why he didnt listen....giv me 1 strong reason???

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Posted: 14 years ago
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wat shld i say...i had tears in my eyes while watchin the episode i would like to ask u hw many of u had tears in der eyes while watchin the episode n i hated the stupid precap....hw could he...is tht lovvvvvvvv is tht lovvvvvvvv to maan ok maans anger ghussa was justified bt the precap damnnnnnnnnn maan knws tht she is pregnant thn why maan was so relaxed seeing her runin n fallin why didnt he listen yyyyyy?she wanted to tell him if sumthing happens to her baby maan is to blameeeee😡😡😡😡wont 4giv him 4 tht plssss maan listen to her once jetna dard geet ko mila hai uske samney tumhara dard kuch bhi nahi maan kuch bhi nahi....was so angry yaar i wont be able to study if geet continues like this coz i ll be thinking abt geet more....i want this track to be over ths week....nt more thn a week....geet had pain in her eye more thn maann maan was just angry thts all i didnt see pain in his eyesssss.....i hope maan gets out of the car n sees geet if she was ok....n say srry to geet n she geets him the whole truth....i dont hate maan bt i was disappointed by him.....much disappointed specially wen geet kept saying listen to me once just once...bt he didnt why he didnt whyyyy tell me one strong reason why he didnt.....i dnt wanna blame him bt if sumthing happens to geet or the baby😡😡😡😡😡 maan to be blamed.....

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I am sorry and sad for you ...

why he didnt listen to her .... is a question only that person can understand who has felt pain and betrayal and who knows life till its deepest depths ... seems like all you care is lovey dovey romance, no matter at what cost ...

You have to understand maan's personality to understand what he is going through .... he is fighting with his own self .... he is torturing his own self just to prevent any more hurt .... but for that u have to understand the true meaning of hurt ... which obviously is not easy here ...

best of luck to you ....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: thesaint148

I am sorry and sad for you ...

why he didnt listen to her .... is a question only that person can understand who has felt pain and betrayal and who knows life till its deepest depths ... seems like all you care is lovey dovey romance, no matter at what cost ...

You have to understand maan's personality to understand what he is going through .... he is fighting with his own self .... he is torturing his own self just to prevent any more hurt .... but for that u have to understand the true meaning of hurt ... which obviously is not easy here ...

best of luck to you ....

oh so he so HURT tht he doesnt even care tht she geet is pregnant n just 18 years old wht if her baby dies or sumthing happens to her...n seems like u hav gone through it well i m just 17 year old...so i might nt knw...bt if i hurted u thn i m really really srry.....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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im giving da same reply dat i posted b4

maan ne aise he react karna tha kyun ke uske samne adha sach aya aur wo bhi ghalat dhang se
ab baat yeh ho rahi hai dat maan was not listening to her...
simple si logical baat hai.....
when he was in car , he was thinking dat geet pregnant magar usne to kaha tha wo larka uska DOST hai...sari baat yehi hai ,he could not even think abt it ke geet kisi aur ke sath ...... kuch log keh rahe hen there was more agner n less pain, i think maan ka pain he uske ghussay se zahir ho raha tha,he was hurting himself,aisa insaan tabi karta hai jab wo extreme pain mai ho ... koi overreact nahi kiya...aik possessive lover aise he react kare ga...jab wo apni soch se etna pain feel kar raha tha to geet se kese sun sakta...dats y he was not listening to her instead he was hurting him self....

es waqt maan khud se bhi bhaag raha hai wo yeh sochna bhi nahi chahta ke geet pregnant hai aur uski life mai koi aur larka tha......dats the reason he is not listening to her

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nigii

im giving da same reply dat i posted b4

maan ne aise he react karna tha kyun ke uske samne adha sach aya aur wo bhi ghalat dhang se
ab baat yeh ho rahi hai dat maan was not listening to her...
simple si logical baat hai.....
when he was in car , he was thinking dat geet pregnant magar usne to kaha tha wo larka uska DOST hai...sari baat yehi hai ,he could not even think abt it ke geet kisi aur ke sath ...... kuch log keh rahe hen there was more agner n less pain, i think maan ka pain he uske ghussay se zahir ho raha tha,he was hurting himself,aisa insaan tabi karta hai jab wo extreme pain mai ho ... koi overreact nahi kiya...aik possessive lover aise he react kare ga...jab wo apni soch se etna pain feel kar raha tha to geet se kese sun sakta...dats y he was not listening to her instead he was hurting him self....

es waqt maan khud se bhi bhaag raha hai wo yeh sochna bhi nahi chahta ke geet pregnant hai aur uski life mai koi aur larka tha......dats the reason he is not listening to her



well said Nigi ... he was in the phase of DENIAL earlier and thats the first phase of grief .... now he is going through the second phase, ANGER ..... and so he is doing all these things out of anger and hurt ...

he is human after all!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i agree to nigii and thesaint148..........m worried coz he didnt cry......i mean usne apna dard gusse ke zariye bahar nikala hai........d anger u have seen dats his pain.......

even if somethng happens to geet he will blame himself.....its just a matter of time whn he will calm down......i feel bad for geet too bt maan bhi suffer kar raha hai.......dont just ignore his pain.........

just coz he is male, he is agressive, he is 25 or older does not mean dat he is nt suffering.......at d same time geet is a gal, preg, 18 yrs dat doesnt mean ki uska dukh maan se zyada ho jata hai.......u cant measure pain like dis.....whn u r hurt in love u r just hurt.......u cant measure it.........nor u can compare it.........just my POV.........
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Posted: 14 years ago
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It's ok if he has a bitter past because of woman. It's means not every woman like that. First listen the person what he/she want's to tell then make a conclusion. In that case you see immature, and also you loose your respect.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree with you soulhailer.. Maan just thought abt himself and didnt even care abt Geet esp her running after him like tht 😭 .. I understand he believes she betrayed him but wasnt Maan the one who always used to take Geet in a corner and force her to admit her feelings?? 😕 She hinted him so many times and he didnt even bother asking her. Kahn phele itne dialogues maree ki mein tumhare saath hoon and all tht aur jab time aya tu practical mein bilkul zeroo 🤢
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: maanmeet1

i agree to nigii and thesaint148..........m worried coz he didnt cry......i mean usne apna dard gusse ke zariye bahar nikala hai........d anger u have seen dats his pain.......

even if somethng happens to geet he will blame himself.....its just a matter of time whn he will calm down......i feel bad for geet too bt maan bhi suffer kar raha hai.......dont just ignore his pain.........

just coz he is male, he is agressive, he is 25 or older does not mean dat he is nt suffering.......at d same time geet is a gal, preg, 18 yrs dat doesnt mean ki uska dukh maan se zyada ho jata hai.......u cant measure pain like dis.....whn u r hurt in love u r just hurt.......u cant measure it.........nor u can compare it.........just my POV.........



Well said M .... to love and lose is the most terrible feeling in the world .... as i said somewhere as well ... anger is his way of hiding his pain ... he hates to be vulnerable and so he tries other ways to shell him ....

i agree, he didnt shed a single tear ... thats dangerous .. when a person cries, he learns to live again ... if he wont cry, he will never learn to live again ...

he has to cry at some point of time .,.,. and i hope the cv's maintain his dignity in that as well ....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@mrko.............u r right.........so same goes vd geet........dev cheated her dat doesnt mean evry man is a cheater......and she knws maan very well....wht gentleman he is....den y she didnt trust him?????? c if v select to argue v will find many points........bt d thng is no one is at fault......time is d best medicine and whn time will come dey will understand each other.......my point is dont just blame maan coz u wanna blame someone

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