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Posted: 14 years ago
the rational for what they showed last night was ... they wanted to prolong his pain for a bit ...
and this happens to alot of us... when we are really mad at someone we really like or care for .. we want the other person to do everything according to our liking .. no matter how logical or sensible we might be otherwise .. the thought that you are not on the same page with another, is heart breaking.. same's the case with MSK at the moment... he can think of all those moments when she tried to back off .. but did you see the point at which those moments stopped??? it was all tactfully done ... he thought only till a point where she always backed off... and he is hot headed at the moment .. as soon as he cools down a little ... the other bits of the jigsaw will fall in place ... allow him the time ... and grace .. cos ... its not easy to deal with it all.. and after all its just been a day .. and he is allowed to sulk like a kid for the pessimist and the excess baggage he carries from the past .. its only natural for him to jump to conclusions ... once his logic takes over him he for sure will realise why she was doing it .. and Geet making up her mind that she will tell him the entire truth is another positive sign ...!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
WAY TO Go Gal!!

yes today's episode all in all belonged to Geet ... cheers to her !!! right from the start when she decided she was not going to let of the man she loved .. the way she argued for the first time with babaji about how she will fight her destiny to keep maan in her life ... and then later the way she followed him all the way...and didnt give up till the end .... i was bowled over ...
the best part was when she is about to fall off and for once Maan doesnt support her, but she holds his hand as a reflex and actually tells him she held it since she was going to fall...
this woman is not the one to back down .. she is not the one to get deterred ... she will fight for her love .. she will win him over ...

i had this feeling ever since saturday that, this time she perhaps would do some wooing from her side .. and make things happen between the two of them !! who ever said yeh ishq hai aasaan ??

Maan obviously behaved the way it was expected out of him... but Geet today really lived up to the title of the show ...!!!

i couldnt take the pain, but i guess it was all worth it .. i love the way the story is moving...

Cheers to Dhrasti Dhami for her flawless portrayal....!!! and at this stage i cant help but go a lil away from the purpose of making this post and saying .... " Maan was .......... awesome,,,!!! like he always is .... "

at the moment our man is angry and sulking ... he needs some attention, some affection, some appreciation ... !!! and our lady here is ready to pour it all in bounty ...!!!

All in all ... sad but worthwhile episode ...!!!

love,
niha
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: --Nargis--

3 IDIOTS - In the DEPTHS of DESPAIR....


Dosti aap seki.........

mana ke bebafwa nikle hum

samjha na sake apko
zakham jism per hai
per bata na sake apko
maaf karna mere dost
per kismat ne hi majbur kar diya
dosti aapse ki aur
apko hi rulake dukh de diya


Shikwa.........

Hath Pakadne ka wada tha magar hath chhuda liaya
jiski jise jarurat thi khuda ne mila diya
shikayat bhala karen kis se
Meri taqdeer ne sachchai ka chehra dikha diya


Edited to add my take:


So girls...finally i am back with my take for today......so here it goes. You all have done an excellent job on analyzing the episodes and on piinting out meager symbolisms in the bl;aringly obvious Episode today.

My take is PAIN...PAIN...and more PAIN...for both Maan and Geet. Taqdeer ne in dono ki waat laga di hai......kare toh kya karein??
pain pain go away ... come again another day ... for now and forever its with Maan i want to stay ... thats what Geet seemed to be screaming today ...a girl who always resigned to what Babaji had in her store for her actually fought with him and said ... she will fight her takdeer if she has to, to keep Maan with her....👏👏👏

My heart bleeds with Maan.....felt his hurt and anguish...while he tried to reason it all out in his mind...the thousand questions and assumptions that he making are going to later make an ASS out of him.....

poor thing ya ... we all always try our best and ignore the complexity in his character ...he is not like ten other common human species found....this is the way he deals with issues ...by making it all look hard and tough ... but this time its Geet he is dealing with ... she will bring him outta it in no time... till then ... let him sulk ... 😆😆😆 the guy is in desp need for some TLC ...!!

Maan Singh Khuranan thru and thru.....so in control...not a tear shed externally.....loved how he vented his anger, his fury, his pain, and frustration with himself for falling for a girl again......on a hill top....for none to hear but GOD....for only he knows that pain Maan has been thru and is going through again!! KUDOS to Gurmeet for a FABULOUS performance....loved it!! Thanks to CVs for keeping Maan in character......full blown JWALAMUKHI!!!

they should stop showing this stuff on TV... raises the standard we seek for in men ...!!!😆😆😆 also ... the way he brought out his pain... just showed ... though self destructive ... though fuming in anger ...not once did he touch Geet or harm her to show how pissed he was ... when he was totally mad at her ...!!! i would love to see him melt like a blob of butter after tonight ... as strong as he portrays himself to be ... we all know what a softie he is inside.. and they are building it all towards the same!!!

Now for Geet.....if my heart bleeds for Maan...then it weeps tears of pain for Geet....for she is suffering agiain for DEV's SINS....when will this stop. When will DEV stop affecting her life so.....??? The one POSITIVE for GEET is that she has not run away to lock her wound in private....BUT instead she has decided to FIGHT what is HERS...HAPPINESS with MAAN....love you Geet...and wish you the BEST!!

it was evident Dev is no entity in her life anymore ... all she cares about now is Maan and her baby ... and she will fight to keep them to herself ... another striking bit was when she said immediately after she breaks the news that she is pregnant .. she stops him.. she is like.. i wont let u go... u have to listen to the whole thing ... after he leaves she talks to herself and says ... half baked truths are more dangerous than lying altogether ...!! loved her determination..!! woohoo!!!

and DEV......what a sleezebag...(sorry no offense to the fans of Dev...but its my ANGER talking or typing now)!! I want Maan to so BEAT the CRAP out of him.....he should not be left recognizable!!!😡 And what bothers me the most is that he is walking around looking for SALVATION...well my friend...there will be NO SALVATION for you...your SINS are to BIG...and you will have bare the weight of them for the rest of your miserable LIFE!!

well i fdound the entire build up they created pointless... he didnt even see Geet ... and he didnt even meet Maan ... i would have loved it if he atleast heard about the bit that she is pregnant ... anyway ... that man... is for sure paying a price for all that he did ...!!!

Ok....now my prediction...or rather a suspicion base don the PROMO where Maan shatters the MIRROR............ I think Dev confess what he has done to Geet......but Maan has not approached Geet about it. In the promo...Maan says...MUJSE INTA BADA SACCH KYOON CHUPAYA...TUMNE GEET????? Wiat...now come to think of it.....maybe not....Maan could stil lbe just referring to the pregnancy truth....wow ..I'm so confused.............what to do??

the Dev revelation will be another promo in itself and they will stretch that a lil longer .. for the time when they have no story to tell again... for nw it will all be about her not giving up on Maan ... till now its been him pursuing her ... now she thinks its her turn to do her bit .. and if we know Geet at all... she will leave no stone unturned to prove her point .. and she will go to any lengths for Maan..!!!

Now to the PRECAP.........as I have mentioned in this thread already....I think Geet will fall and get hurt.....and i want her to end up in the HOSPITAL...but she CANNOT loose her baby. I think when Maan realizes that she is hurt...he will go on AUTO-PILOT....and go to GEET....LOVER HER OR HATE HER....He can NEVER HURT her!!!!

yes !!! if he doesnt stop na??? i am going to hate him....really !!!😡😡😡😡 he can be mad at her for all i care ... but if he really loved/s her ... he wouldnt wanna see her suffer ...!! and yes ... he can hate her but can never ignore her!!!

Sorry...such a jumbled post....but this my DESPAIR for Maneet!!!!😕

this aint jumbled sweetie .....🤗it reflects everyone's state of mind atm ...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
couldnt have put it any better !!! you are too good woman...!!!!🤗

Originally posted by: rickks

The Characters, the performances and the anticipation-TOP CLASS

Okay'..Still in the hangover of watching today's episode'.Not because I am sad'.but Because the episode turned out to be just the way I had anticipated it to be'

Maan- I knew and wanted Maan to react the way he just did anything less than what he did today would have been going back on his characterization and I am sure in the coming episodes we will get to witness the yet to be explored raw and inhumane side of his character. I m really overwhelmed that the CV's decided to not bring in any melodrama and tarnish Maan's Character''

Geet- She lived up to what was promised to us when the Initial Promos of Geet were out'.ki Geet chose to be different and she just did it'.I always felt that Geet is the Mirror Image of Maan , the female version of Maan just like him stubborn and determined''she did not deter from the act of telling Maan the entire truth'.be it today or tomorrow she will get him to hear her out''Maan Has to Listen.

Nissar, Swati, Barry and rest of the Creative Team comprising of nothing but Geniuses: Thankyou for not Bringing the Graph of Geet Down and actually taking it up a notch higher with more refined sequences, shots, performances and a display of remarkable human emotion especially the DEPICTION OF PAIN-By Maan

If you haven't seen today's episode you haven't seen what its to be anguished in Love''.and for this First of all a huge round of applause 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 to Gurmeet for bringing out the best portrayal of Anguish,(On TV by far) Yes I don't wanna use the word pain or hurt here because its too inferior to depict what he: Maan actually showcased today'

-Show Staler-

No Doubts on this one hands down its GC....for the Scene where he halts his car on the cliff....takes of his Coat....Shows he well toned Body which was looking to die for😳......and screams.

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The symbolization and analysis coming up....Stay Tuned😉


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Posted: 14 years ago
🤗 really needed it Viji !!!
really6 need

Originally posted by: rickks

For all those who are feeling low, sad and in despair after seeing today's episode

this is for you




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Posted: 14 years ago
you guys have left me with nothing more to add... with all the symbolism.... ill just give my take on all of this...

Originally posted by: rushtrip

Saw the epi twice..
and found traces of what i have written..in many of scenes...in there...now dont go thinking i am blowing my trumpet...

But i mentioned it because..i am not sad, nor am i in despair...for me i have thought about it and knew..he would react like this...he is my Maan..i know..how he thinks..he lives in my head..and i have gotten into his..if he had behaved any other way i would have been surprised or shocked...

the CVs are doing a fantastic job...i totally agree ... the way they have woken the story, requires brains and also tact .. they have proved they possess them in bounty....

now things i saw...

- he remembered everything..but..the connotation is not for him to go towards her but away from her..the scene where they show... the shake hand he remembered him withdrawing..the hand...i think it symbolises..his going away...

he is hurt and angry right now .. and hence thought of only those things that possibly hurt him a little in the past .. but he ignored them... now he had more valid reasons to reaffirm those feelings ...!! pessimistic ... but thats him!!!

- Dev coming to the empty church to me symbolises that that he is going to find himself alone always even if he tries to make reparation he is going to fail and there wont be any one supporting him..

wow !! never thought of it this way ... cos for me... it was like.. the dude .. coming all the way with all the air around him... i was llike, aaj yeh kuch toh karne waala hai ... par he went back the same way .. thank god they didnt intercut his driving back with Maan and Geet's despair ...!!!

- Maan's scream and tai chi is symbolising purging of his emotions. He wants to be emptied of every emotion before there is any room for new emotions towards Geet or anyone else can come int..
and it think this is where Sameera wil come again..

this was the most heart wrenching part ... and it shook me up totally ... over the past few months we had seen the change in Maan .. and we all loved it .. look at it this way ... now we know why he was so irked at the thought that he was changing... change was not in his to-do list ... but it still happened ... and now, with this... he has even the more a reason believe, what he thought at first was infact right ...!!

- Reverting to his old self is nothing but starting afresh as one when faced with unexpected or unusual circumstances will always..revert to the old..to find oneself before one ventures.into new grounds, he is now faced with a challenge..and he has to take a step back.to view the whole issue at hand before he can solve the puzzle...he has right now picked up a wrong clue.. it will take something or may be Dev to help him..and may be it will a little late when he realises and he will have to make up to Geet for it..

yes picking the wrong clue at the moment was the only way the creatives could have twisted the story a little more.. they have clearly justified why Maan is behaving the way he is at the moment ... his fury has a cause .. he remembers only as much as he needs to .. the friendship.. where like you said he remembers withdrawing the hand, or her not letting him tell her who the girl he loves is ... or the secret she is hiding ... from where he looks at it .. she never really wanted him to be a part of his world... or so he thinks... and thats why the anguish.. the fear or defeat ...thats looming large at his face ... he cant take it .. he knows only one way to fight it ... my pretending to turn a blind eye to it since he cant change whats already tehre ....!!! he reverts to being old Maan since thats the only place where he thinks he stays undetered where no one gets to decide what he does with his life ... he is his own master ...and he makes sure eeveryone else has no other option but to obey his orders....

- Geet remembering his words is like a talisman to her to not give up on what little happiness she thinks she has found with him. she is going to fight..and i hope she does..that would be my Geet again..fighting..instead of running away.fro she had done that till now..her love for Maan should make her rise..like a phoenix..and...be strong.. and she has vowed as much to herself and even Babaji..he is too important for her give up...

i love the perfect balance the makers have created on the show between the two lovers ... we have all seen the efforts Maan has made so far to make her see what he feels for her .. but now.. its her turn... if she wants him.. she has to make him see why she is the way he is.. she has to bring him out of where he is at the moment .. so that both of them create a new world where nothing else would ever touch them again... i loved Geet more than Maan today ... even cried during her fight with babaji .. and felt horrible at the thought that he is going to be brutal with her for the next few days ...!!! but what amazed me the most was the fact that he didnt hurt her on his own even once-i mean physically .. cos the way he was angry with her he could have given her a through shake up .. jsut shows what MSK becomes when something really hits him hard...

- the biggest symbolism is for us..to understand that anything..worthwhile is not something that will come easily to you..one has to work hard for it. One has to go through trials, stand true to test of time and only then can one reap the fruits of labour...

yes !! nothing comes easy ....!! and only when one goes thro all this ordeal would he realise the value of what he has ...!! take us for instance, had they shown confession by now we would have perhaps had nothing more to expect .. the way they make us see diff angles to the story keeps us by the edge of our seats making the confession more desiraable!!



i shall add more as i think more on this subject...



love,
niha
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Posted: 14 years ago
i think i have read a m&b like this...if i remember correctly, the story goes like this...maan will be very hurtful towards geet, but geet will suffer all the pain without complaint...dev will confess and maan will start feeling sorry that he behaved with her like this...he will decide to marry her so that their waaris is not born illegitimate...but then geet will stand up and say that the baby is only hers and nobody else's....left with no other way, even though he loves her, he cannot show it out...he will threaten her that if she does not marry him, he will go to court and take the baby saying that she is a single mother, who cannot look after the baby properly...geet also will verify this with lawyers, who says it is possible that the court may rule in favor of maan...and then geet will agree to marry maan, but saying i hate u for doing this...later on the roles are reversed, maan tries to help in everything, but she will make stand at a distance, not accepting any help from him even about pregnancy related things....later on she will come to know how without her knowing he has been helping her family etc...and she will accept him....of course, i have changed the names of the characters from the book to our serial....and of course, there will be lot of saas-bahu-sasha-tasha-ntara moments before everything clears....
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calm down sweetie ... i can understand where you are coming from ... i think, what he shared with sameera was very different from what he shared with Geet .. and the very reason why he will want to give her a chance again... we cant say anything after just one epi ... there is so much more to the guy tht .. one episode cannot sum up what he is made of... yes .. he has been hurt .. and perhaps closes himself up on ppl who hurt him as well.. but he is not a man without logic or reason.. he is a perfectionist .. who hates disorder in his life.. and Geet in her place never created disorder .. she just tried to mend the way he looked at life.... and it was not like he didnt like it ... he enjoyed it.. he is just mad at her for not letting such an important part of her life to him.... he suddenly feels distanced from her .. he feels, he was no where perhaps on the scene in her life, when he had started harboring those feelings for her .. and that can be disturbing right???
and when sameera comes in, there will come this point, where, she herself will point out how Maan looks happier at this moment than he ever was ... and it might have been her fault back then!!! she is positive now doesnt mean she was back then.. the creatives always have a way of showing evferything with a twist ..!! this one will be no diff...
and right now we are all bitter cos... friday to monday the wait is a lil painful to take and the episode aired was hard hitting... we aint able to digest it .. thats it ...
wait till they air a promo where he looks a little more responsive ... or wait for tonights episode to air .. things will change .. perceptions will change .. we love MSK soo much we dont wanna see another side of him!! all of this is an outcome of the same...!!! for now.. this is for you...🤗

Originally posted by: aditi123_78

hey did u just say gud night and swt dreams....watz so gud about this night 😭 i am so hurt and angry over wat is hapening...god...y was maan hurting himself...oops it hurts....next thing we r going to hear that guru cant shoot because his arms r hurting....this guru knows how to go into the skin of the character....and the way he broke the bench....only geet can stand thru this....i wud hv ran helter skelter...i thot the next thing maan is going to hit is the one who is standing with tears in her eyes....

maan is of those types who takes pain very badly....he seems to hv a hard exterior but his heart is fragile....
now, i think samira has never cheated on him....it is he who misunderstood her....
let me explain y....first of all we know that samira will be a positive character which itself explains that she cant hv done anything wrong with maan...so wat actually hapnd....my guess is that samira like geet must hv hidden something important of her life from maan (no, i dont mean she was pregnant too....but many things can happen in a girl's life) and wen maan got to know about it he reacted in the same as he is doing now....maybe he did not give samira the chance to explain herself....it seems it is maan's nature that once he is hurt he instantly closes his heart to that person and refuses to listen to anything else....and thus he just gets to know the partial truth...maybe out of anger and pain he left samira and threw her out of his life....and went into a shell from which he remained unaffected by any kind of emotion....

and then geet came and in spite of himself he fell in love again...but once again geet did the same mistake...she hid the most important truth of her life....and again maan reacted in the same way...he is refusing to hear the whole truth and is trying to ignore her in every way possible...

if maan doesnt change himself....then he will be the loser thruout his life...he must learn to give geet a chance to explain herself before making any decision...otherwise he will lose geet...i am sure now that samira's love was also true but maan lost her due to his anger and again he is doing the same thing....

i am really feeling sorry for maan....if he cannot control his anger then he will lose every chances of happiness and love that life will throw at him...

but one thing i found very positive in this epi....geet is determined to tell maan everything....she has made it very clear that she wont let maan leave her so easily....which means maan is no less important to her than the baby....

i am relived to some extent....because i did not want her to leave maan's house...at least she understands that maan needs time to digest the news....

but...from today i hv understood one thing that although we r expecting maan will mellow down with time and will give geet chance to explain....but maan seems to be someone who with time will distance himself from geet and eventually leave her to become a recluse again....

so, i am counting on geet...she is the one who brought maan out of his hermit days and i am sure she is the only person who can do it again....

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baap re!!! someone's really in a foul mood after the episode .... relax sweetie ... i dont think they will bump the baby off for various reasons ...

1. saas-bahu angle ke liye- he is the waaris of the Khurana Khandaan...
2. Dev still doesnt know of the pregnancy ...
3. We all would love to see Maan taking care of Geet and her baby ...
4. The baby is whom Geet is fighting this battle for ... if the baby goes, alot will go too...

and i dont think maan would be this brutal .... if they make her lose the baby .. he will be as much as sinner as Dev is .. i was anyway cheesed off by the fact that he made a pregnant woman run after him like that yesterday ... whatever be the outcome today ...and knowing Maan... who i think the makers totally love themselves .. they wouldnt wanna taint his character this way ....!! in kasauti i hated anurag after he blamed prerna for prem's death ... the love was all ruined after tht ....

thats why ... chill... i feel Maan and Geet will have issues to sort among themselves ...but there wont be anything as big as this...!!

Originally posted by: aditi123_78

as for the precap....i dont want to comment on it till i see tomorrow's epi....because if anything happens to the baby then maneet romance will be lost forever....things can never be pure between them again...also i dont want to believe that maan wont save her even after seeing that she is about to be hit by a car....

plz plz CVs dont make geet lose the child in a way that she can blame maan....that will spoil the show forever...if they r actually planning to kill the baby do it in some other way so that maan cannot be blamed....also, i dont want the baby to be killed now that maan knows about it....i am sure eventually geet will win his heart again and maan will realise that the baby is coming to earth to belong to him only...

another thing....plz dont show dev arriving out of the blue to save geet....that will also not be acceptable...

lastly...let me say that in friday's epi dev was shown as a hunk driving his bike....now the entire thing seems hilarious to me as he had to return from church widout achieving anything....


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