't you feel elated? Well, of course, that is too natural!
When you are bored, you try to find something to do, and then do it, you feel accomplished. Well, of course, that is natural!
When you are looking at the smile of your toddler, you smile too. Well, of course, that is but natural!
When someone hums a tune, you try to recall if you know it? Well, of course, that is natural!
All these emotions of anger, sadness, pain, remorse, elation, excitement, accomplishment, fulfillment, and so many other emotions are ALL OKAY to be FELT if ONE IS PREGNANT, or ABANDONED, RIGHT? Answer me!
SO, how come you want to target to your poison darts the one emotion called LOVE to some moral standard?
Does a mother not love her child whatever the condition of her child?
What exactly is wrong with our thinking that we want to put LOVE on a moral high ground where pregnancy or some past should not be a factor for LOVE to GROW but be a factor for it to RECEDE or VANISH?
LOVE is something that CANNOT DIMINISH or BE TARNISHED by anything, no matter what it is.
And why do you make Geet's pregnancy a moral ground for your judgment calls. She is NOT supposed to LOVE if SHE IS PREGNANT, IS IT?! WHAOW!
Where do you come from with such thinking? Have you ever thought how much she is involved with her child already and how much she loves her child already?
So you are giving her an option or a multiple choice:
1) Either murder your love for your child and opt for Maan
Or
2) Either murder your love for Maan and opt for your child
Those are not 2 different options, those are both equally death. Those are a single thing, for her Maan and her child are both important. Both are a part of her. They are like her two eyes. Do you want her to blind herself in one eye and sacrifice it for the other? You want to deny her, her right to sight too?
Come on, open your minds and hearts.. get out of the morass of decadent thinking.
Smell the coffee, the roses and scent of rain on hot baked earth.
LOVE is as NATURAL a FEELING as ANGER, PAIN or the OTHER FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS!
Additional Comments:
I hate all these people who are criticizing Geet for falling in love so soon...
Excuse me, she did not FALL In LOVE, she LOVES! There is a difference. He has a place in her heart, call it love, call it devotion, call it what the hell ever!
Secondly, what is wrong if a woman seeks comfort, and beauty in a relationship with a man who has been her biggest pillar of strength or her Mount Everest.
Even at 40, it is hard to handle betrayal and emotions. And always/always one seeks a companion, someone who understands your pain and sadness and is there to wipe your tears or share your smiles.
And at 18 when you have not seen much of the world, or experienced anything in life except your mother's love, when your bubbly life has been crushed like petals under the callous feet of barbarians, what is wrong if she seeks the love of a man who is there for her unconditionally, unequivocally.
Never in a lifetime should we expect others to live up to our barometer of what we think is right or should be right.
All is fair in love!
There are some proponents to this theory that "GEET" should lose her baby, or miscarry just because she has to be with Maan? WTH?
Either these people do not value life or they think her struggle so far to fight her family, her life, her death, everything is meaningless! Such people should go and take a space walk by paying Branson for the Virgin Space Walk Program. Get real!
The whole reason for this serial's USP is Geet and her struggle to see that the life of the baby in her is protected against the society, against the family, against the betrayal. If some MAN, be it MAAN or someone else does not have the guts and gumption to stand by her, then more fool them!
Leave the CVs alone to develop their story without giving them full on faltoo ideas from some convoluted, archaic, pedantic mores!
When a pin pricks you, do you scream in horror and do you cry out loud? Well! That is Natural! Right!
When you trip and sprain your leg, does it hurt? Do you want someone to relieve you off that pain? Don't you want someone to come and help you? Don't you want to lean on that said person's shoulder and walk to your seat? Well, of course! That is natural!
When your mother gives you a warm hug when you failed in that all important Math exam, does it not make you feel warm and want to perform better next time? Well, of course! That is natural!
When you look at your child that you conceived, wouldn't you want to stop her from causing herself harm? Well, of course, that is natural!
When you climb a tree or pick the weeds, and see the clean garden or the fruits of your labor, don't you feel a sense of achievement? Well, why not? It is after all a measure of your hard work and well, that's but natural!
When you cook a meal and no one eats it, don't you feel morbid? Well, of course, that again is natural!
When someone plays the blame game and you feel that you have been unnecessarily blamed, don't you feel anger? Well, of course, that is so natural!
When you are standing with that shining star on your certificates, you scream in delight? Well, of course, that it but natural!
When you are slow to be in the uptake, someone tells you to speedup and then you catchup, don't you feel elated? Well, of course, that is too natural!
When you are bored, you try to find something to do, and then do it, you feel accomplished. Well, of course, that is natural!
When you are looking at the smile of your toddler, you smile too. Well, of course, that is but natural!
When someone hums a tune, you try to recall if you know it? Well, of course, that is natural!
All these emotions of anger, sadness, pain, remorse, elation, excitement, accomplishment, fulfillment, and so many other emotions are ALL OKAY to be FELT if ONE IS PREGNANT, or ABANDONED, RIGHT? Answer me!
SO, how come you want to target to your poison darts the one emotion called LOVE to some moral standard?
Does a mother not love her child whatever the condition of her child?
What exactly is wrong with our thinking that we want to put LOVE on a moral high ground where pregnancy or some past should not be a factor for LOVE to GROW but be a factor for it to RECEDE or VANISH?
LOVE is something that CANNOT DIMINISH or BE TARNISHED by anything, no matter what it is.
And why do you make Geet's pregnancy a moral ground for your judgment calls. She is NOT supposed to LOVE if SHE IS PREGNANT, IS IT?! WHAOW!
Where do you come from with such thinking? Have you ever thought how much she is involved with her child already and how much she loves her child already?
So you are giving her an option or a multiple choice:
1) Either murder your love for your child and opt for Maan
Or
2) Either murder your love for Maan and opt for your child
Those are not 2 different options, those are both equally death. Those are a single thing, for her Maan and her child are both important. Both are a part of her. They are like her two eyes. Do you want her to blind herself in one eye and sacrifice it for the other? You want to deny her, her right to sight too?
Come on, open your minds and hearts.. get out of the morass of decadent thinking.
Smell the coffee, the roses and scent of rain on hot baked earth.
LOVE is as NATURAL a FEELING as ANGER, PAIN or the OTHER FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS!
Additional Comments:
I hate all these people who are criticizing Geet for falling in love so soon...
Excuse me, she did not FALL In LOVE, she LOVES! There is a difference. He has a place in her heart, call it love, call it devotion, call it what the hell ever!
Secondly, what is wrong if a woman seeks comfort, and beauty in a relationship with a man who has been her biggest pillar of strength or her Mount Everest.
Even at 40, it is hard to handle betrayal and emotions. And always/always one seeks a companion, someone who understands your pain and sadness and is there to wipe your tears or share your smiles.
And at 18 when you have not seen much of the world, or experienced anything in life except your mother's love, when your bubbly life has been crushed like petals under the callous feet of barbarians, what is wrong if she seeks the love of a man who is there for her unconditionally, unequivocally.
Never in a lifetime should we expect others to live up to our barometer of what we think is right or should be right.
All is fair in love!
There are some proponents to this theory that "GEET" should lose her baby, or miscarry just because she has to be with Maan? WTH?
Either these people do not value life or they think her struggle so far to fight her family, her life, her death, everything is meaningless! Such people should go and take a space walk by paying Branson for the Virgin Space Walk Program. Get real!
The whole reason for this serial's USP is Geet and her struggle to see that the life of the baby in her is protected against the society, against the family, against the betrayal. If some MAN, be it MAAN or someone else does not have the guts and gumption to stand by her, then more fool them!
Leave the CVs alone to develop their story without giving them full on faltoo ideas from some convoluted, archaic, pedantic mores!
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