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Posted: 7 years ago
Teeku is not seeing herself as a part of vaidya unit . Partly because of how different it is both homes , partly because of the fact that she does hv to get ultra defensive justifying to everyone that chandu behavior is new ...

So in a situation such as this where do units reach mid ground.But the priority here is chandu ... they need to get him to back to being that happy kid he was earlier.
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Posted: 7 years ago
I'm the only one in the shop looks like. Will check around ltr. One more pls Nisha if you can accommodate that.
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Posted: 7 years ago
Thank you Nisha.
Waiting for resolution.
Two wrong don't make a right.
Tikku should try an make chandu a better person.
I apprehensive that Alka wouldn't allow her girls to come to tikkus room now.
I don't say what the girls did was right but Tikku needs to understand that they are kids too.
As for Harit I have nothing to say as of now. But he needs to indeed understand that Chandu is now his responsibility as well.
Why did he displace the kid if he wasn't ready to take his responsibility?
If he thinks Tikku spoiled him then now why doesn't he try to improve his behaviour.
Why doesn't he befriend the kid?
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Posted: 7 years ago
Alka made the girls apologize

Chandu didn't.

I think Harit holds this against Tikku.
And I don't see he is wrong in that. If the kid did wrong Tikku should make him realise his mistake. It's mothers responsibility to do so the way Alka did.
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Posted: 7 years ago

"You were so indifferent to Alka Bhabhi and Gauri

"Kya kehte hum? Chandu to kar chuke the na badmashi? she pleaded

He turned and went off to his office at that point, upholding his opinion that she was spoiled enough not to apologize, or coach her ward to apologize


Seems the matter is getting worse. Nisha, please resolve their jhagda.
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Posted: 7 years ago
Two points:
1) Tikku is baffled with Chandu. It's taking a toll over her too. None is understanding or helping her in it.
2) When Harit called her a brat, that did more damage to an already vulnerable Tikku.

The two points adding up might have prevented from extending an olive branch to Alka.

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Posted: 7 years ago
Yes Kalpana, she is opinionated, when it comes to Chandu she is sorta blind
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Yes Kalpana, she is opinionated, when it comes to Chandu she is sorta blind



Right ...now she is hurting as well. The situation with her husband is also making her very defiant but she has to hit midground with Alka and her girls. The small girls need to be comforted by Teeku as much as feel the need for chandu to be reAched out by Harit.
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Posted: 7 years ago
Someone has to get down from the high Horse ?
Who will that be ?
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Posted: 7 years ago
Why is no one taking Chandan to counseling??? This level of anger is not normal and by ignoring it and trying to push it under the carpet, he is going to have even more complicated emotional issues further down the line. 😒
Lakshmi is worried about her son not smiling, lady please worry about your grandson more-the only thing left of your 3rd son. Your son is an adult and can handle himself, your grandson is still a kid and dependent on the adults in his life making the right choices. 😕

Teeku should have made sure Chandan apologizes. There is really no excuse for it.

Harit also should have apologized, there is no excuse for his words either.

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