CKP III - Page 81

"To aapko yoon hi daant padwayen? "she was miffed, crossing her arms across her chest

"To hamari chinta kartin hain aap?"Heart he asked solemnly, smiling slowly

"Shaayad"Heart she nodded smiling weakly

Such a serious conversation had such a sweet end to it.

Harit, she is head over heels in love with you. Would love to see change in equation between these two post return in front of their family and how they accommodate their needs and take care of Chandu at the same time.

Raising your own and adopted ...

A topic close to my heart ! We went back and forth on it for few years. My husband wanted 4 kids ! Biologically It was riskier for me to deliver more than two. So initially I suggested we will adopt two more. But I also feared that I might be partial to the other two. I was scared and didn't believe in myself and dropped the plan.

Nisha, Even though u showed a glimpse of the conversation, I know how emotional it can turn out to be for both of them.

👍🏼 as usual !

Originally posted by: jaschick

Raising your own and adopted ...

A topic close to my heart ! We went back and forth on it for few years. My husband wanted 4 kids ! Biologically It was riskier for me to deliver more than two. So initially I suggested we will adopt two more. But I also feared that I might be partial to the other two. I was scared and didn't believe in myself and dropped the plan.

Nisha, Even though u showed a glimpse of the conversation, I know how emotional it can turn out to be for both of them.

👍🏼 as usual !

Lighter side of it ... how do you feel about not running around to buy shoes last minute for another two of yours 😊

It's such a wide chasm this ... the way the family dynamics and autonomy come in to
Play given both Bareilly and Roorkie are joint family setups. There in lies the struggle for Avantika and Harit to come to terms with the differences.

A 28 yr old man must be able to take his own decisions without having to ask anybody on either his passion for rafting or his choice of going to whichever place he wants to honeymoon as it is his life after all but to put perspective to Senior vaidya's admonishing , it was not their disappointment with their choice of place or the rafting bit , it was more the lack of transparency that has upset the vaidyas .

In a way the power structure is also based on how Home finances work ... where is Harit there in that hierarchy.

Having children is supposed to be the most natural progression of marriage but for these two if only it was simple as that. For two highly opinionated and spirited individuals like Avantika and Harit, it's also a question of how ready they are for that kind of responsibility emotionally and financially.
On this count , Abhi dilli door hai for these two.

Take Gangajal to Lacchu and give her some Prashad to her ... she should be off their backs 😆 .

Hello Vaidya family-specifically senior Vaidyas - you all thought it weird they didn't go for a honeymoon, now when he takes her, you can get upset he didn't tell you, but you shouldn't be surprised. Come on guys, y'all were young folks at one point. Plus you had 4 kids, so I am pretty sure the deed was done on the regular. 😆

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

Take Gangajal to Lacchu and give her some Prashad to her ... she should be off their backs 😆 .

Correction... actually lacchu might be over sensitive and emotional because of her already irreparable loss and prashad wont cut it for her considering the risk she sees in rapids and rafting . I'm wondering how much of burden of expectations is Harit shouldering... and not by choice for sure. Hemant was supposed to carry the mantle professionally... Hemant is gone... so no risky adventures like rafting that could cost them...

He has to do it in stealth mode for offloading the weight of it like taking a mini break such as this but he knows he has to pay a price for this.. and that he will willingly pay much to his wife's angst and displeasure.

Jas

At 60 or 70 or 80 if the first person they dial when they are happy or worried is each other, then I think its a fantastic tribute to the love they share

One of my Mannis/Mamis ruined the love her husband/my uncle had for his siblings. She is unapologetic, mean and selfish that cannot look past her own kids and their happiness