Measure of LOVE...

Agar mohabbat ko naapnay ka koee paimana ban jayay
tu wo bhi kam par jayay meri mohabbat kay aagay

this is how i would like to begin here Dol. I believe agar mohabbat karo tu toot kay karo. and as i read somewhere, your love for someone is like a plant. it needs nourishment in shape of expression. Whats the point in loving someone and not expressing. because, expression is the only way to convey your feelings. haan if medical science makes a love-o-meter which one can use to measure the love of someone else, phir tu izhaar ki zaroorat hi baqi na rahay. but as u said, Love can not be measured, i agree and say, it can only be expressed.

and so i say, every person should express their love.izhar jitna shadeed aur pyara ho ga, aitbaar utna hi zyada hoga. thats human nature, we need expression to believe. we cant change human nature. isi liyay i want to see geet express her love for maan ... i would never measure their love for each other, i will always feel it. and to feel it, i have to see it expressed. but i dont say she loves him less ... she just needs to learn to express. and that'll solve all problems 😳

array, did i really make some sense here .... o boy ... kya topic cher diya tum nay Dol .... i can go on and on and on ....

Loved ur post sweety .... lovely!!!

Originally posted by: Aaliya4Rafa

Well said :) Luv can never be measured, and no one should ever be asked to prove the depth of their luv. Indeed luv is beyond all measures and can never be explained, not even in words. It can only be understood through small gestures, read within the eyes, and felt by the touch of your beloved.

Maan is definitely an extremely an expressive individual, which is evident in the way he feels for Geet. You can sense how passionate he is abt her, even when he is angry with her. If he is like fire then Geet is like ice. She is cool in her approach to him and finds it more difficult to convey those inner feelings. But NO that does not mean she luvs him any less. Different pple express themselves in different ways.

Geet never had to prove anything, neither did she need to show her luv. That was something Maan finally understood and respected. Initially he wanted her to express what was really in her heart. But he later realized that what he wanted to hear, was something he could actually read in her eyes :)

Bravo!!!!!!
You put it much better than me....maybe you should have started this thread :-)

^^ Nahin re. Don't say that :) There are a couple of people whose post I look out for on this forum, and you are one of them. Thumbs up!

Kash, my love...I am all for expressing love. And I feel the need. Remember our discussion about putting words to your feelings? Well I do...and I still hold my stand on that one. But my point is, if you don't express well, does it decrease the intensity of your love?

Waise loved the plant analogy and I totally agree with you on that one. :-)

OMG...did I just say I agree with you? Hope you didn't fall off your chair..LOL

Originally posted by: Aaliya4Rafa

^^ Nahin re. Don't say that :) There are a couple of people whose post I look out for on this forum, and you are one of them. Thumbs up!

Really? I'm truly honored :-)

..Ya rightly said.. Never try to measure the love as it will be disregard to the person who loves you infinitly....some feelins are better understood by silence of lips and negotiation of eyes..love is one of them..........

you're right either you love someone or you don't
i mean i can not express how much i love my family, and friends
yes they all annoy us sometimes but that does not mean you stop loving them

same goes for maan and geet, even though they are seperated right now they will keep loving each other!😳

great post :D

Originally posted by: dolphinUSA

Really? I'm truly honored :-)

Really my dear Dol .... add me to the list of admirers as well 😊