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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey all....

I think the episode was content rich.... and i liked it .. yes it didnt have like oooh to die for moments, neither did it have symbolism... but it still had loads of hints for the future track and i liked the episode... ill tell you why ..,.

- i am super thrilled it was not a dream- and just as we guessed, he says, we could have taken a step forward today, but i still wanna know what you feel about her relationship- a relationship works both ways, and here, as much as she has the hesitations and the apprehensions of a girl, he on his part wants her to fight against her inhibitions and admit to what she feels...
in a way he is supporting her again, this time to come to terms with all the happiness that is in store for them... he knows, he alone may not be able to handle this, unless she takes steps from her side.. thats why he urges her ...

-she on her part, being is girl is hesitant.. she who is so used to him taking decisions for her, she who is comfortable with taking taking care of her, suddenly falls short of words... why ??? somewhere it is her insecurities playing .. she perhaps wants to brave it all and say yes i love you .. lets get on with the story but she cant.. and thats what i loved the most about the episode ... there are times when this happens to you.. its all there, you wanna say so many things, you wanna do so many things, but when the time comes, thats the last thing you end up doing... she starts beating around the bush...she taunts him saying he dusnt let her speak.. but the truth is , she wants him to say it first .. like he said i cant live without you ... like he said, my life is incomplete without you, like he said, no one gets the right to say a thing to you .. like he said, i am used to ur existence in my life.. like he called her Maan ki geet .. she wants him to say .. geet i love you .. and i want you to say it too ... her take is ... you say it first .. lemme see what will stop me ...
while to many this may seem very frustrating, i think this is totally understandable ...

- geet has had things slipping out of her hands right in front of her eyes, she was almost going to lose her life, her baby, her hubby who promised her a life abandoned her .. her parents who brought her up learnt to get on with life and live without her... maan on learning she was pregnant turned a cold shoulder towards her.. there is no way, this little girl is going to gather her wits and say .. yes i love you ... i need you .. cos she needs love .. she needs care.. and she needs pampering .. yes this may sound selfish ... but she needs all of this .. and i dont think Maan should deny her that ...

- the story takes an interesting turn as Dev might realise the secretary his brother has been talking about all this while was actually Geet ...

-Maan on his part is determined to get the words out of her ... he may get angry .. he may get flustered... but this wont work .. this is Geet handa we are talking about here .. she is not a task MSK has taken up to complete.. she is a human being, and a complicated one at that .. he has to handle her with care... he has to at every stage make her realise he will be with her .. yes ... she is too weak still... she may have gained some strength .. but there have also been instances where she has been bogged down ....

i am not saying this cos uts generally the boy who does the proposing act .. i am saying this cos, she wants to hear those words from him as much as he does ... he makes it vocal and she doesnt... and thats the only difference....

he will not go ahead with this, this time and the whole week may revolve around him getting her to say it out ... but the way i look at it .. he will not have his way .. he will not be able to force her into this .. she feels it too.. but she will say it only when she thinks she has to ... not if he pushes her to the brink ...

and for that i am willing to wait ...

A warm welcome to a Monday and the week ahead !!!😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Geet don't suppress your feelings any longer please........reveal your true feelings to maan.......what status does she give this relationship.......contrived or formal......poor geet is bemused.....geet why is it difficult for you to express your feelings.....u are under the misconception that maan will not accept you because of your pregnancy....but when he can stake his own life for you....why do you find it hard to believe that he will not accept you........question yourself girl..........get yourself out of this illusionary world......I mean doesn't maan already know he is a good human being.....why is geet getting soooo stultifying.....is this the only amicable convo she can have with maan.......geet u accept the fact that he accepted you in his life despite ur bitter past.......then why can't u undertand the simple meaning of all this is nothing but LOVE!!!!!!!!! as if maan wants a list of who is nice in his family and who isn't..........plz geet stop these petty affrays and convey ur feelings..........i am geting absolutely impatient

Guys I loved the scene when she was hesistating to tap him and he opened his eyes and she totally got startled....i mean it shud hav been the other way round lol.....wow maan looked sooooo hot in that burgundy shirt.....I hate it when she wants to convey her feelings but she flippin became tongue-tied.........and then this dadi had to meddle in......loved maans direct taunt at geet.....not like she will see sum sense......and why can't this sasha stop prying into maaneets personal affairs....sum1 chop her nose off.......loved geets humorous monologue.......OMG i am drooling and going gaga over maans looks......he looked soo hot whilst cumin out of da shower fully drenched........uffffff too much to bear......suprises galore.......loved mks bare torso.........tooo hot too handle....u know geet is getting on my last nerve.....wot on earth is halting her from expressing her feelings........poor maan is waiting impatiently for your answer.......wow geet became misty-eyed whilst conveying her feelings.........wot shall we do with dis geet.........sum1 make her see sense.......

OMG...I never expected dev to actually say he must have done sum good deeds in this birth that he got a friend lyk meera.............you swine, weasel, wretch.......u r a despicable person.........go and offer salvation and redeem urself then judge urself on your good attributes lol........😆

Poor maan he is being torn apart.......geet convey ur feelings.......god the amount of times I've repeated this statement whilst typing this😕.....i think am cumin down with something😆......have a great evening......xxx

Edited by dilmilgaye-kash - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
#13
hey..all..
lets start discussing..the stipulated time is up...

have fun folks..i shall be there in some time

changed the title...hope you like this better...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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shaali m here ... shoot !! koi aaj kicu bol kyun nahi raha ... this is sad guys ... say something ... kuch bhi
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@ vru
loved d title
@nihu
loved ur take..........
maan has given words to his feelings but geet hasnt done dat yet............
so how come my poor maan gonna know dat geet loves him too..........
i know being a gal she is shy but for 1 time dont say I LOVE U or anything like dat but still say sumthing like d way maan said.............
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yes ... and i am sure they will have a real hatke confession ... jisme bolke bhi lavz na ho ..!!!

cant wait ... this week sounds promising ... Maan will be angsty and restless... Geet will find no words ... by the time she decides to tell him may be he will nt hear it.. there might be public confessions as well as loads of private intimate moments...

like vinu sed, there are more coming
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Posted: 14 years ago
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but i m scared regarding dis friday coz in party dev will b dere and plz i dont want a fiasco in dere engagement party.............
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hey vinu
vinu now can u come up and say sumthing........................
dol i m waiting 4 ur analysis...........b fast
i hate to hear a no................lol
Edited by pooja83 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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okay here are some guesses .....

1. well, he wants her to say the words, the look on his face conveys, confession of emotions toh ho chuka ... now use mouth damnit ...

2. they might have these series of comical situations where she tries to tell him, but fails all the time...

he is going to sulk like a kid whose candy's been snatched away from him.... but something like Hum Dil De chuke sanam might happen .. u see galti se she slaps him or something ... and then he is really angry and though she tells him he isnt ready to listen to her anymore ...

3. seeing Dev gives her the confidence to actually say it all out in public-in short, she has never been more sure ... nothing else matters to her ...!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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ok....so now thinkin from psychological perspective

Usually the quiet ones are the most surprising ones.....they stay quiet but when it comes time to express something and they strongly believe to express it...nothing can hold them back from sayin what they want....this is because they are secure from the inside and confident

And usually the ones that are talkative.....expressive.......most of the time in everything.....when it comes to sayin something like "i love u" is not easy for them......because they may be expressive of about other general things.....but when it comes to expressing something like a feelin towards someone....they can't because they are insecure from the inside.....usually behind their bubbliness.....there are insecurities..so they hide their insecurities with a mask of confidence and bubbliness...and so because of whatever insecurity they hold....they cannot express themselves when it comes to something like expressing love.....they are free like a bird....and when it comes in time for this....they get shy...tied up...

so Geet wants to say it.....but her shyness.....the most part of it.....
and some of her insecurities hold her back.....sometimes very expressive people don't have a hard time in expressin their feelings....but they are the type that express what they want at their own pace...so when pushed to do it....i doesn't work....

ok....that is all i can pull out from my psych dictionary....
remember these theories are not written for everyone.....it does not mean that if u r very expressive then ur not confident in the inside....these are just psychological possibilities.....usual things that psychologists notice in expressive and quiet people....
hope i made sense....and i hope i did justice sorry if i didn't

Edited by mysterygurl1427 - 14 years ago

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