Curiousity killed... - Page 4

Originally posted by: -honeydew-

naah ... think of what would happen if this were a real life situation?? would someone really have to die??? you will find ur answer .. and geet has always been true to real life ...

Originally posted by: a little faith

True, that is why I am NOT worried about geet the show more worried about fans reactions. They stunned me with their casual attitude to death and paths to happiness. For truly Maaneet and child can be as well as Dev and Baby; for they are all adults with the potential of growth.

Drama how it should be, changing the social attitudes of what should be!

Love Sabah

Originally posted by: -honeydew-

dont worry abt the fans ... its just tht most of them are used to the usual soppy drama!!!

Originally posted by: a little faith

This was the only way I could think of 'baiting' you into a conversation. It has been too long.

too bad..you know you just need to buzz me and i'll rush to you...

I agree, no death! Of course it is not really 'his sister in law'. However the issue still remains, that is Dev's child. His nephew or niece.

no..to a Maan after the truth of her pregnancy is out...he is not angry as to her having a guy other than him in her life...but at her having kept the truth from him...
in the controversial most dialogue too of 17th sept...'Mujhai laga tum mere ho!' as i see it or interpret it...it was cry of his bleeding heart that reacted to her words that she gave her heart to the man ...
Maan has a different way of seeing things and interpreting it....and its not blurred by blood ties or relationship...or else he could have not shown door to his own brother for having done wrong

If Dev dies (not what I want...i want ..i want) then there would be no 'weird' feelings or awkwardness' for Maan to assume the role of 'father'/ HOwever with Dev still alive, and possibly around in Geet's life, would not Maan feel like a 'third wheel' even if he is part of Geet's life as her husband.

you don't know Maan then....he would never feel that way, he is a man to whom love means trust, not a part of love but definition to it....


I would like them to show a change in all the characters, especially Dev, a way forward, where they all learn to sacrifice for the sake of the child(for once i'm not one with you in this thought...i want Dev far removed from the child's life no way near it...God! some crimes have no forgiveness..his is one of them, no amount of repentance or punishment can make his crime any degree less) and Geet herself, not just Geet sacrificing her love for her child, although I would never belittle such an act. I would just like to see a better way; a way where the boundaries of the selfish are demolished and selfless expanded to include the domain of happiness.there can be no 2 other selfless people as Maan & Geet ..i want nothing more from them in this front

Surely as 'adults' there is a way forward where Maaneet can be as well as Dev and baby...
Dev
with the baby..i cannot write it too in same sentence forget about wanting to see them together😡

Love Big Sis😃

Originally posted by: nanditasingh

love you big sis
guess first time you see me contradict max.... i hold strong and unchangeable views of things related to Geet, the show started as any other drama but has surprised us all by its unpredictability and uniqueness...

Originally posted by: a little faith

Yes are are disagreeing for the first time. However I hope it is due to a misunderstanding. (then again i hope not, if only so that we may continue disagreeing for some time more😳)

I am not looking at Dev as he is now, but rather Dev the male that became a man by the birth of his child. I would love to see them develop Dev as a human being, the potential of a new dawn in the aftermath of that darkest part of the night.

i disagree....ever crime cannot be forgiven and every criminal get a second chance...
i despise Dev more than i do NT

However I want that as well as Maaneet. I do not want Dev to be with Geet but this 'new' Dev to be with his child. For i have seen this 'changed' male into man many times in reality.

this is one thing that if happens i will quit on this show...you know how serious i'm when i pledge it....Dev's crime to me is in par with that of a rapist...so i guess having said this you know my feelings for him....that sure is not changing ...

I would love for them to show this change of heart. To show the potential of the human soul to return from the brink of the abyss.

As for this crimes, here again, I would love for Maaneet to be able to forgive Dev. The ability to forgive and act as if you have forgotten, the height of character, I expect from Geet.

It is in relation to this 'new' Dev that I concern Maan with. His concern for Dev as well as the child's development. For by letting Dev in, he must relinquish some part of the whole.

I don't want Dev to die, but rather the death of his character and then that phoenix rising from the ashes. I would love to see that, rather than only Maaneet sacrificing, for those who do not deserve it, not one iota.

Love your Big sis,
Sabah

Originally posted by: a little faith

"i big time disagree with your every word...i can't believe me saying this but ...yes i don't agree "

Hey, nandita,

That is why i love you. Never any loyalty only ever honesty.

DOn't worry, I doubt you will quit. For nearly ALL dramas show that 'a leopard can't change his spots' Something that irks me, but me alone.

The only time I saw this was in Bidaai, where Ragini's sister in law changed after her husband was sent to prision.

Also a little in MJHT with Dia. I was probably the ONLY one hoping for RV to return, a changed man and try to enchant Dia all over again, but this time for real.

I don't know why, but I love seeing that; those written off given another chance by destiny, by family, by friends but most importantly by themselves.

Nandita, always a pleasure and a honour.

Love your big sis
Sabah

Originally posted by: a little faith

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i think ur goin too far ahead. the child is still unborn, a baby. i
dun think Geet will restrict her child's happiness. she sacrificed her
own joy for the unborn child. Maan, though feels that it isn't his
child, naturally shares an affinity towards Geet's child...because its
Geet's child.

I personally think Dev has NO RIGHT to claim the child since first
of all, they r not legally married and considering he cannot support the
child financially, he cannot legally obtain the child.

What influences a child is not his future but his past. if he is
raised by maneet, he wil surely not disregard maan, may b curious of his
rl father. but he wud noe his mother's pain.

however, lookin at the circumstance, I DOUBT geet wil reveal the
child's rl father to the child if (hopefully) maneet marry. such thing
cannot b revealed, rather its hidden most of the times until the child
is old enough to understand."

I agree, our parents are those that raised us, nurtured us, loved us and disciplined us. A child is need of every ounce of love from each and every meet. Geet's child, will understand the need for Geet's happiness. For a mother's happiness in in turn the child's happiness as well as an aid to its own happy environment.

True legally Dev should not be and probably would not be given access to the child.

However, in reality, curiousity if not family pressure will inevitably bring Dev into the child's life and thereby Maaneet's life. No matter how i look at it there is an 'ick' factor.

However I really would like them to show a way forward, where all find peace and happiness. That there should be compromise from ALL sides not only one.

I would like them to show that adversity is the best teacher, that they all 'grow' into adults NOT only the child.

Love Sabah