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Hey everyone! alright so the discussion of the week is not on romance or anything but people's past. Well more like Geet and Maan's past, that is!
I am not sure if they have mentioned this yet or not, but why do you think Maan is so wary of the women? It seems as if something has happened!
How do you think Maan will react once he knows about Geet's past?
I bet there is going to be a major misunderstanding regarding Geet's past...so any idea what they can be?
Geet seems to be pretty okay right now regarding her past, but I don't think she can confront either Dev or her family ever again...do you think that's good or bad? Why?
One's past makes up their present which determines their future...do you think that's true?
anyother questions? or discussion topics?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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NICE! Open Discussion!

😊 So here goes!

I am not sure if they have mentioned this yet or not, but why do you think Maan is so wary of the women? It seems as if something has happened!

I think something happened with his mom, or his parents. As Pammi (Dev's mom) calls him Chotte Saab, (or something) not Beta . . . and so, I dont think Maan is Pammi's son.

How do you think Maan will react once he knows about Geet's past?

I think he will misunderstand Geet . . . AND get angry. (if the DEV aspect is there) if not he may support her sooner or later after he comes to know the truth.
I bet there is going to be a major misunderstanding regarding Geet's past...so any idea what they can be?

Geet will think Maan knew and was toying with her . . . Maan will think Geet knew? Or maybe that Geet planned to get to him to get revenge? Or . . . Geet is a loose charactered woman.
Geet seems to be pretty okay right now regarding her past, but I don't think she can confront either Dev or her family ever again...do you think that's good or bad? Why?

I think that is bad, as she needs to confront them and get the rights she deserves and the revenge that is within her heart. She should punish them and bring to them what they deserve. It is necessary because than she can move on in life for her baby's sake and for a good future!
One's past makes up their present which determines their future...do you think that's true?

Yes. They were destined to meet under such circumstances which formed Maan and Geet's relationship. And so, this is a good thing as it was meant to be (as seen through the Taveez, and Maan always saving Geet) Their future is meant to come together as seen from their past.


WOWOWOWOW! Long DISCUSSION! BUT IT WAS GOOD!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am not sure if they have mentioned this yet or not, but why do you think Maan is so wary of the women? It seems as if something has happened!

There is a possibility that he has had major issues with a woman in his past and that woman is his mother. The lack of nurturing during early stages of his life must have influenced him enough to be bitter about them. Geet may be the exact reflection of what his mother was, which would make him even more weary to see her going through things which his mother also went through. Maan's childhood has not even been hinted and I don't think it was one filled with childhood fantasies and happiness. The reasons for his occasional unemphatic streak towards women and also towards other people could have answers in the relationship he shared with his parents and the influence it had on his childhood.

How do you think Maan will react once he knows about Geet's past?

It will shock him, of course. He will withdraw from her which she will misunderstand as pushing her away but he will be only trying to sort his own feelings towards her. Her past is a complication which cannot be sorted out very easily and her past involves his brother who himself has loads of history. So definitely there is going to be lots of fireworks, anger filled words exchanged between them and they will take several steps back in their budding relationship. It might even go back to the phase where he was antagonist towards her back when she was with her family but in this case, there will be a touch of personal conflict.
His reaction will also depend on how he will come to know the truth. If Geet tells him calmly without too many dramatics and angst, his reaction may be much more surreal and supporting for Geet.

I bet there is going to be a major misunderstanding regarding Geet's past...so any idea what they can be?
Maan may be disappointed with the fact that Geet never told him from the start about herself. Even if he has stopped her in the past when she was about to reveal, he might still blame her for that. Geet herself cannot handle the conflicts of Maan's emotions as he swings between a jerk and a caregiver. Both of plenty reasons to give the other bunch of misunderstandings and perhaps they might all come true.
Maan may completely misread Dev and may even withdraw from Geet thinking that her and Dev may have a chance.


Geet seems to be pretty okay right now regarding her past, but I don't think she can confront either Dev or her family ever again...do you think that's good or bad? Why?

I think she only looks okay. (Though her yesterday's behavior has thrown me off completely.) She once mentions the emotional roller coaster ride she had had and the influence of that was still not completely gone. She has been bottling up everything - Maan's moodiness, her own issues, loneliness after being away from family, her less than a week marriage and the pure bliss she had felt because of that has all been pushed in the back of her mind as she is struggling with her job. She does not have energy left to do so, but she will have to anyway. She will be little stronger than before even though she might sound even more emotionally strung.
It will not be good for her definitely but this part of her life is going to impact on her view on people a great deal and understands all of Maan's words which he told her back in her town, much better.

One's past makes up their present which determines their future...do you think that's true?

I believe that it is true. It is not possible to take out the past and not be influenced because of it. Maan and Geet are what they are today because of what happened in each others past. The once subtle now obvious tenderness Maan exhibits is because of what he knows of Geet's past. She knows the kind of person he is and he is perhaps one of the very few people in her life she trusts. She strives hard at her work to prove herself better as she understands the image he has of her in his head. All this is adding up to what they are today and what they are today is going to be the foundation for how they will act and react towards each other and situations involving them tomorrow.
They are a dynamic mix of characters, highly volatile. Every act has had an impact on their relationship till date.

Thank you for providing good topics for discussion!

Sookie

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am not sure if they have mentioned this yet or not, but why do you think Maan is so wary of the women? It seems as if something has happened!
It would have to be a past experince..most likey his mother..his relationship with his grandother may seem hilarious to us but if you really look at it, he luks a bit tired out of her nagging maybe becuase his parents are not shown or even hinted about, his grandmother has filled in the post of his mother, and if his relationship with his mother had been on thin ice most of the time then thaqt may explain his attitude towards his grandmother.
How do you think Maan will react once he knows about Geet's past?
It really depends on the way Geet tells him. If it is in a calm and easy way when Geet tels him then Maans reaction will be more supportive towards Geet and the chances of misunderstanding will be less and the chances of their relationship to grow will be higher as well as Maan and Geet will grow more as a people. It is better is Maan knows the truth from Geet than from any other person then Maan will be hearthbroken by the truth. If the thruth has come from naintara and Dev then its very likely that they are going to strench the truth in their favor and make Geet look like the antogonist that is there just as a revenge or for money or maybe another reason. There will be fits and very many tears from both Geet and Maan but in the end Maan will support her because no matter how much they might lie to Maan about Geet, the truth will come out and at the end of the day it will be Geet and Maan together.
I bet there is going to be a major misunderstanding regarding Geet's past...so any idea what they can be
Maan has a hard times controling his anger and if he does find out the truth from some other person then he will have many doubts about Geet and if whatever Geet did, coming to delhi and gwtting a job in his company and then living in his out house was maybe all part of her plan to get close to Dev and he was just part of her plan.
Geet seems to be pretty okay right now regarding her past, but I don't think she can confront either Dev or her family ever again...do you think that's good or bad? Why?
It is in a way both of a good way and a bad way. A bad way has geet is working so hard and trying to make herself a stronger woman by each and passing day and Maan is there to help her be a stronger Geet bt infront of her family she is still not strong enough to face them, maybe a little bit more time and then she will be able to face them headstrongly. In a good way because of the fact that this may be a way that Geet can fully get over her family and Dev and finally recieve the clousure that she came all the way to Delhi for. She still gets really affected if she has the slighest rememberence of either her family or Dev and it reults in her trying to get past it and finally get over it all..
One's past makes up their present which determines their future...do you think that's true?
Yes, Everything is connected. One decision in the past can result in a new path for us in the future, a new situation for us in the future. Everything happens for a reason and the sooner we stop fighting and stop running away from our past the faster we can accept the present and get ready for the future. The very same goes for Maan and Geet, whatever has happened to Geet is somehting to be sorry for but that one decision and some other steps later she is here in Delhi and making a new life for her and her child and moving on and is happier than she ever was when she was in her village with her family.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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why do you think Maan is so wary of the women? It seems as if something has happened!
I used to think it was due to his childhood. Maybe his mum had left him and so he was angry with her. but.. That doesn't make sense because he seems to be against all women. I think it might have to do something with being heart broken by someone in the past. Maybe she left him for someone else and was only after his money. And so he hates all women.
How do you think Maan will react once he knows about Geet's past?
It depends on how he finds out about the truth. But... I think there is bound to be some kind of a misunderstanding which will distance him from geet.
I bet there is going to be a major misunderstanding regarding Geet's past...so any idea what they can be?
I think dev and NT will feed maan some lies and so because he's maans brother Maan will believe him more than Geet. He will tell maan that geet tried to trap him for his money...
Geet seems to be pretty okay right now regarding her past, but I don't think she can confront either Dev or her family ever again...do you think that's good or bad? Why?
I think it will be bad for her because if she doesn't confront either dev or her family then she will never be able to put the whole thing behind her and move on. She will find it hard to accept the love she has for maan.
One's past makes up their present which determines their future...do you think that's true?
In geets case her past makes up her present. Her baby is the reason for her staying alive. And the baby will also determine the rest of her future.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Nice Topic. :D

I am not sure if they have mentioned this yet or not, but why do you think Maan is so wary of the women? It seems as if something has happened!

I think something is strange about how Maan acts around women.? Maybe his parents are involved as Dev's Mum doesn't call him Beta or by his name. Both Dev-Maan are step brothers with possibly the same father? but about Maan being wary around women I think there is someone in his past.. The reason for mee thinking as so is because of Dadi's comment about him opening his heart again?? Maybe that's just me but i think he may have liked someone but he was let down?

How do you think Maan will react once he knows about Geet's past?

I don't think Maan will trust Geet without proof.. He has always stuck by the fact that he needs proof before Geet makes accusations.. Maybe we will see Geet returning to Hoshiarpur to seek help from her family in doing Dev's parda farsh..? I am guessing she will go to Brij and tell him about Dev.. Dev will say that he is married to NT and so he can't be married to Geet.. Brij will then try and kill Geet again as her and the baby will bring shame on the family?? Maan will step in and take Geet's hand and accept her child?

Either that or Dev will accept Geet and they( Dev and Geet's family) decide to get D and G married again but Geet realises her love for Maan and refuses to marry him as she loves Maan now.. :D


I bet there is going to be a major misunderstanding regarding Geet's past...so any idea what they can be?

^^ As above ^^ Only thing is it will be Dev, His Mum and NT's word against Geet's.. so Maan will be in a pedictament as to who to believe?

Geet seems to be pretty okay right now regarding her past, but I don't think she can confront either Dev or her family ever again...do you think that's good or bad? Why?

We all know that either today or tomorrow Dev or her family are bound to come up again and i think with Maan forever telling not to be scared I think that will pay off.. I am sure she will confront them successfully and possibly changed how they think.. Not so much Dev but her family certainly.. Darji will be proved wrong and Brij too.. They will know that Geet is the scared weakling they took her to be.. :D

One's past makes up their present which determines their future...do you think that's true?

Yes.. What we do in our past does make up our present however we mustn't live in the past and remember what we have done or should have done..
I see it like this.. Don't regret anything as at one point in your life that is what you wanted.. :D so maybe you make a wrong decision today but don't ponder over the mistake that's irreversible, its wiser to think about what you must do to ensure you 1. don't do the same mistake again and 2. try and rectify your mistake with your present actions..
Applying that to Geet.. Geet will understand that not to take everything-everyone on face value like she did with Dev however also understand that just because Dev let her down not everyone will. :D

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