Gangaa's new avatar and Sagar's desperation

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello and good morning, night, evening, afternoon to all you lovely people 😊 How are you guys doing?
I am thoroughly enjoying the new track of Ganga trying to become independent in her life. She's trying to move on not only in terms of her love life, but also her education. It's always refreshing to see, specially in Indian tv shows, a female character taking steps to ensure the security of her future through education. I am absolutely in love with Gangaa's attitude after facing rejection from Sagar. She finally feels like the Gangaa we saw pre leap. She knows what her priorities should be, and what she needs to do to get a move on in life. This is a very big thing for someone in Ganga's situation. I mean she is a widow living in a retrogress city like Banaras. On top of that she wants to get educated and make something of her life, give it a new meaning & create new boundaries that transcend Sagar. For someone whose entire life revolved around one person, her actions, reactions, were all somehow linked to Sagar, it's life changing

Her aspirations were limited to being with Sagar, while that is in one way good, it limited her as a woman in many other ways, and as a character with probably no room for growth. Till now she was childish, she was still stuck in her adolescent phase. But since the reality check, she has matured so much as a woman who now knows there are other things in life and other ways of moving on in life. I mean she still loves Sagar, and she still maintains that he will come back to her, but the only difference now is that she is not bound by her love for Sagar. She knows he doesn't love her, so now she can do whatever she wants.

Sagar on the other hand, is being a bechara. I get that he wants her to move on, and she is trying to move on, but he needs to give her space. He needs to allow her to take her time to sort things out for herself ,to think clearly. He still considers her his best friend, but he has to understand that constantly reminding her of the pain ain't gon help her. But I still feel bad for him. I am not annoyed by him, infact it's very sweet what he's trying to do. But once love comes in between friendship, there is no friendship left to go back to for one person in the relationship, in this case Gangaa. I really want Sagar to man up, and let Gangaa be. If he wants her to move on, (since he is the reason for her moving on) he should step back. Right now he's acting like a victim. He can't salvage their friendship, but while Gangaa sorts stuff out, he should figure out how he will get out the marriage mess he created with Jhanvi. 😆I am pretty sure he doesn't to get married to her. Can't wait to see his reaction when he learns of their kundali's "matching".

I am dying for some SaGa moments but this is necessary in order for their story to progress to the next stage.
P.s sorry for the long post, had a lot to say. Please do share your opinions 😃

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Posted: 9 years ago
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but i really miss small ganga
this young ganga is not that strong this is what i feel
i want to see strong ganga
its like ganga is begging in front of sagar to accept her
for small ganga her self respect is every thing
but iam not liking the way this ganga is crying and desperate for sagar
i dont expect this things for ganga
she should be strong let sagar realize by his self he too love ganga

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Susan.Dsouza

but i really miss small ganga

this young ganga is not that strong this is what i feel
i want to see strong ganga
its like ganga is begging in front of sagar to accept her
for small ganga her self respect is every thing
but iam not liking the way this ganga is crying and desperate for sagar
i dont expect this things for ganga
she should be strong let sagar realize by his self he too love ganga



Are you even watching the show? 🤔
When has Gangaa ever begged infront of Sagar to accept her? 😕
Did she ever say that no I love you & you've to accept me at any cost? 😕 Or ever begged Sagar plz accept me warna mera kya hoga or resort to any desperate means to achieve him like Jaanvi? 😕
The day she got to know that he doesnt love her, she cleared his path & decided to focus on herself & move ahead in life.
Its Sagar instead who's running behind her & forcing her to move on but laugh & smile for him at the same time.
If not begging in your dictionary means not crying at all over heartbreak & becoming a stone, I'm sorry but no human is like that.
Heck she hasnt even cried that much as one would expect her to. Especially since Sagar was the only person dear to her since childhood.

And what is this she-isnt-like-small-Gangaa rant by random ppl?
Which person in real life is exactly how he/she used to be in childhood? 😕
You change as you grow up. Is that so difficult to understand? 😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashk_



Are you even watching the show? 🤔
When has Gangaa ever begged infront of Sagar to accept her? 😕
Did she ever say that no I love you & you've to accept me at any cost? 😕 Or ever begged Sagar plz accept me warna mera kya hoga or resort to any desperate means to achieve him like Jaanvi? 😕
The day she got to know that he doesnt love her, she cleared his path & decided to focus on herself & move ahead in life.
Its Sagar instead who's running behind her & forcing her to move on but laugh & smile for him at the same time.
If not begging in your dictionary means not crying at all over heartbreak & becoming a stone, I'm sorry but no human is like that.
Heck she hasnt even cried that much as one would expect her to. Especially since Sagar was the only person dear to her since childhood.

And what is this she-isnt-like-small-Gangaa rant by random ppl?
Which person in real life is exactly how he/she used to be in childhood? 😕
You change as you grow up. Is that so difficult to understand? 😳





No iam not watching the show iam just giving my POV like this
mean seriously u asking me this ofcourse iam watching thats why i comment
yes ganga is begging sagar indirectly by emotionally blackmailing sagar
no i didnt mean begging mean not crying and becoming a stone
i mean that small ganga is more strong then this ganga this is the fact
i dont think so she is move on
ganga still feel bad when she see sagar with janvi and she still waiting sagar to accept her
instead of concentrate in her life she is more interesting in sagar life
if in ur dictionary is this call move on
so i cant help it
i rest my case



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sagar values the friendship dearly and that can be seen from the last few episodes and wants her back in his life as before but things have changed and he wants to pretend that they haven't.

You do feel sorry for him as he feels guilty as hell and is trying to get Ganga to move on but doesn't really get the fact it is never going to happen

Gangaa is kinda emotionally blackmailing him telling him to keep away but it's also to save herself from more pain. But the
recent episodes show that she will still be by his side and is trying to expose jaanvi
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Posted: 9 years ago
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yes it is refreshing that gangaa has decided to move on by getting an education and making something of her life. but has she moved on from loving sagar. i think not, she still loves him and he is still a priority in her life. only at the moment she is diverting herself and not wallowing in self pity. but she hasn't moved on.
sagar on the other hand is stuck between a hard place and a cliff. he doesn't want ganga to move on in life without being his friend. she loves him and doesn't want to be his friend anymore she wants to be more and being his friend only keeps reminding her of his rejection. so she has decided to distance herself from him. and this was something he never wanted to be distant from ganga. my guess is that sagar in his childish endeavor to have his cake and eat it to brought ganga sahil his best male friend proposal with the idea that now he could have ganga as a constant part of his life. the knowledge that ganga loves him and believes herself to be his wife never crossed his mind. now if he chooses to be with janvi he has to lose ganga this is something he has just realise and this thought is unbearable to him.

he has not actually made any commitment to janvi, and his proclamation of love was for gangas sake and not janvi. janvi means very little to sagar in the scheme of things but he just hasn't realised just how little. he never wanted ganga to move away from him, ganga distancing herself from him only makes him chase her. he is unable to give her space for fear that he will cease to exist for her. he does want to accept that his feelings are more then friendship, and is trying to pretend that things are the same as before between him and ganga. but they arent. but his greatest fear is not just having to live with guilt but having to live without ganga.

i believe that if ganga were to agree to marry some random guy sagar would have a real and aggressive objection to it, and suffice to say that this would make sagar realise is more dear to him then just a friend.

so here is it not real about ganga's feelings but sagar's
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Loved the way you expressed all the important aspects of Ganga's character in your post 👏👏👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Susan.Dsouza

but i really miss small ganga

this young ganga is not that strong this is what i feel
i want to see strong ganga
its like ganga is begging in front of sagar to accept her
for small ganga her self respect is every thing
but iam not liking the way this ganga is crying and desperate for sagar
i dont expect this things for ganga
she should be strong let sagar realize by his self he too love ganga


I don't think she is being desperate. That was the point of my whole post, to say that she is not being desperate. She's actually making something of her life which is totally awesome!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: RTme0w

Loved the way you expressed all the important aspects of Ganga's character in your post 👏👏👏


Thank you 😊

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