Thts so insultin 2 Geet-CVs u r worse thn Maan - Page 2

Originally posted by: vasuja

Yup agree with you... mann reaction was ok nut Geet how can she stand Mann after what he said about her....... It would have be been better if she had slapped Mann taken her bags and come down with full anger and then helps seeing dadi fainted...... She would have been more resspected by Mann then.......But she was sitting and feeling bad for trying to slap mann who bashed her character..... he was worth slapping and if some one whom you respect talk bad about you you would have slapped him harder.

agree on every word. it would have been much more realistic if they showed geet ready to leave but couldn't due to dadi's health. her feeling guilty was totally unreasonable. she should've slapped him and leave the house. at least tried to leave. Maan now wouldn't even realise that he hurt her self-respect and should apologize. they were acting normal like nothing serious happened. I certainly didn't expected this.

i somehow agree....maan has a past and i explained this in another post...he has been betrayed before by a girl and therefore his POV regarding girls r justified.....yes, we can even say that geet was betrayed by dev....but somehow maan's hurt goes deeper...this is logical too because different ppl hv their own ways to cope with their past lives....

wat maan did to geet was an outburst on his part and can be understood given his mental state....seriously such ppl need councelling or they need someone to understand him and heal his wounded heart.

now, as for geet she doesnt know anything of maan's past and she was totally flabbergasted by maan's outburst....maan so far has been angry with him, given her dagger looks and even fired her from her job for no reason....but this time he went too far...
and geet shudnt forgive him so quickly....but here the CVs do not want to hamper the romantic track....
but i can still find an explanation here....geet was about to leave outhouse....she was almost determined not to succumb to maan's anger this time....she even said she shud wud stay on the streets but not with maan....she was packing her bag....but then dadi fell ill and we all know wat hapnd....dadi did not let her go....maybe she will stop geet by giving her kasam and all....
well then in darga geet will realise her love.....now maan has done a lot for her both in hoshiarpur and delhi wen she was a noone to her....one event cant change geet's opinion of maan...

evn that geet is in delhi away from her family is because of maan....he gv her confidence to stand on her own feet.....
i agree that doesnt give maan right to humiliate geet.....but then it depends.....wen u r in love....forgiveness just follows....i am sure if any other man other than maan wud hv said those things to geet....she wud never hv forgiven him.

Originally posted by: aditi123_78

i somehow agree....maan has a past and i explained this in another post...he has been betrayed before by a girl and therefore his POV regarding girls r justified.....yes, we can even say that geet was betrayed by dev....but somehow maan's hurt goes deeper...this is logical too because different ppl hv their own ways to cope with their past lives....

wat maan did to geet was an outburst on his part and can be understood given his mental state....seriously such ppl need councelling or they need someone to understand him and heal his wounded heart.

now, as for geet she doesnt know anything of maan's past and she was totally flabbergasted by maan's outburst....maan so far has been angry with him, given her dagger looks and even fired her from her job for no reason....but this time he went too far...
and geet shudnt forgive him so quickly....but here the CVs do not want to hamper the romantic track....
but i can still find an explanation here....geet was about to leave outhouse....she was almost determined not to succumb to maan's anger this time....she even said she shud wud stay on the streets but not with maan....she was packing her bag....but then dadi fell ill and we all know wat hapnd....dadi did not let her go....maybe she will stop geet by giving her kasam and all....
well then in darga geet will realise her love.....now maan has done a lot for her both in hoshiarpur and delhi wen she was a noone to her....one event cant change geet's opinion of maan...

evn that geet is in delhi away from her family is because of maan....he gv her confidence to stand on her own feet.....
i agree that doesnt give maan right to humiliate geet.....but then it depends.....wen u r in love....forgiveness just follows....i am sure if any other man other than maan wud hv said those things to geet....she wud never hv forgiven him.

aditi.. i disagree with Geet forgiving Maan.. coz.. she hasnt realized it is luv as of yet.. even if its luv.. she has to voice the ill treatment and demand an explanation.. i dont agree with Geet taking thngs cooly as if nothin serious happened .. she did go off running on Maan's calling.. and was obedient jst as b4... it seemed as if the incident didnt affect her at all... she shud simply not talk to Maan if its luv or respect untill he realizes it was wrong.. and give him back, if its not luv....

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Manisha I think we r making few assumptions too fast even before the realisation is shown..tell me did Geet really had any realisation in yesterday's episode...I don't think so🤔...She just made one comment that why does it affect her the most when it comes from Maan..thats it...she never made statements like "Oh I m feeling something for Maan"😆...Then how can we conclude that Geet's relaisation is shown superfast..who knows that precap might come next week only after Geet is aware of Maan's past or mayb Maan apologises to her..we need to wait for tonight's episode before jumping to conclusions based on one article and that precap...

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Now coming to why Geet din't fight for her self respect...one thing which we all r forgetting is Geet's age..she is just 18yrs old..born and brought up in a conservative male dominated atmosphere where she had to take the permission of so called men in her house even to breathe..She has always been quite vulnerable whenever she got ill-treatment from the men of her house..so all of a sudden when she saw the same coming from Maan..she became clueless and din'tknow how to react...She knew that she is living in Maan's house where she has absolute no say...if she decides to move out of the house..where will she goin a place like delhi ..that too when she is handicapped with a baby in her womb..its the question of survival in a bad hypocratic male dominated society....

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In fact girls like me who live in India know how under such circumstances when agirl gets pregnent before marriage for no fault of theirs r treated in our society..one such example is living in my own building..I hv seen the amount of humiliation that girl goes through in her daily life...Geet too is aware of all this...But with Maan she feels a certain amount of security around hereven if he manhandles her(even though I felt it wasn't exactly manhandling..its just wild passion which even Geet might hv enjoyed😆😳)...So in yesterday's episode we saw a confused Geet..at one point she was packing her suitcase and thinking of revolting..but then she thought at least Maan is a better option than the so called wolves of the society who will just rip herapart once she steps out of the outhouse on the streets of Delhi..sometimes your self-respect goes for a toss when it comes to facing the majority and then surviving in that big bad world filled with hypocrats....

I understand Jo.. bt.. its not 2 b understood.. these thngs r 2 b shown on screen... which GEet CVs didnt do... the thng is Geet CVs neither showed Geet's vulnerability or helplessness nor did they show tht Geet stood 4 herself and her self respect.. if thngs go this way.. how is she gonna stand 4 her child.. CVs need to build up her character slowly to face this ugly truth in future... bt here they simply protrayed tht Geet has no self-respect and hasnt learnt any lesson 4rm her past and is happy 2 b ill treated by every man in her life..

they jst ignored her ill treatment and made Geet act as if Maan did nothing bad.. they didnt even show Dadi feeling sorry or reprimanding Maan properly... and i oppose the Geet's continous ill treatment and no body feeling sorry 4 her.. not even Geet herself.......

Originally posted by: achiever

I understand Jo.. bt.. its not 2 b understood.. these thngs r 2 b shown on screen... which GEet CVs didnt do... the thng is Geet CVs neither showed Geet's vulnerability or helplessness nor did they show tht Geet stood 4 herself and her self respect.. they simply protrayed tht Geet has no self-respect and hasnt learnt any lesson and is happy 2 b ill treated by every man in her life..

they jst ignored her ill treatment and made Geet act as if Maan did nothing bad.. they didnt even show Dadi feeling sorry or reprimanding Maan properly... and i oppose the Geet's continous ill treatment and no body feeling sorry 4 her.. not even Geet herself.......

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Manisha I think we r making few assumptions too fast even before the realisation is shown..tell me did Geet really had any realisation in yesterday's episode...I don't think so🤔...She just made one comment that why does it affect her the most when it comes from Maan..thats it...she never made statements like "Oh I m feeling something for Maan"😆...Then how can we conclude that Geet's relaisation is shown superfast..who knows that precap might come next week only after Geet is aware of Maan's past or mayb Maan apologises to her..we need to wait for tonight's episode before jumping to conclusions based on one article and that precap...

Now coming to why Geet din't fight for her self respect...one thing which we all r forgetting is Geet's age..she is just 18yrs old..born and brought up in a conservative male dominated atmosphere where she had to take the permission of so called men in her house even to breathe..She has always been quite vulnerable whenever she got ill-treatment from the men of her house..so all of a sudden when she saw the same coming from Maan..she became clueless and din't know how to react...She knew that she is living in Maan's house where she has absolute no say...if she decides to move out of the house..where will she go in a place like delhi ..that too when she is handicapped with a baby in her womb..its the question of survival in a bad hypocratic male dominated society.. ..

In fact girls like me who live in India know how under such circumstances when a girl gets pregnent before marriage for no fault of theirs r treated in our society..one such example is living in my own building..I hv seen the amount of humiliation that girl goes through in her daily life...Geet too is aware of all this...But with Maan she feels a certain amount of security around her even if he manhandles her(even though I felt it wasn't exactly manhandling..its just wild passion which even Geet might hv enjoyed😆😳)...So in yesterday's episode we saw a confused Geet..at one point she was packing her suitcase and thinking of revolting..but then she thought at least Maan is a better option than the so called wolves of the society who will just rip her apart once she steps out of the outhouse on the streets of Delhi..sometimes your self-respect goes for a toss when it comes to facing the majority and then surviving in that big bad world filled with hypocrats....

Very well said Jyothi..Even If I am in that position,I wouldnt have uttered a single word!!!The harsh words were unexpected..and geet was really confused..I really liked the episode..

Jo.. i meant CV didnt show her vulnerability or helplessness to stay with Maan inspite of her ill treatment in yesterdays epi.. instead her monologue portrayed her more stupid... and if she stood 4 all wrong doings in the past.. thn y not against Maan.. jst bcoz he helped her in time of need doesnt mean she shud'nt oppose the false accusations on her character... even if she is in luv with him..

Yes I agree

Manisha I must say this is a good debateable topic👏..we can get many opinions..post the link on FB😳 Achha let me give few more instances of Geet's confusion and how she is still immatured in her thoughts and decisions because of her age factor...

Originally posted by: achiever

Jo.. i meant CV didnt show her vulnerability or helplessness to stay with Maan inspite of her ill treatment in yesterdays epi.. instead her monologue portrayed her more stupid... and if she stood 4 all wrong doings in the past.. thn y not against Maan.. jst bcoz he helped her in time of need doesnt mean she shud'nt oppose the false accusations on her character... even if she is in luv with him..

Manisha she wanted to oppose but she doesn't know how to go about it...Like I said she always needs someone who can guide her ..till now Maan was that guide.,..but now when all the flak came from the guide itself...she is clueless what to do and how to counterattack..She is still not matured to that extent where she hv instant counterattacks ready on someone of MSK's stature