Expectations from Maan !!!

I know after ydays episodes some people are disappointed why Geet does not talk to Maan about her past? My question is is it so easy to do that? I feel so much for Geet and wish not one soul is ever in such a situation. I don't want to see her cry any more. She is already gone thru enuf

• Why did she cry when she said all those things? If she really does not care then why cry?
• Why did she say she has no rights to feel anything for him. Whats stopping her?

And I was just browsing thru some of the past episodes. One where Maan drops Geet home after she falls unconcious where he shows her the signatures on the paper of the land sale deed? There Geet's friends mom clearly says she was married and a shocked Maan is shown and so many instances when Maan might have realized that Geet was either married or probably misunderstood that she had a BF? Why can't Maan think thru it and try and find out about her past and the thing thats stopping her? I wish this happens. It would be such a releif....