Gurmeet's Comments about Personal Life!

maybe-just thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 15 years ago
#1

Now I know many topics have been or might have been posted on this but I just wanted to share what I think. Now please please no bashing or being rude, if you disagree with me in a appropriate manner then I'd really appreciate that but just don't attack me, I can become evil quite quickly if I see people attacking me 😆 LAME JOKE 😆

Anyways I think Gurmeet is right. Commenting on someone's personal life or their loved ones is wrong. I think that people should lay off Gurmeet's personal life! We love him as Maan but that seriously give you no right to say anything to him about his personal life and that too something offensive!

One because its his life, that has nothing to do with us. He is a grown man and I'm sure he can think for himself & make the right decisions. You don't need to say stuff to him about the people in his life. Personally I don't let people comment on my life, because its my own, I don't need people to tell me what right or wrong or who I should have in my life because I know that I'm more than capable of deciding myself, I do have a brain 😆 & I put it to good use! (Yes I'm one of those who's very sure of herself and does tend to sound arrogant except I'm not, I just too straightforward and truthful) I'm not a hypocrite though as I don't bother with other people's lives because it has nothing to do with me whatsoever. Why exactly is there need for people to comment on someone's life? The only time you should really comment is when someone asks you for your opinion other than that it really has nothing to do with you. My motto is live and let live. Just get on with your life, I'm sure you have enough going on without the need to bother with anyone else's life! So just comment on his work, not his life, they are two different things!
Two I understand that he's a celeb and everything that comes with the package! But for god's sake cut the guy some slack. He's here to work, to show us his capability of acting, which he has done so far and Gurmeet has excelled in showing us his acting. Just because he's a Celeb doesn't mean he's not human! As his fan at least you should understand because I'm sure the media won't leave any stone unturned when it comes to celebrities & their "personal lives". *rolls eyes* So when your fans start doing the same thing, what the heck do you go? 😳 Seriously what else are you supose to do??? Personally I feel sorry for famous people 😆 being in the limlight 24/7 😳 so I wouldn't really say anything at all because I'm sure they already have enough to deal with on their plates, without me going off on one! 😆
Three again some might say freedom of expression and la-de-da, well no one's stopping you from expressing yourself, I too agree with freedom of expression but alot of people take advantage of this phrase, they use it to bash someone or justify their opinions when its totally wrong and they know it! There is a limit as to what you say but some tend to go beyond the limit which is just AAAGGGHHH! 😆 I despise hypocrisy and yet I come across it everyday in my life. Annoying! People tend to be malicious with their comments and say "oh freedom of expression" *rolls eyes* it happens and its not nice, whether you think you are just being yourself or its your "right" to express yourself, being vicious is no way to go about it. It honestly makes people look uneducated and very narrow minded. Just like some comment which was left for Gurmeet! Poor guy I don't blame him for being upset. I would lose my marbles. He was really nice about the whole thing, I wouldn't be. I'd completely go mad because I don't take crap from anyone when I myself don't have anything bad to say to them. You know you gotta chill out in life and stop being so damn nosy 😆 life is wayyyy too short to spend your time commenting on other people, just enjoy the time you do have because time flies and once its gone its never coming back!
WAITTTTTTT..I wanted to write something else but I keep forgetting 😆 Don't take this offensively, I wasn't trying to be offensive, I'm just saying what I feel, if you disagree, fair enough your opinion I won't try to change it!
My God, my first (kinda) serious topic on Geet forums 😆 If I write more, I will start getting dramatic and probably turn it into a comedy fest 😆 so let me leave it at that!😳
Do comment and let me know what your opinion is! 😊

Created

Last reply

Replies

21

Views

3.7k

Users

18

Likes

81

Frequent Posters

mysterygurl1427 thumbnail
20th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 6
Posted: 15 years ago
#2
no u r absolutely right faz, hands down absolutely 100000000% correct.

Like i mentioned, if u have nothing nice to say then don't say anything at all.....just keep quiet and get a damn life.....stop looking at and judging others and take care of urself!!!

Yea being an actor all of this is PACKAGE DEAL........but there are limits and from what i read many of those people crossed it.....
just cause u are not actor doesn't mean that u have deal with all the bullsh** that people throw at u.....they deserve respect as welll they are normal hardworking people like us

i am just shocked to see that people can stoop so low in bashing someone for their looks.....it is not the looks its heart the person inside that is beautiful....not the way they look for god sakes

many need to grow up and look after themselves rather then buttin in other people's lives....

khud to apni zindagi nahin sambhal sakte aur dusro ki life ke baare mein kharab kharab boltay hai.

It is just wrong....i am totally against bashing someone like that and i am sure u r too faz.....it is nice of u to take the time to write something like this.....it shows how much of a great person ur urself and how honest and tru u r to urself !!👏 UR TOOOO GREAT FAZ....A WONDERFUL AND BEAUTIFUL PERSON U R....I WISH I REALLY MET U!!! I like people who are honest and respect others.....and are straighfoward.....

thanks for an amazing post.....if i talk anymore i will write on forever and u know i tend to doo that!!

👏
Edited by mysterygurl1427 - 15 years ago
sumaiya-kay thumbnail
21st Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 90 Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 15 years ago
#3
I more than agree with you!.....I dnt understand some people's need to dissect an actors personal life...its just that...PERSONAL....anyways I'll just copy and paste wat I posted on another thread, feeling too lazy to do another writeup

First off he doesn't need to add people to his FB account.....but because his fans want to interact with him he's actually doing them a favour by adding them.....people then come along an abuse the privilege by making nasty comments that are not at all warranted.....yes they are in the limelight and they should take negative comments with a pinch of salt and just let em slide like water off a ducks back.....but these comments are being said directly to him per se and not things he's heard from a third party.....at the end of the day these actors are also human beings with feelings and if one makes comments that are downright hurtful and nasty they will strike back....in fact from what I've seen Gurmeet has been quite tame in his response to these comments......If someone said something like that to me.....then uski khair nahi.....I dnt understand the mentality of such people who think its fine to make abusive comments just because they can and think just because they are 'fans' they have a right to say how actors should live their lives
tanya_vi thumbnail
20th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 15 years ago
#4
Agree with you totally!! You've made an important point there..The same thing happened to Iqbal Khan during his KYPH days. Girls were mad over him to that extent that when he announced his marriage with his lady love Sneha, they started sending hate mails to her😡 Just imagine, poor thing..she was very upset..Finally Iqbal had to come forward & warn his so called crazy fans to back off!!
--Nargis-- thumbnail
17th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 15 years ago
#5
Totally Agree...Fans need to stay within their LIMITS.....personal vs. professional life..they are separate....so lets keep it that way!!
--Nargis-- thumbnail
17th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 15 years ago
#6

Originally posted by: -sum-

I more than agree with you!.....I dnt understand some people's need to dissect an actors personal life...its just that...PERSONAL....anyways I'll just copy and paste wat I posted on another thread, feeling too lazy to do another writeup

First off he doesn't need to add people to his FB account.....but because his fans want to interact with him he's actually doing them a favour by adding them.....people then come along an abuse the privilege by making nasty comments that are not at all warranted.....yes they are in the limelight and they should take negative comments with a pinch of salt and just let em slide like water off a ducks back.....but these comments are being said directly to him per se and not things he's heard from a third party.....at the end of the day these actors are also human beings with feelings and if one makes comments that are downright hurtful and nasty they will strike back....in fact from what I've seen Gurmeet has been quite tame in his response to these comments......If someone said something like that to me.....then uski khair nahi.....I dnt understand the mentality of such people who think its fine to make abusive comments just because they can and think just because they are 'fans' they have a right to say how actors should live their lives



Can you PM me the link to his facebook account or post it here?
rusha4003 thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 15 years ago
#7
Faz, .... my dear ... What gives ??? ...Gurmeet is upset about something ??? ...😕
I'm sorry for being sooo ignorant, but what happened ?
BTW ....what yu've written is totally correct ... we have no right to butt into the personal lives of others .. not just the stars anyone for that matter .,....
Your tirade is justified ... am with you !!!!
SWKIA thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#8

I wrote in another thread in support of Gurmeet tho' I didnt go through the whole thread to clearly understand the whole mess. But just got the point that Gurmeet was concerned enough to write an FB msg as someone was being nasty to his girlfriend.

Now this is what really annoys me about the social sites like FB. one sometimes ends up accepting random people who want to befriend. And instead of being constructive about the whole thing these morons get some cheap pleasure by belittling the friend .This is a real nuisance. I think Gurmeet did well by trying to nip this in the bud and be sensitive to others in his network as well.
But I cannot stand judgemental people and many Indians seem to derive some wierd sort of pleasure by trying to comment preach to whoever they find next. I mean randomly, bada mazaa aaata hain batane mein kaise khayen, piyen, uthen baithen, kya kaam karen, kinse pyar karen, kinse shaadi karen, ka karen, ghar mein kaisen rahen. For such people my answer is STFU😡 style action... no words. I get up and leave when I feel like Im getting unwarranted, gyan (actually more like BS), from random morons.
Edited by SWKIA - 15 years ago
tanya_vi thumbnail
20th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 15 years ago
#9
Usha,somebody posted a very nasty comment about Debina on his FB wall...something like "she's ugly..can't you find a better looking girl?"..u know that kinda stuff..He was quite upset..
VJ-LNMDJ thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 15 years ago
#10
I agree with you , not only Gurmeet, NO ONE shud be indignified by others..... that's the basic tenet of humanity

And Gurmeet is very loving to have protected his loved ones......

I dont know what were the nasty remarks written on FB , but regarding some posts here which said things like he looks better with Drashti than with Debina etc. , I think he shud also understand that it only speaks of how wonderfully he acts in portraying Maan and how wonderful Maneet come out on screen that fans love seeing Gurmeet and Drashti together......... I am not saying they shud criticise Debina or Gurmeet's personal life , but I am sure Gurmeet is mature enough to understand that when such intense love stories are aired as telly shows every evening in people's lives ,and when someone like Gurmeet and Drashti act wonderfully as if to breathe life into them, sometimes their impact is even more than that of movies which last only for few hours and some fans (not all) will also behave crazily.......

Sorry , I mean no offence , just had a point of view to share, and I truely wish the best for Gurmeet and his loved ones, ... but I wud like to believe that with his kind of talent Gurmeet has a looong way to go and will rise higher and higher with his talent....and these things will continue to be part of his life.........along with sucecess, I wish him peace ,

VJ

Related Topics

Geet - Hui Sabse Parayee Thumbnail

Posted by: priya_21

7 years ago

Is life a Dream? S#2/pt 3/4/PG11/16/11 NOV

Hey all of you welcome all in Maaneet sweet world one more painful story i hear " Kitni girhein kholi hai maine" a nd feel this going perfect

Expand ▼
Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".