dev will stay the black sheep forever

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Posted: 15 years ago
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you know... everything what Dev might do or not....he will always be the black sheep.... yes he made a big mistake...he used an innocent girl....but he is regretting trying to set things straight....knowing he has to face jail and his brother ( who will be disappointed with him)....

Dev has come a very long way... but nobody is willing to forgive...only cause its was geet , who got hurt (due his selfish reason and lust) and what she has been facing...second reason for everyone not willing to forgive is : he is an danger for maneet relation...

Dev... it was a treat to see a guy realizing his mistake and how it is gone face him and his brother...who he loves dearly....yaar his brother love was touching....he wasn't faking that...but NOPE nobody was willing to see that...his one mistake made all his sincere emotion fake...and nobody is willing to see the person behind that mistake...

Yaar we all make mistakes...some ppl learn from them and a lot don't ... but we should never forget that "what goes around comes around"....Dev's time has come...

I dont think he is wrong in stopping the engagement... cause he knows what hard break his brother is facing and that due his mistake... he is worried about the fact that the girl he ruined will be part of his bro's life...will his brother be able to accept that.... dev realizes more...then a lot off ppl on this forum....so before calling him selfish... think again... cause today I saw a man in pain...he realized what the consequences off one one mistake is gone bring....

Q ...will Maan be able to accept that the girl his brother ruined ....and even impregnated..is his love...yes Maan has a big heart... but he isn't a god....he is still human...will he be able to accept that geet's first love/ fake hubby is his own brother....that she has been touched by him first... ( yes he was willing to accept her, when that person was unknown but now it's is his own flesh and blood )...

I loved today's epi...cause off the impact the abinav left on me...he was great in his emotion...and it's bad that ppl hate dev ( his character) so much that they can't appreciated his acting skills...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree with you. Dev will stay a black sheep. No matter how much he repents for his mistake, he will remain Maan's brother and Geet's FAKE husband. And who can forget about the CHILD.
OMG What will happen if Geet, Maan and Dev come to know its Dev's child - Dev is none other than Maan's brother.....I read that Dev and Maan are step brothers, but still its a Big thing.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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ok tell me one thing do u believe mistake and crime are 2 different things.......will u b able to forgive a person who rapes u and den says m sry?????????? den how can u expect geet or any of us to forgive him.......sry if u find me harsh...........being a gal i will never forgive a rapist........let him die repenting........coz dat person gives such a scar on dat gal's heart and soul which never heals.........

if v start forgiving people like dis den every creature like dev will get a chance to play vd some innocent gals emotions and future.....wht realization he has?????? if he was so truthful abt his repentance den y he did not tell maan abt his "glorious acts in past"....while geet was in maan's bedroom........he just thinks abt himself.......he is such a coward.......i would react to any person d same way who is like dev......

i dont anything against abhinav or his acting skills..........i dont care abt dev......and rather being thankful to NT who helped him in his bad time.......he holds her responsible for everything dat happened.......good..........

1. did NT-MAAN-geet gambled?????????
2. did NT-MAAN-geet force him to marry geet???????
3. did NT-MAAN-geet told him to consummate d fake marriage????
4. did NT-MAAN-geet told him to slap NT whn she came to stop him by consummating d marriage??????
5. if NT was still behaving nicely vd him he would never have thought abt geet.........
6. whenever geet heard his voice she felt like it was dev........did he ever feel dat?????? never

cant forgive him............

Edited by maanmeet1 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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manneet1....
you first have to know the different between rape and having S**....geet and dev had S**....she willing went to bed to him....No force was used....deceit ..yes...
and not your not harsh....reading your reply......just noticing your lack off life-experience...and this isn't a insult....
not willing to forgive....as I said before in a different post....ppl should forgive... (especially the victim, so they can move on) but never forget....
coming to dev:
he went to talk to his bro...but the faith Maan put in dev made him back off....he didn't want to hurt him...so yes he chickened out...but now he is trying to prevent a toofan that can ruin maan's life...
everything he did was together with NT...so he is eqal guilty...
as said above Maan will be shattered....but I would like to see him shattered before the engagement /wedding then after....cause if it happened and he would known that geet discovered the truth before the engagement....Maan will never forgive geet.....
that is what today's scene on the terrace meant....their relation should be based on the truth...the hole truth...if geet tries to hide...she will cute in own fingers....ruining the love and trust they shared...
if dev...tells him now...yes maan will be shattered...but everything what will happen will be his decision...and he will be able to deal with it on his own terms...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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tell me one thing if geet knew d marriage was fake........she would have gone willingly and slept vd him???????? its considered as rape........atleast i feel dat........

regarding forgiving things i do understand wht u r saying.......even i forgive lil mistakes and v all make mistakes dont v???????? but i feel galati and gunah mein difference hota hai........

forgive bt dont forget wht u mean to say???? lets take example of geet........u mean she should forgive dev coz he is repenting bt never forget wht he did to her???? if u mean dis den sry yaar......u want her to suffer for her whole life?????

and i didnt take it as an insult.......i love to learn new things in my life everyday which my heart approves.........just let me knw how many gals u knw who have forgiven people who have raped dem????????

maan still has faith in him den y today??????? c even i want maan to knw d truth and i wont like if geet hides it either........i feel maan has d right to knw.....

dev hazar galati kare, dar ke na bole ya whtevr per har galati ki maafi hai coz he is repenting...........i dont understand dis concept.........let it by d lack of my life experience.....i dont wanna learn things for which my heart does not approve....m happy vd it........

u have ur own belief and i have mine......its just my POV.......

thnx anyways..........



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Posted: 15 years ago
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That is true he will stay a black sheep forever no matter how repentant he is i understand where your coming from but how could one easily forgive and forget what he did 😕 i am glad that he is human enough to care for his brother and feel guilty for his actions but i can never forgive him for what he did or forget it, and i'm sure even Geet will find that nearly impossible your right we should forgive but we are humans not god, we are not some saints who will easily forgive people for there sins, mistakes yes, sins no and what Dev did was a sin.
You think we are hating Dev so much because he will be coming between MaaNeet😕 i don't know about anyone else but for me i hate him for what he did, personally as a girl i could never forgive a man who faked marriage with an innocent young girl 🤢 used her for one night for his own pleasure when he very well knew he had a wife and was commiting adultry 😡 and then left the girl to deal with the consequences no matter how repentant he is it won't be easy for anyone to forgive a man like that, and Geet is the victim here, how can she forgive him, he ruined her life she lost her family because of his 'mistake' and nearly lost the man she loved 😭
If he's truly repentant then he should have come clear ages ago and not now when he's fearing his ass getting whipped
Men like him should get punished 😡🤢
Edited by iqbal-pallavi - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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wait, whats the use of Dev's character if he got away with this by ruining Maaneet's relationship because his concious suddenly smelled the coffee and woke up?

whats the fault that Maan & Geet did when they fell in love and were ready to get married with both accepting each other fully?

is this what the show should teach similar Dev guys in the real world, that haan koi bat nahi, go and have "se*" with the girl, steal her money and when she suddenly comes back to your life.. just ask for her forgiveness no worries, she will forgive you????

Geet was raped, she did have se* with him because she "thought" he was her "husband" but that ALSO means that Mr. Dev has taken advantage of a situation where that girl thought he was someone that he wasnt.. so yes, Geet was raped.. and that is something is not forgivable.. why? because now Geet's life is RUINED! i understand, forgiving is a really good thing, but do you think forgiving without punishing that person is right? no.. it can never be right..

Dev should get punished by going to jail.. but will dadima live to see that day? did he even think of whats going to happen when his grandmother knows about all of this? she will surely have several heart attacks if not just die..

and even AFTER he tells MAAN about his past with GEET.. what will Maan do? didnt he think how HURT Maan will get? i prefer Maan hearing the name from Geet than hearing the story from Dev..

besides, Maan already ACCEPTED Geet and the baby.. he doesnt have to know who the "sheep" behind this all mess!!

seriously, this whole "Dev is a good guy" is getting annoying! he is not the "hero" here!! and he can never be!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shali

manneet1....

you first have to know the different between rape and having S**....geet and dev had S**....she willing went to bed to him....No force was used....deceit ..yes...
and not your not harsh....reading your reply......just noticing your lack off life-experience...and this isn't a insult....
not willing to forgive....as I said before in a different post....ppl should forgive... (especially the victim, so they can move on) but never forget....
coming to dev:
he went to talk to his bro...but the faith Maan put in dev made him back off....he didn't want to hurt him...so yes he chickened out...but now he is trying to prevent a toofan that can ruin maan's life...
everything he did was together with NT...so he is eqal guilty...
as said above Maan will be shattered....but I would like to see him shattered before the engagement /wedding then after....cause if it happened and he would known that geet discovered the truth before the engagement....Maan will never forgive geet.....
that is what today's scene on the terrace meant....their relation should be based on the truth...the hole truth...if geet tries to hide...she will cute in own fingers....ruining the love and trust they shared...
if dev...tells him now...yes maan will be shattered...but everything what will happen will be his decision...and he will be able to deal with it on his own terms...

Your right rape and sex is two different things, but what he did could actually almost be called rape for all she knew that was her husband she was giving herself away to but he knew what the truth was, he knew he was married, he knew the marriage was fake then why? 😕
About forgiveness, once again i'll say we are humans not god, it's not easy for us humans to forgive and move on, specially when something as shattering as that happens to us 😭 and even if we do forgive, things won't be the same anymore 😕 you could never truly move on from your past, it'll always be there 🤢 no matter how much you try to push it back to truly move on you need to forget completly,erase that memory, but something like this is hard to forget 😭
About Dev, yes he did go and try to talk to Maan but he backed off because of the faith Maan showed in him but that is exactly why he should have told Maan the entire truth because of the faith his brother had on him, but no he acted cowardly 🤢
But now he's trying to prevent a toofan from coming into Maan's life and that is nice of him 😕 but like i said he should have come clean ages ago, whatever crap is going to happen to him in the future, he will totally deserve 🤢
I agree with one thing though, the truth should come out before MaaNeet wedding, so Maan and Geet could truly start their new life with honesty 😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@ shali....i have appreciated abhinav's acting skills and said it in some other post also that his acting was superb yday no doubt 😊 but appreciating an actor and his acting skills is another thing, forgiving the character's bad deeds is different thing.....🤔
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shali

you know... everything what Dev might do or not....he will always be the black sheep.... yes he made a big mistake...he used an innocent girl....but he is regretting trying to set things straight....knowing he has to face jail and his brother ( who will be disappointed with him)....

Dev has come a very long way... but nobody is willing to forgive...only cause its was geet , who got hurt (due his selfish reason and lust) and what she has been facing...second reason for everyone not willing to forgive is : he is an danger for maneet relation...

Dev... it was a treat to see a guy realizing his mistake and how it is gone face him and his brother...who he loves dearly....yaar his brother love was touching....he wasn't faking that...but NOPE nobody was willing to see that...his one mistake made all his sincere emotion fake...and nobody is willing to see the person behind that mistake...

Yaar we all make mistakes...some ppl learn from them and a lot don't ... but we should never forget that "what goes around comes around"....Dev's time has come...

I dont think he is wrong in stopping the engagement... cause he knows what hard break his brother is facing and that due his mistake... he is worried about the fact that the girl he ruined will be part of his bro's life...will his brother be able to accept that.... dev realizes more...then a lot off ppl on this forum....so before calling him selfish... think again... cause today I saw a man in pain...he realized what the consequences off one one mistake is gone bring....

Q ...will Maan be able to accept that the girl his brother ruined ....and even impregnated..is his love...yes Maan has a big heart... but he isn't a god....he is still human...will he be able to accept that geet's first love/ fake hubby is his own brother....that she has been touched by him first... ( yes he was willing to accept her, when that person was unknown but now it's is his own flesh and blood )...

I loved today's epi...cause off the impact the abinav left on me...he was great in his emotion...and it's bad that ppl hate dev ( his character) so much that they can't appreciated his acting skills...



Wish to ask a question here
As a girl many of us have faced eve teasing and some are hurt too because of it.
But can we forget what happened..... no. If we cannot forget what happened then how can we expect Geet to forget and forgive so easily....



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