CKP III - Page 15

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

Cold War is better than an open war of going to Delhi with Chandu now, me thinks. 😆

Strife and Delhi go together for Harit at least with his wife's matters. 😆

Originally posted by: kalavathi5

True, but she can do both-have a cold war and use it as a tool to head out to Delhi with Chandu. The rest of the family (apart from Harit) will be relieved that they don't have to handle Chandu and Teeku for a few days and things can slowly go back to normal, but Harit will know that he is not just in the dog house, but he is also on the shit list for Teeku's family.😆

Ha Ha. Rest of the family but not Lakshmi . She will have another cow if her DIl goes to Delhi with chandu. 😆

Thank you for an early update Nisha.
I am too curious to know how this guy handles the situation now.
That would be test of his character for me.
Until now he is my favourite but this would be determine if he will continue to be one.
Yes, I agree we express our anger with the one who we feel is closest to us. But then we also ensure we do understand them as well and own up to our mistakes as well.
If not anything else he needs to understand she is alone as of now. She is new. She doesn't know everything about Vaidya's nor do they know about her.
The last thing i want right now is someone from Gupta's talking to Harit as I think that might anger him more.
Let's see.

After the last update I am most concerned about Chandu.
I hope the kid has a Maa in her massi. And massi is always there for Chandu and she does show him the right way. Puts things in Prespective for him and he understands that the change will be good for him in long run.
But he too little to understand such things.
Ohh God, please don't make a kid orphan.

No clue what will ensue if tikku goes to Delhi.
I don't think she will be permitted to go to Delhi.
As for Haridwar for sake of Harit and Tikku I want them to go. They will be compelled to talk and resolve in a way if they go there.
And they have lot to talk about to lead a peaceful life.
But then not sure if chandu will be ok in tikkus absence. He will be even more vulnerable now.

who knows it just might be Delhi. Himani could call and ask Lakshmi and Sita ram whether it would be ok for harit and Teeku to visit Delhi with them. Lakshmi might feel its a good idea considering what's happened, but harit wont go because he's pissed and Teeku will surely go because she is pissed.

Not sure if them being apart now will help.
I think it better to face it upfront sort it out.
But Tikku doesn't like fights so it silent treatment from her. It's for Harit to address it I guess.
If she walks away now I don't think that will help. It might be precedent for near future. Running away is not a solution

They didn't talk about anything before marriage.
Both just jumped into this for their own reasons.
But now they will have to have some consensus about how they wish to go ahead with their life together.
If not I guess it will always be this way. Misunderstanding, frustration and fights and / or Cold War.

Teeku...just go with mummy pappa to dilli with chandu on the pretext of carrying something back to UP...and stay there FOREVER.

Oh oh, seems to be a lot going on in Teeku's life. Though Chandu reacted violently on provocation, Teeku has to make him understand that's not acceptable. At the same time saying sorry to Gauri's Mom on behalf of Chandu should be ok too after subtly pointing out that Gauri initiated it. I know as a mom our first instinct is to protect our offspring before thinking rationally.
And coming to the supposedly word wise lawyer - really? Words are sharper than a knife and they do hurt. Are you not the one who said words can make you win or lose a case? Is that only applicable professionally? Harit sahib, aapke words se hamare aur Teeku ke dil mein haar gaye.

I am reminded of this couplet from Thirukkural by poet Thiruvalluvar.


"Yaagaavaar ayinum naa kaaka kaavaakkal
sokappar sol izhukku pattu"

Whatever may be the nature of control one may have on things in the world, failure to be vigilant and have control over his tongue, will lead him to misery and great trouble

And lovely titles as always! Thanks Nisha for wonderful updates keeping us on the edge all the time!