Curiousity killed... - Page 3

Created

Last reply

Replies

63

Views

4k

Users

19

Likes

76

Frequent Posters

imzzi thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#21
i don't think anyone has to die. period.
although the relationship between maan and dev will definitely go down the drain. and Geet doesn't need help with the baby because she was planning on doing it on her own anyways. so even if maan does say he will take care of the baby with her it shouldn't be a big ihsaan or something because he loves her and he's doing it out of love not guilt or anything else.
and i don't think dev should have any right to do anything with the baby! he's an a**
nanditasingh thumbnail
17th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 15 years ago
#22
Sabah....finally get to read my favorite post maker's post.....your second one here.
to the subject.....
no i don't think death is in anyway needed to bring them together...
firstly the marriage was fake...legally , religiously and morally .....
so she isn't Maan's sis - in - law or Dev's wife...
as for the baby..i could be happy if the baby issue was not brought
up in the first place ..to make the pain or gravity of the suffering or crime
felt there was no need to bring live baggage of past to carry in present &
future...memories are huge load in itself to do with....
now when baby is in...Maan knows and accepted ...no miscarriage plz.
MaanEet is a bond that goes soul deep & strong ...it needs no other thing to make
it anymore stronger than love itself which they have in abundance to feel and share
but ..if death needed..trust me i would love to see Dev dead....but for his crime alone
not for the reason to get MaanEet together

love
Nandita

Edited by nanditasingh - 15 years ago
--Krish-- thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 15 years ago
#23
i also dont think anyone has to die for this..

Dev does not have any claim to the child.. he was never legally married to her.. if Dev says that he has married Geet, then Dev should be put behind bars for bigamy..

Maan is ready to accept the child as his own and if Maan comes to know about Dev being the father, i am sure Maan will do his best to keep Dev out of Geet's life.. put him behind bars if possible or pack him off to Canada for good and let him fend for himself.. as of NT, mummyji and sis, i hope Maan kicks their a** and throws them in the street..

I am sure geet would not like to have the cheat in her or her child's life.. so that means she will not have anything to do with Dev.

As of the child, i think it is better than he grows up knowing and accepting Maan as father and does not know about Dev at all.. in a child's perspective this might be cheating but i think this will be the best possible solution for this problem as of now.. May be once the child is an adult, geet or maan can tell him/her the whole story..

Edited by krishnarani - 15 years ago
a little faith thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Networker 2 Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: preeti200

I was thinking about the same thing. I so don't want the baby to die, but deep in my heart I feel that if there is a baby, there are chances of Geet + Dev. If I have to choose between baby or Maneet, I would choose Maneet ofcourse. I so don't want Geet to go back to Dev at any cost. My POV.



True, as Dev is now. However if there was a change of heart then should Geet chose Dev over Maan for the sake of her son?

I would say, that ALL have a right to happiness, including her son, that ALL being adults then there is a way forward for Maaneet, and their child as well as Deva and his son.]
a little faith thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Networker 2 Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#25
"
i think ur goin too far ahead. the child is still unborn, a baby. i dun think Geet will restrict her child's happiness. she sacrificed her own joy for the unborn child. Maan, though feels that it isn't his child, naturally shares an affinity towards Geet's child...because its Geet's child.
I personally think Dev has NO RIGHT to claim the child since first of all, they r not legally married and considering he cannot support the child financially, he cannot legally obtain the child.
What influences a child is not his future but his past. if he is raised by maneet, he wil surely not disregard maan, may b curious of his rl father. but he wud noe his mother's pain.
however, lookin at the circumstance, I DOUBT geet wil reveal the child's rl father to the child if (hopefully) maneet marry. such thing cannot b revealed, rather its hidden most of the times until the child is old enough to understand."

I agree, our parents are those that raised us, nurtured us, loved us and disciplined us. A child is need of every ounce of love from each and every meet. Geet's child, will understand the need for Geet's happiness. For a mother's happiness in in turn the child's happiness as well as an aid to its own happy environment.

True legally Dev should not be and probably would not be given access to the child.

However, in reality, curiousity if not family pressure will inevitably bring Dev into the child's life and thereby Maaneet's life. No matter how i look at it there is an 'ick' factor.

However I really would like them to show a way forward, where all find peace and happiness. That there should be compromise from ALL sides not only one.

I would like them to show that adversity is the best teacher, that they all 'grow' into adults NOT only the child.

Love Sabah
a little faith thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Networker 2 Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: imzzi91

i don't think anyone has to die. period.

although the relationship between maan and dev will definitely go down the drain. and Geet doesn't need help with the baby because she was planning on doing it on her own anyways. so even if maan does say he will take care of the baby with her it shouldn't be a big ihsaan or something because he loves her and he's doing it out of love not guilt or anything else.
and i don't think dev should have any right to do anything with the baby! he's an a**



True, he is. HOwever I am giving him the potential to mature, from his mistakes. I can not help but feel that the creatives have given Dev 'shades' for a reason.

As for Maan, I think his only issue would be the fact that he is 'intruding' upon his brother's right, regardless of whether Dev gives up his right or not.

Love Sabah
-honeydew- thumbnail
17th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 7
Posted: 15 years ago
#27
naah ... think of what would happen if this were a real life situation?? would someone really have to die??? you will find ur answer .. and geet has always been true to real life ...
a little faith thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Networker 2 Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: nanditasingh

Sabah....finally get to read my favorite post maker's post.....your second one here.
to the subject.....
no i don't think death is in anyway needed to bring them together...
firstly the marriage was fake...legally , religiously and morally .....
so she isn't Maan's sis - in - law or Dev's wife...
as for the baby..i could be happy if the baby issue was not brought
up in the first place ..to make the pain or gravity of the suffering or crime
felt there was no need to bring live baggage of past to carry in present &
future...memories are huge load in itself to do with....
now when baby is in...Maan knows and accepted ...no miscarriage plz.
MaanEet is a bond that goes soul deep & strong ...it needs no other thing to make
it anymore stronger than love itself which they have in abundance to feel and share
but ..if death needed..trust me i would love to see Dev dead....but for his crime alone
not for the reason to get MaanEet together

love
Nandita



This was the only way I could think of 'baiting' you into a conversation. It has been too long.

I agree, no death! Of course it is not really 'his sister in law'. However the issue still remains, that is Dev's child. His nephew or niece.

If Dev dies (not what I want) then there would be no 'weird' feelings or awkwardness' for Maan to assume the role of 'father'/ HOwever with Dev still alive, and possibly around in Geet's life, would not Maan feel like a 'third wheel' even if he is part of Geet's life as her husband.

I would like them to show a change in all the characters, especially Dev, a way forward, where they all learn to sacrifice for the sake of the child and Geet herself, not just Geet sacrificing her love for her child, although I would never belittle such an act. I would just like to see a better way; a way where the boundaries of the selfish are demolished and selfless expanded to include the domain of happiness.

Surely as 'adults' there is a way forward where Maaneet can be as well as Dev and baby.

Love Big Sis😃
Edited by a little faith - 15 years ago
neha-2 thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Networker 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#29
i hope dis all is a rong info..nooo not geet's baby... not dev too!!!...nooooooo!!!!...
a little faith thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Networker 2 Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: krishnarani

i also dont think anyone has to die for this..

Dev does not have any claim to the child.. he was never legally married to her.. if Dev says that he has married Geet, then Dev should be put behind bars for bigamy..

Maan is ready to accept the child as his own and if Maan comes to know about Dev being the father, i am sure Maan will do his best to keep Dev out of Geet's life.. put him behind bars if possible or pack him off to Canada for good and let him fend for himself.. as of NT, mummyji and sis, i hope Maan kicks their a** and throws them in the street..

I am sure geet would not like to have the cheat in her or her child's life.. so that means she will not have anything to do with Dev.

As of the child, i think it is better than he grows up knowing and accepting Maan as father and does not know about Dev at all.. in a child's perspective this might be cheating but i think this will be the best possible solution for this problem as of now.. May be once the child is an adult, geet or maan can tell him/her the whole story..



I agree that Dev as he is now is not a suitable father. However I have known many a male turn into a man after the birth of a child.

I am asking is there not a way forward for Maaneet as parents as well as Dev and baby?

Love Sabah

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".